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Season 4 Episode 10 The Beard Speaks Podcast.

In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat talks about the most common parental alienation tactic, Holiday Hijacking, Why it happens and how it happens to parents all over the world.

Holiday hijacking in parental alienation is when one parent deliberately disrupts or sabotages the other parent's holiday time with the child by creating conflicts, scheduling competing events, or making last-minute cancellations, forcing the child to choose sides, feel guilty, and develop negative views of the targeted parent, thus undermining their relationship for the alienating parent's gain.

How it works

• Conflicting Schedules: An alienating parent might schedule an important event (like a birthday party or holiday dinner) at the exact time the other parent has the child, creating a forced choice.
• Sabotaging Plans: This includes last-minute "emergencies" or sudden changes to prevent scheduled visits or communication.
• Emotional Manipulation: The child is put in the middle, made to feel guilty for wanting to see the other parent, or pressured to adopt the alienating parent's negative views.
• Creating Division: The goal is to make the child see the targeted parent as unreliable, unsafe, or unimportant, especially during significant family times like holidays, according to this article from Simon, O'Brien, & Knapp, which is a core aim of parental alienation, notes Amy J.L. Baker, PhD.

Impact on the child

• Confusion & Stress: The child feels torn and caught between parents.
• Damaged Relationship: It erodes the bond with the targeted parent, a classic sign of parental alienation, according to research by Amy J.L. Baker, PhD.
• Skewed Perception: The child may begin to internalize the alienating parent's negative portrayal, rejecting the other parent without valid reasons.

Music in this episode by Catalano and The Pat Catalano Project

Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness

The Glass Throne (Absent King) - The Pat Catalano Project (Album) Paper Crowns

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Season 4 Episode 8 The Beard Speaks Podcast.

In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat sits down with podcast host, keynote speaker, bestselling author, Eric Rogell.

Eric has been a chef, Creative Director for print publications, sales copywriter, tech founder, and a journalist where he has traveled around the world writing about gear, tech, style, food, cars, and adventure travel for publications including Discovery.com, Men’s Fitness and more.

Over his career, he has interviewed hundreds of people—from celebrities, to athletes, to entrepreneurs, to military vets—getting them to dive deep into their stories, and all the memories, lessons, challenges, and triumphs that made them the success they are today. Valuable insights that collectively paint a picture of what great leaders are made of. And how critical it is to have strong mentors to guide us along the path.

Eric has made it his mission to help people become bold, inspirational mentors igniting motivation, vision, and purpose in your teams and your relationships, both at work and at home.

Contact Eric on his website EricRogell.com

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Get His Book here Lions raised as Lambs

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Music in this episode by Catalano

Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness

One More Time - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness

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Season 4 Episode 8 The Beard Speaks Podcast.

In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat takes a hard look at how rumors and misinformation spread across social media — especially when it comes to public figures and tragic events. Using the recent online storm surrounding Charlie Kirk, Pat explores how digital outrage, conspiracy theories, and comment-section chaos shape the way our society processes truth and grief.

This episode dives into the human side of online reaction culture — how it affects families, fuels division, and distracts from empathy and accountability. Tune in as Pat breaks down the psychology of viral misinformation and what we can do to stop amplifying it.

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Season 4 Episode 7 The Beard Speaks Podcast.

In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat sits down with Crisis Counselor and Life Coach Shawn L. Pearson for an inspiring and deeply personal conversation. Shawn opens up about his own journey through the family court system and how those experiences shaped his mission to help other fathers navigate the emotional challenges that follow.

Together, Pat and Shawn explore the importance of mental health, resilience, and community for dads facing some of life’s toughest trials. From processing emotions to finding strength in faith and personal growth, this episode offers powerful insight and practical guidance for fathers determined to rebuild their lives and relationships.

👉 Tune in for encouragement, tools for healing, and a reminder that no father has to walk this road alone.

Visit Shawn on Facebook Dad2Dad Peer Support Network

Provide peer support and mentorship for fathers whose children's access has been limited by the mother and/or the courts.

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Music in this episode by Catalano

Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness

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Season 4 Episode 6 The Beard Speaks Podcast.

In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat sits down with Jesse Carstairs, host of The Jesse Carstairs Show, for a powerful and eye-opening conversation about faith, fatherhood, and what it truly means to be a strong man in today’s world.

Jesse shares his passion for helping men embrace purpose-driven lives through faith, family, and personal growth. From navigating marriage and parenting to building resilience in the face of life’s challenges, Jesse offers wisdom on how to lead with strength, integrity, and love.

We also explore Jesse’s work in coaching couples and Christian men, guiding them toward deeper relationships, stronger families, and a life aligned with their values. Whether you’re a father, husband, or simply a man seeking direction, this episode delivers inspiration and practical advice you can put into action.

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Music in this episode by Catalano

Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness

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Season 4 Episode 5 The Beard Speaks Podcast.

In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat sits down with Gonzalo Bouquet for a powerful and eye-opening conversation about the corruption and atrocities within the Family Court system. Together, they shed light on how flawed practices impact parents and children, challenge the misuse of authority, and discuss the urgent need for reform. This is a raw and honest discussion you won’t want to miss if you care about truth, justice, and protecting families.

If you or someone you know are being Alienated from your children, Speak out.

Parental Alienation is Child Abuse!!

Where can you find help: Hope In Darkness The Anti- Alienation Project

Music in this episode by Catalano

Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness

One More Time - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness

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Season 4 Episode 4 The Beard Speaks Podcast.

In this episode of The Beard Speaks Podcast, Pat dives into the growing Dads Supporting Dads movement taking over TikTok. From powerful posts about mental health, Parental Alienation, parenting struggles to everyday dads sharing raw, real moments, this trend is changing how fatherhood is seen online. We explore why dads are turning to TikTok to connect, what this means for modern masculinity, and how these communities are creating a safer space for fathers to talk openly without judgement.

Join us as we break down viral videos, discuss the psychological impact of dad-to-dad support, and share practical ways to join this empowering movement in your own life.

Music in this episode by Catalano and The Pat Catalano Project

Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness

Don't Tread on Me - The Pat Catalano Project (Album) Redemption

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Season 4 Episode 3 The Beard Speaks Podcast.

In this episode of The Bead Speaks Podcast, Pat sits down with rising country music artist Aaron Carter to discuss his journey into the Nashville music scene. Hailing from Rockwood, Tennessee, Aaron has quickly made a name for himself with his heartfelt songwriting and impressive musical talent. From his debut single "Hit Rewind" to his 24-track album This Town, Aaron shares the story behind his music, his inspirations, and what’s next for his career.

Guest Spotlight: Aaron Carter
Aaron Carter is an emerging country artist whose music has gained traction on major Spotify playlists like New Music Friday Country, Fresh Finds Country, and Next From Nashville. Since launching his career in December 2021, Aaron has released over 10 singles and has performed across Tennessee and North Carolina, sharing the stage with rising stars such as Brandon Davis, Kasey Tyndall, and Walker Montgomery. His music, often compared to legends like Morgan Wallen and Luke Combs, resonates with country music lovers everywhere, especially his hit song This Town, which paints a nostalgic picture of small-town life.

Topics Covered:

• Aaron’s early beginnings in music and what inspired his career
• The success of his first single “Hit Rewind” and its impact
• The process behind writing and releasing This Town
• Navigating the Nashville music scene as an independent artist
• Upcoming projects and future plans

Connect with Aaron Carter:

• Spotify: Aaron Carter on Spotify
• Instagram: @AaronCarterMusic
• Facebook: Aaron Carter Music
• Website: www.aaroncartermusic.com

Music in this episode by Catalano and Aaron Carter

Burn - Catalano (Album) Into the Darkness

Chevrolet Vacation - Aaron Carter

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