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  • The Invisible Borderline Man Why Women Don't See Him Coming

    The Invisible Borderline Man Why Women Don't See Him Coming
    2025/09/20
    The Invisible Borderline Man - Why Women Don't See Him Coming

    The invisible Borderline man. Why is he so invisible? Are men diagnosed properly enough with BPD - the answer is no. This doesn't help in many cases. Why do so many women fail to recognize the signs of a man with Borderline Personality Disorder until they are already deeply involved? In this episode, I explore The Invisible Borderline Man — the subtle ways BPD traits show up in men and why women often don’t see him coming.

    I'll look at how cultural expectations, hidden patterns, and codependent conditioning blind women to the early red flags. By understanding these dynamics, you’ll learn how to protect yourself from being pulled into a relationship built on chaos, trauma bonding, and false hope.

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    12 分
  • Borderline Man Unmasked

    Borderline Man Unmasked
    2025/09/15
    Borderline man unmasked

    The Borderline Man Unmasked. Yes, men have BPD too! It is important that women learn more about the many ways the 'Borderline Man' does differ from women with BPD. There are many overlaps but men with BPD do often endanger women more than most BPD women physically endanger men (though some women with BPD are physically dangerous especially with a weapon).
    Women need to unlearn what many young girls learn in childhood about being maternal. Women need to heal their wounds from childhood that sees maternal instincts and nurture be engulfed by Codependency.

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    16 分
  • The Broken BPD Man Fantasy

    The Broken BPD Man Fantasy
    2025/09/15
    The Broken BPD Man Fantasy

    The Broken BPD Man Fantasy is very real for women. Yes, men have Borderline Personality Disorder too! Countless numbers of women suffer with men with BPD in those trauma bonded relationships. Gay men are also suffering in relationships with men with BPD.
    This is part one of 3 podcast episode series focusing on Borderline Men for the women who get into dating and relationships with BPD men that they can't see coming.

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    12 分
  • BPD Love Legacy of Doubt 5 Reasons Why Closure is An Illusion

    BPD Love Legacy of Doubt 5 Reasons Why Closure is An Illusion
    2025/09/13
    BPD Love Legacy of Doubt 5 Reasons Closure is An Illusion]

    BPD Love leaves a legacy of doubt. There are 5 main reasons why closure is an illusion during or after a BPD Breakup, ghos6 and/or discard. People who have been in a relationship or dating someone with BPD desperately want to understand and when necessary find closure. People with BPD (especially untreated) do not do closure. If you continue to try to get closure you will only be strengthening the trauma bond.

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    16 分
  • Quiet BPD 10 Reasons Why It Dsstroys Relationships

    Quiet BPD 10 Reasons Why It Dsstroys Relationships
    2025/09/08
    Quiet BPD 10 Reasons It Destroys Relationships

    Quiet BPD 10 reasons it destroys relationships. Often people in a relationship with someone with Quiet BPD, also known as the Discouraged BPD Subtype, it can take quite a while to understand that your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife has Quiet BPD. People with Quiet BPD internalize most, if not all of their splitting, fear of abandonment, push/pull, relational issues etc and often partners think that the "problem" is they just drink too much, or they just are hot and cold. Identifying that a person with Quiet BPD in your life actually has Borderline Personality can be difficult and the off/on ghosting cycles of many Quiet Borderlines can be so confusing. Quiet BPD is not someone being "less Borderline" or having BPD only mildly.

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    36 分
  • 10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering

    10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering
    2025/09/06
    10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering

    10 ways that BPD relationship recycling actually strengthens your suffering and the trauma/fantast bond hurting you more and activating your nervous system over and over again in ways that are unhealthy, stressful, anxiety-producing and extremely painful. It is so important that people with Codependency recognize why you need the harm reduction of ending BPD relationship recycling and going full no contact and getting into your own therapy and healing process.

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    34 分
  • BPD Love is a Reverse Fairytale

    BPD Love is a Reverse Fairytale
    2025/08/24
    BPD Love is a Reverse FairyTale
    What starts like a pseudo BPD relationships fairytale in reverse ends in emotional devastation—and you’re left wondering what happened. In this episode, I explore why relationships with someone with untreated Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and their supposed
    "Love" feel and are experienced like a reverse fairytale: magical in the beginning, somewhere along the way, sooner or later, traumatic in the end or the many on-going unsuccessful ends in the trauma bond.

    You’ll learn why the intense beginning isn’t real intimacy, isn't real "love" and how idealization flips into devaluation, and why the cycle never leads to a “happily ever after.” This episode is a compassionate wake-up call for those still hoping to get back to “chapter one.” You get what you think is the "happy-ever-after" in the beginning and that starts to unravel into the exact opposite.
    If you’ve been stuck in a looping pseudo love story that keeps breaking your heart, it’s time to understand the pattern—and reclaim your own narrative by breaking free of the quest to get back to the magical fairytale reverse beginning of idealization and intermittent
    reinforcement of a toxic love passed off as a fantasy that you don't want to admit now.

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    19 分
  • Enmeshed in a BPD Relatioship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles

    Enmeshed in a BPD Relatioship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles
    2025/08/24
    Enmeshed in a BPD Relationship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles

    Are you enmeshed in a BPD relationship? Why can’t you let go—even when it’s hurting you? This Codependency Inside Out, surviving cluster B episode explores the 5 trauma-rooted codependent hooks that keep you psychologically and emotionally enmeshed, fueling the cycles, in a relationship with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder.

    From rescuing and self-abandonment to enmeshment and fantasy bonding, you’ll learn how these unconscious patterns pull you deeper into the storm—and how to finally begin breaking free.

    You’ll Learn:
    – What enmeshment really is and why it feels like love
    – How your nervous system mistakes chaos for connection
    – Why self-erasure becomes a survival strategy
    – How to reclaim your identity and rebuild your boundaries
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    17 分