Let’s be real… every time y’all talk about the greatest female rapper, the conversation gets real selective.

This week, Micah B is out, but Alex, AP, Dupree, and returning former cohost Justin B. Smith step in and hold it down.

We kick things off with The Quickie asking one question… who is the greatest female rapper of all time? And from the start, the answers get real. From debates around Nicki Minaj vs. Missy Elliott to conversations about impact, versatility, and who really transcends the genre, the tone is set early.

From there, the episode turns into a full breakdown of female hip hop, past, present, and what’s next.

We get into:

• The Mount Rushmore of female rap and who actually deserves a spot

• The influence of legends like Lil’ Kim, MC Lyte, and Da Brat

• How artists like Sexyy Red and GloRilla are shaping the current sound

• The difference between personality, hits, and real artistry

• Whether a short run is enough to be considered one of the greats

The conversation also explores how the sound of female rap has evolved, who has truly challenged the genre, and what it takes to have longevity in an industry that has not always made space for women, especially Black women.

In the Agenda Moving Forward, the focus shifts to the future. From rising artists like Monaleo to the growing visibility of new voices across cities, the question becomes clear… who is really next to take the torch?

This episode is fun, opinionated, and a real conversation about the culture, the impact, and the evolution of the rap girls.

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This week, Micah B, Alex, AP, and Dupree get into a conversation that goes deeper than expected.

We kick things off with a Quickie segment, Queerchella, where the hosts build their own dream queer music festival, choosing headliners and debating who really deserves top billing. What starts as a fun moment quickly turns into a bigger conversation about taste, impact, and who actually moves the culture.

From there, the energy shifts into something heavier, the reality of silent struggles. From burnout and isolation to masking pain, self medicating, and navigating mental health in a world that does not always make space for it, the crew gets real about what it looks like to be okay on the outside but not on the inside.

They unpack the difference between protecting your peace and isolating yourself, the pressure to stay strong for everyone else, and why so many people struggle to ask for help, especially in Black and queer communities.

The conversation also touches on

Mental health and masking

Friendship, family, and safe spaces

The impact of capitalism on emotional well being

Grief, addiction, and personal healing

Why vulnerability still feels unsafe for so many of us

The hosts also share personal stories they have never fully opened up about, from depression and financial struggles to loss and rebuilding.

This is not just a conversation, it is a reminder you are not the only one going through it.

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This week, it’s Micah B, Alex, and Dupree getting into it.

We kick things off with The Quickie asking a real question… why do people hate the word “situationship” but stay in them anyway? And it quickly turns into a conversation about comfort, convenience, and knowing exactly what something is… but staying anyway.

From there, we get into a conversation straight from the group chat about hookup culture, expectations, and whether things like effort, time, and even money should be considered when it comes to sex and dating. The perspectives? Very different.

Then we get into the main topic: situationships.

We break down:

• What actually defines a situationship

• The difference between dating, exclusivity, and a relationship

• Why so many people end up in them without realizing it

• And why people stay… even when they know it’s not going anywhere

The conversation gets real as we talk about long-term situationships, emotional attachment vs. comfort, and the role fear plays in avoiding real commitment.

We also get into:

• Long distance relationships and why they often turn into situationships

• The importance of communication, clarity, and defining what you’re doing

• And how avoiding hard conversations keeps people stuck

We close with The Agenda Moving Forward, focusing on check-ins, honesty, and being clear about what you want before you waste time in something that was never meant to grow.

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