Summary

In this episode of Sex, Love and Leadership, Aaron Kleinerman speaks with Spencer Jacobson, founder of Dance Meets Tantra, about his journey through leadership, sexuality, and personal transformation. Spencer shares insights on aligning professional life with personal truth and the power of vulnerability in leadership.

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Key Takeaways

• Explore vulnerability: Embrace vulnerability as a means to enhance leadership and personal growth.
• Align your passions: Integrate personal truths with professional endeavors to sustain joy and creativity.
• Build support systems: Establish layers of support with peers, mentors, and communities for sustained growth.

Resources

• The Embodied Man Online course | https://aaronkleinerman.com/the-embodied-man
• Rebel Convergence event
• Embodied Eros facilitator training
• The Men's Initiation Journey in Colorado Oct 24-30, 2026

About the Guest

Spencer Jacobson — Founder, Dance Meets Tantra

Spencer is a facilitator, DJ, and creative entrepreneur with a passion for the art of gathering humans to play, love, and heal. He is forever a student of the embodiment healing arts - having extensively studied dance, sacred sexuality, somatic experiencing, cranial sacral therapy, and yoga. Spencer is committed to bringing presence, play and possibility to every moment, while walking into the unknown.

Connect with Spencer

• Website: https://www.spencerjacobson.com/

🎧 Listen On: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube

Podcast Resources

• The Embodied Man (Book) — The Embodied Man: Mastering Masculinity in the Head, Heart & Balls is a powerful guide for men who are ready to move beyond performance, fear, and outdated conditioning to become grounded, authentic leaders in every area of life. Blending psychology, somatic practices, spirituality, tantra, and real-life experience, Aaron Kleinerman offers practical tools to help men heal emotional wounds, cultivate healthy relationships, master their sexuality, and lead with courage, presence, and integrity. Rather than simply teaching new ideas, this book invites readers to embody them—transforming knowledge into lived experience. Whether you’re seeking deeper purpose, greater confidence, more fulfilling intimacy, or a stronger connection to yourself, The Embodied Man provides a roadmap for becoming the man you were born to be. → Buy now

Chapters:

• 0:01 - Awakening Leadership: Embracing Authenticity and Aliveness
• 10:43 - Building Support Networks and Brotherhood
• 19:11 - Exploring Fatherhood and Personal Growth
• 27:19 - Exploring Dark Father Leadership and Trust
• 32:50 - Balancing Masculine and Feminine in Leadership
• 39:50 - Redefining Masculinity: Embracing Vulnerability and Self-Discovery
• 47:43 - Navigating Growth and Letting Go in Dance Meets Tantra
• 55:56 - Facilitation vs. Leadership: Embracing Unique Paths