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The Danger of Thinking You Already Know

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 Proverbs 18:13Spouting off before listening to the facts is both shameful and foolish.Proverbs Daily is a reader-supported publication. All posts are free, but all donations help spread the message. When you see the word “upgrade,” you’re simply invited to help me make the sacred positively contagious...thank you in advance for becoming a free or paid subscriber.There’s a kind of magic my wife and I have had for decades. We finish each other’s sentences. We’ve done it since before we started dating… and that’s over thirty-six years ago.She knows my rhythms. I know hers. Most of the time, it feels effortless… intimate… even impressive. We laugh at it all the time.And it works great.Until it doesn’t.Because there are moments when we are not in sync. Moments when one of us speaks too soon… finishes a sentence that wasn’t going where we thought… or responds to what we assumed the other meant.And that’s when Proverbs 18:13 shows up right on time:“Spouting off before listening to the facts is both shameful and foolish.”Now, the obvious meaning is clear: Don’t talk before you listen. Don’t blurt out half-baked assumptions.But here’s the not-so-obvious truth:Most people who spout off don’t think they’re wrong. They think they’re right!That’s the danger.This proverb isn’t exposing ignorance. It’s exposing premature certainty.The person who speaks too soon usually believes: “I already know where this is going.” “I already know what you’re going to say.” “I already know what’s in your heart.”And sometimes… we do because sometimes we have known before. That’s what makes it slippery.Past familiarity starts masquerading as present accuracy.Almost a decade ago, during a painful season of separation, this proverb became real in ways that helped eventually save our marriage. During the holidays especially, we found ourselves reacting to versions of each other that no longer existed. We were predicting instead of listening. You can call it “lazy listening.” Assuming instead of asking. Responding to memories instead of being together in the moment.We weren’t actually hearing each other anymore. And Proverbs 18:13 was screaming at us to stop drifting apart!The problem wasn’t that we didn’t care. The problem was that we stopped slowing down enough to learn something new about each other.That’s why the antidote to this proverb isn’t silence. It’s simply hesitation.Just enough pause to let humility catch up to certainty. Just enough space to say, “Maybe I don’t know yet.”Listening is humility in motion.And here’s the mic-drop truth:🔥 The loudest mistake is thinking you already know.When we assume, we stop discovering. When we rush, we miss reality. And when we listen—really listen—we create space for truth, repair, and connection.PrayerLord, teach me to listen before deciding I already know.Today’s ChallengeToday, after someone finishes speaking, silently count to five.If they take that space as an invitation to continue, let them…and then after they finish: count again! Practice the art of active listening.Let curiosity lead before certainty speaks.About the AuthorFred Lynch is a creative communicator, author, and Christian Hip Hop pioneer. To learn more about Fred and what he’s up to now…click here or you can find him in all the socials by searching the handle: heyfredlynch📱Experience Proverbs Daily by Subscribing!Ready to receive daily wisdom directly on your phone?Go to proverbsdaily.org for the app  or just click that Subscribe button right now!Be Wise and Be Well...peace.Thanks for reading Proverbs Daily! This post is public so feel free to share it.

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