What if the problem isn’t how hard we’re working—but the system we’re working within?

In this episode of The Athlete Confidential, we explore the myth of meritocracy—the belief that success is earned solely through talent, intelligence, and effort—and how it shows up in sports, especially women’s sports. From being told to "just be grateful" for the bare minimum to navigating financial barriers that make even getting in the game a privilege, we unpack how this deeply rooted myth fuels shame, self-blame, and burnout.

Joined by guests Stacey Rutland, founder of Income Movement, and Jenna Gerry & Amy Durrence from Broad Consultants, we examine how structural inequalities—from unpaid internships to wage gaps—keep the playing field anything but level. We also discuss how policies like universal basic income could radically change what access, equity, and athlete well-being actually look like.

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In this solo episode, host Gabbie Ewing shares updates on everything happening behind the scenes at The Athlete Confidential, along with some personal life changes. Reflecting on the transitions in her life, Gabbie is reminded of a significant moment—her retirement from soccer. She discusses five valuable lessons she learned while navigating through change.

In this episode we are joined by Anna Miller, former collegiate soccer player and current overseas goalie who shares her coming out story and the internal struggles she faced exploring her queer identity while maintaining her athlete identity.

Anna made a decision to transfer after her sophomore year despite loving and thriving in the soccer program where she started her collegiate career, a sacrifice that would change the trajectory of her student-athlete experience on and off the field.

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