Episode Description

In this episode, I am joined by Cassandra Kalpaxis, a family lawyer, domestic violence educator, and author – and we talk about financial independence for women and the concept of a ‘Dignified Divorce’.

Now, every woman needs to listen to this episode, even if things in the relationship arena are ‘tickety-boo’ because this episode is all about protecting yourself - just in case. Cassandra explains the importance of financial knowledge for women, the importance of understanding one’s rights and the concept of escape funds.

She outlines how to have an amicable separation, how to achieve a ‘Dignified Divorce’ and how to successfully co-parent. She is also a big fan of ‘pre-nups’ – so listen in to hear why.

In addition to being a lawyer, Cassandra is also a passionate Domestic Violence advocate. Her insights into the various forms of coercive control and the ‘generational lens’ on this is really compelling.

This is a really thought-provoking interview that I guarantee you’ll learn a lot from. Cassandra’s practical advice and empowering messages are all about women claiming their independence and make informed decisions about their lives and relationships.

Cassandra’s book Dignified Divorce is available for sale here. As she says – it’s cheaper than a consultation!

Alex xx

Resources

Dignified Divorce – available here.

The Domestic Violence Legal Service – a specialist free legal service for women experiencing domestic and family violence in New South Wales. There are similar services available in every state in Australia.

Connect with Cassandra

Instagram: @cassandrakalpaxis

Website: calpaxuslegal.com.au

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Dignified Divorce

01:55 Cassandra's Journey: From Lawyer to Author

05:20 Navigating Economic Vulnerability in Relationships

08:46 Understanding Financial Infidelity and Abuse

10:40 The Importance of Escape Funds

14:23 Creating a Dignified Divorce

18:06 The Role of Communication in Separation

22:40 Navigating Conflict Resolution in Relationships

26:24 Understanding Prenuptial Agreements

31:20 Educating on Domestic Violence

39:33 Exiting Unhealthy Relationships

42:40 Empowerment and Financial Independence

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Connect with Cassandra

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cassandrakalpaxis/

Website: calpaxuslegal.com.au

Resources

Dignified Divorce – available here.

The Domestic Violence Legal Service – a specialist free legal service for women experiencing domestic and family violence in New South Wales. There are similar services available in every state in Australia.

Connect with Cassandra

Instagram: @cassandrakalpaxis

Website: calpaxuslegal.com.au