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What if the person you needed most wasn’t a guru or a hack, but a community that refused to give up on you?

Chad "Grizzly Bear" Bunker shares an unfiltered journey from teenage depression and addiction to relapse, recovery, and the hard-won wisdom that only comes from falling and getting back up. The story is jagged and human: a suicide attempt at nineteen, court dates and probation, detox in Dartmouth, and a recovery house that didn’t feel like progress until it did. Then an indigenous mentor named Emmett opens a door to ceremony, service, and a new way of being that reshapes everything.

The path isn’t straight. Seven sober years, unaddressed ADHD, and grief crack open old patterns. Steroids promise control and deliver chaos. Strongman training becomes both salvation and trap: PRs, medals, and the kind of recognition that rewrites identity, plus a deep sense of Indigenous pride with Mi’kmaq support and a sponsor who believes. Nova Scotia’s and Atlantic Canada’s podiums prove that grit can build a life—but shortcuts always collect their debt. When losses pile up, the crash hits hard, and the mirror is full of a version of self that can lift anything except sorrow.

What changes this time isn’t hype. It’s daily choices. Ten months off steroids. Meetings instead of the liquor store next door. Therapy and prayer. Boundaries and gratitude with bite. We talk about actionable tools: how ceremony and smudge can calm the nervous system; why sharing your feelings early beats crisis management; how community sponsorship and peer support outlast motivation; and why mindset is a practice, not a slogan. This is a story about learning to carry your past without letting it steer, and about turning strength from numbers on a bar to the quiet discipline of showing up today.

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A smudge to clear the air, then straight into the truth: Chad’s boyhood was loud with conflict and even louder with silence. He grew up between homes and expectations, carrying the weight of abuse he didn’t have words for until he finally told his mother. What follows isn’t a tidy redemption arc—it’s a lived map of detours, from city streets and school suspensions to the Nova Scotia Home for Coloured Children, where staff and community offered real care, structure, and the first sense of belonging.

We walk through the flashpoints: a violent confrontation with a stepfather, the pull of group homes that felt safer than home, and the slow work of therapy. Mentors step in: a therapist who sticks, a social worker who advocates, foster parents who push and protect. Out west, the story widens—mountain trails, cross-country skiing, and the Duke of Edinburgh award. Volunteer hours turn into dignity. Music, sport, and ceremony stitch together a calmer centre. Along the way, Chad finds identity in motion: black community gatherings, Mi’kmaq teachings on family, drums he builds with his hands, and a practice of collecting feathers and prayers that keeps him grounded when old storms rise.

This conversation is about more than survival; it’s about choosing what gets to speak for you. We talk ADHD, the institutional habits that both shielded and shaped him, and the moment he realized he didn’t have to let anger narrate his life. The takeaway is practical and human: mentorship matters, structure heals, community saves, and ritual sustains. You’ll hear the messy parts, the funny parts—apple wars and yard boxing—and the quiet parts where gratitude finally has room to breathe.

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A freezing February night, a band with a name you can’t forget, and a conversation between two big guys changed our direction in life. That’s how Big Bears Podcast began—an origin story rooted in a chance meeting, ADHD, sobriety, Indigenous teachings, and a stubborn belief that community is stronger than shame.

We open up about our different paths: early versus late diagnosis, medication alternatives, finding structure through therapy and coaching. We also dive into how sweat lodges, smudging, and daily prayer steadied our restless minds. The Two-Eyed Seeing Approach, a term coined by Albert Marshall from Eskasoni in Nova Scotia, guides us in blending Indigenous knowledge with Western medicine, and shows us that healing doesn’t end with a prescription. You’ll hear how mentors, two eagle feathers, and our first sweat together turned isolation into action, and gifted us the vision and motivation to build something useful for others.

That “something” is The Big Bears Social Enterprise, designed for Indigenous and marginalized young adults to teach them to create their own path in life through innovation, entrepreneurship, and inner wisdom. We sketch out low-barrier-to-entry businesses that include, but are not limited to: Landcaping, pressure washing, window cleaning, car detailing, drone roof inspection, AI-powered businesses, and the creative arts. We also layer in the power of motivational executive function coaching skills, goal-setting, resilience, and a growth mindset. Along the way, we talk about redefining success, why a fist bump can start a career, and how strongman training became therapy that turned anger into PRs and purpose. We also share what’s next: campus partnerships, community workshops, and a growing roster of guests from artists to world-class strength athletes.

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