You think you're the only one barely holding it together. You're not.After witnessing 10,000+ men in ceremony, Adam Jackson reveals the single poisonous belief that keeps brothers isolated in shame, grief, and pain—and the ancient practice that breaks it open. This isn't therapy. It's drinking from the firehose of what's actually possible when men stop pretending they have it figured out.Sacred Sons founder Adam Jackson shares what emerges when men (and women) create containers brave enough for truth: the contraction before breakthrough, why "who else?" changes everything, and how we're conditioned out of the wonder that could save us.If you've been white-knuckling it alone, thinking everyone else has it together—this one's for you.Connect with Adam Jackson:Website: www.sacredsons.comInstagram: @sacredsons 🔺Key Timestamps00:00 – Opening: Adam Jackson on “Remembrance” and the power of men & women coming together02:12 – Creating safety, brave spaces, and the meaning of true support05:46 – Intergenerational healing & the beauty of being held08:23 – When men and women unite authentically — the village feeling returns10:16 – The ancient future and rediscovering our tribal essence13:18 – What women misunderstand about men’s inner world16:34 – How to support men without trying to fix them20:19 – The internal battle most men are fighting today27:05 – The illusion of isolation — “you’re not alone in your pain”33:33 – Ceremony, rebirth & the reminder that life itself is sacred38:49 – Why we must slow down, return to wonder, and learn from children45:55 – Raising strong boys through presence, not perfection50:00 – The evolution of masculinity and hope for men’s future

Most men are sleepwalking through lives designed by others - trapped in mediocre circles, chasing external validation, and wondering why success feels hollow. This conversation with Matt Bourque cuts through the noise with brutal honesty about what it really takes to build an intentional life.We explore why surrounding yourself with the right people isn't optional, how to audit your current circle without burning bridges, and why your health is the foundation everything else is built on. From breaking free of social media metrics to creating from abundance rather than scarcity, this is about becoming the man who knows where he's going.This isn't about perfection - it's about direction. It's about prioritizing yourself so you can show up fully for others. It's about choosing discomfort over mediocrity and building the life you actually want, not the one you think you should want.Connect with Matt:Instagram: @drivendadmethod 🔥 READY TO STOP DRIFTING? → Take The 7-Day Reset for High-Performing Men: https://www.stumurray.com/7-day-reset Seven questions that separate the men who change from the men who stay stuck. Most won't finish it.ABOUT STU MURRAY & BROTHRI help high-performing men break free from the performance prison that's left them successful on the outside but hollow within. This channel is your roadmap from isolation to brotherhood, from achievement to fulfillment, from doing to being.🔺Key Timestamps :00:01:59 – Why every man should celebrate fitness in his life00:06:27 – The danger and power of comparison in men’s circles00:10:23 – How to limit exposure to toxic friendships00:13:50 – Why joy is found in simplicity, not achievements00:18:40 – Retirement isn’t what you think: losing drive & purpose00:21:15 – The small habit that keeps friendships alive00:25:22 – Why grief and sadness also belong at the table00:30:09 – Anger as a shield for shame and insecurity00:43:24 – “Your vibe attracts your tribe” – owning your energy00:55:49 – Business is better (and more fun) with collaboration

You're overthinking because you've been chasing the wrong kind of clarity. Most men wait until they have it all figured out before making their next move—but that's exactly what keeps them stuck.

In this video, I break down the three lessons that shifted everything for me. If you've been performing for others instead of pursuing what you actually want, this will hit different. The question isn't whether you're ready—it's whether you're willing to start.

🔥 READY TO STOP DRIFTING? → Take The 7-Day Reset for High-Performing Men: https://www.stumurray.com/7-day-reset Seven questions that separate the men who change from the men who stay stuck. Most won't finish it.

ABOUT STU MURRAY & BROTHR

I help high-performing men break free from the performance prison that's left them successful on the outside but hollow within.

This channel is your roadmap from isolation to brotherhood, from achievement to fulfillment, from doing to being.

🔺Key Timestamps :

00:00:18 – Clarity isn’t certainty, it’s direction

00:02:42 – Ask yourself: What do I want?

00:06:15 – Eliminating what doesn’t serve your highest good

00:08:36 – Resistance shows you’re doing something meaningful

00:16:11 – Discipline is trading short-term comfort for long-term growth