As parents, we have been taught to think that kids are "supposed to" go through the "terrible two's" - tantraums, defiance, emotional outbursts - you name it.

But what if those behaviors are more a reflection of unmet needs... and we can do something about it? When we understand our kids through energy needs (aka human design) developmental norms, and start really investigating our own beliefs about kids - things change!

In this episode, let's dig into what's really underneath those toddler behaviors, and what we can do to shift many of them. Plus - you might see some similarities in other relationships in your life too!

I'd love to hear your thoughts!

About your host, Angie Grandt – Generational Healing Specialist

Angie Grandt is a parent coach, on a mission to break cycles of trauma. She is also a Quantum Human DesignTM Specialist, Quantum Alignment System certified, Certified Family & Relationship Coach & an early intervention speech therapist with extensive training and experience in trauma, attachment, and autism. As a bio parent, adoptive parent, and former foster parent, Angie has been in your shoes – through the good, and the scary. Angie is on a mission to help parents who are overwhelmed, frustrated, and questioning their ability to parent their most challenging child. She helps parents with practical tools to connect, enjoy, and even like their child again.

Angie is also the founder of Connected Parents with Angie - a coaching program designed for you - the loving and capable parent who can't figure out why raising your child is so frustrating, so overwhelming, and causing you to question your ability to parent. Using her unique approach of trauma-focused mindset lesson and coaching tools, Angie helps her clients get back to a life they love - creating cherished memories, feeling fulfilled in relationships, and letting go of frustration, resent, and overwhelm. Angie uses a Human Design based parenting plan – the most POWERFUL way to stop losing your cool with your children, and start connecting with them on a deep, energetic level!

Grab your personalized Human Design Chart here: https://www.angiegrandt.com/

If you'd like to see if coaching is the solution for you, check out this mini-podcast series Angie made for you: https://connectedparentswithangie.kit.com/theparentingreset

And when you've decided you're ready to take the leap for your family, book a free consult - Angie will help you decide if coaching is right for you: https://www.angiegrandt.com/sessions

If you are looking to better understand you – your unique challenges, gifts, and your purpose in life – book a Human Design reading! You'll leave with an action plan to tackle your most important relationships, as well as some key insights about your next steps towards your goals! Book here: https://www.angiegrandt.com/choose-your-path

Learn more about working with Angie here: www.angiegrandt.com

And follow Angie: https://www.instagram.com/connectedparentswithangie/

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❤ Angie Grandt, Generational Healing Specialist

In this week's episide, we revisit the concept of co-parenting, as it's one of the trickiest relationships in out life! Join me as we dig into some practical tips to ensure we're putting the kids needs first - no matter what!

About your host, Angie Grandt – Generational Healing Specialist

Angie Grandt is a parent coach, on a mission to break cycles of trauma. She is also a Quantum Human DesignTM Specialist, Quantum Alignment System certified, Certified Family & Relationship Coach & an early intervention speech therapist with extensive training and experience in trauma, attachment, and autism. As a bio parent, adoptive parent, and former foster parent, Angie has been in your shoes – through the good, and the scary. Angie is on a mission to help parents who are overwhelmed, frustrated, and questioning their ability to parent their most challenging child. She helps parents with practical tools to connect, enjoy, and even like their child again.

Angie is also the founder of Connected Parents with Angie - a coaching program designed for you - the loving and capable parent who can't figure out why raising your child is so frustrating, so overwhelming, and causing you to question your ability to parent. Using her unique approach of trauma-focused mindset lesson and coaching tools, Angie helps her clients get back to a life they love - creating cherished memories, feeling fulfilled in relationships, and letting go of frustration, resent, and overwhelm. Angie uses a Human Design based parenting plan – the most POWERFUL way to stop losing your cool with your children, and start connecting with them on a deep, energetic level!

Grab your personalized Human Design Chart here: https://www.angiegrandt.com/

If you'd like to see if coaching is the solution for you, check out this mini-podcast series Angie made for you: https://connectedparentswithangie.kit.com/theparentingreset

And when you've decided you're ready to take the leap for your family, book a free consult - Angie will help you decide if coaching is right for you: https://www.angiegrandt.com/sessions

If you are looking to better understand you – your unique challenges, gifts, and your purpose in life – book a Human Design reading! You'll leave with an action plan to tackle your most important relationships, as well as some key insights about your next steps towards your goals! Book here: https://www.angiegrandt.com/choose-your-path

Learn more about working with Angie here: www.angiegrandt.com

And follow Angie: https://www.instagram.com/connectedparentswithangie/

https://www.facebook.com/connectedparentswithangie

❤ Angie Grandt, Generational Healing Specialist

What if the biggest breakthrough in your co-parenting relationship had less to do with changing the other parent... and more to do with changing the way you experience the relationship?

Whether you're parenting alongside a spouse, an ex, a step-parent, grandparents, or another caregiver, co-parenting can feel complicated. Different parenting styles, unresolved emotions, and conflicting expectations often leave parents feeling frustrated and powerless.

In this episode, Angie explores a different perspective.

Instead of focusing on how to change your co-parent, she shares how mindset, nervous system regulation, and personal responsibility can completely transform the energy you bring into the relationship—and ultimately, the relationship your child experiences.

This isn't about pretending difficult situations don't exist. It's about reclaiming the one thing you always have control over: your own thoughts, feelings, and responses.

If co-parenting has become a source of stress, this conversation will leave you feeling more empowered and hopeful.

• Why your thoughts about your co-parent shape your parenting experience

• How giving someone else responsibility for your emotions also gives away your power

• The role mindset plays in creating healthier co-parenting dynamics

• How emotional regulation changes difficult conversations

• Why curiosity creates more connection than trying to prove you're right

• A simple mindset shift you can begin practicing today

You may not be able to choose how another adult parents.

But you always get to choose how you show up.

And when you change the energy you bring into the relationship, you often change the relationship itself.

If you're ready to move from frustration to empowerment in your parenting, download your free Human Design chart and parenting resources at AngieGrandt.com, or book a free Connection Clarity Call to discover how your family's unique energy can help create more connection and less conflict.

Because sometimes love isn't enough—but understanding yourself is where everything begins.

When our kids behaviors keep getting worse... it isn't just the behaviors that are the problem.

It's our nervous system.

When we are trying to navigate behaviors, and aren't taking care of ourself - our nervous system steps up to "keep us safe" - it's what it's designed to do. But when it's putting us into a constant state of reactivity, we can't help but react to the behaviors - even when we know better.

In this episode - we'll dig into what's going on, and what we get to do about it! I leave you with a few challenges at the end as well :)

About your host, Angie Grandt – Generational Healing Specialist

Angie Grandt is a parent coach, on a mission to break cycles of trauma. She is also a Quantum Human DesignTM Specialist, Quantum Alignment System certified, Certified Family & Relationship Coach & an early intervention speech therapist with extensive training and experience in trauma, attachment, and autism. As a bio parent, adoptive parent, and former foster parent, Angie has been in your shoes – through the good, and the scary. Angie is on a mission to help parents who are overwhelmed, frustrated, and questioning their ability to parent their most challenging child. She helps parents with practical tools to connect, enjoy, and even like their child again.

Angie is also the founder of Connected Parents with Angie - a coaching program designed for you - the loving and capable parent who can't figure out why raising your child is so frustrating, so overwhelming, and causing you to question your ability to parent. Using her unique approach of trauma-focused mindset lesson and coaching tools, Angie helps her clients get back to a life they love - creating cherished memories, feeling fulfilled in relationships, and letting go of frustration, resent, and overwhelm. Angie uses a Human Design based parenting plan – the most POWERFUL way to stop losing your cool with your children, and start connecting with them on a deep, energetic level!

Grab your personalized Human Design Chart here: https://www.angiegrandt.com/

If you'd like to see if coaching is the solution for you, check out this mini-podcast series Angie made for you: https://connectedparentswithangie.kit.com/theparentingreset

And when you've decided you're ready to take the leap for your family, book a free consult - Angie will help you decide if coaching is right for you: https://www.angiegrandt.com/sessions

If you are looking to better understand you – your unique challenges, gifts, and your purpose in life – book a Human Design reading! You'll leave with an action plan to tackle your most important relationships, as well as some key insights about your next steps towards your goals! Book here: https://www.angiegrandt.com/sessions

And follow Angie: https://www.instagram.com/connectedparentswithangie/

https://www.facebook.com/connectedparentswithangie

❤ Angie Grandt, Generational Healing Specialist

Recently, someone asked me:

When do we start to teach kids aobut Human Design?

It's such a great personal develoment tool, that can empower us and help us feel freer to be our authentic selves.

In this episode, I dig into this question.

I'd love to hear your thoughts - have you shared HD with your family?

About your host, Angie Grandt – Generational Healing Specialist

Angie Grandt is a parent coach, on a mission to break cycles of trauma. She is also a Quantum Human DesignTM Specialist, Quantum Alignment System certified, Certified Family & Relationship Coach & an early intervention speech therapist with extensive training and experience in trauma, attachment, and autism. As a bio parent, adoptive parent, and former foster parent, Angie has been in your shoes – through the good, and the scary. Angie is on a mission to help parents who are overwhelmed, frustrated, and questioning their ability to parent their most challenging child. She helps parents with practical tools to connect, enjoy, and even like their child again.

Angie is also the founder of Connected Parents with Angie - a coaching program designed for you - the loving and capable parent who can't figure out why raising your child is so frustrating, so overwhelming, and causing you to question your ability to parent. Using her unique approach of trauma-focused mindset lesson and coaching tools, Angie helps her clients get back to a life they love - creating cherished memories, feeling fulfilled in relationships, and letting go of frustration, resent, and overwhelm. Angie uses a Human Design based parenting plan – the most POWERFUL way to stop losing your cool with your children, and start connecting with them on a deep, energetic level!

Grab your personalized Human Design Chart here: https://www.angiegrandt.com/

If you'd like to see if coaching is the solution for you, check out this mini-podcast series Angie made for you: https://connectedparentswithangie.kit.com/theparentingreset

And when you've decided you're ready to take the leap for your family, book a free consult - Angie will help you decide if coaching is right for you: https://www.angiegrandt.com/sessions

If you are looking to better understand you – your unique challenges, gifts, and your purpose in life – book a Human Design reading! You'll leave with an action plan to tackle your most important relationships, as well as some key insights about your next steps towards your goals! Book here: https://www.angiegrandt.com/choose-your-path

Learn more about working with Angie here: www.angiegrandt.com

And follow Angie: https://www.instagram.com/connectedparentswithangie/

https://www.facebook.com/connectedparentswithangie

❤ Angie Grandt, Generational Healing Specialist

Most parents don't think of themselves as being driven by fear of failure.

We think we're trying to help.
Trying to prepare our kids.
Trying to prevent mistakes.

But underneath many parenting struggles is a deeper fear:

What if my child fails?
What if I fail as a parent?
What if people think I'm doing this wrong?

When fear becomes the driver, parenting often shifts toward control, perfectionism, rescuing, over-explaining, over-helping, or becoming emotionally attached to our child's outcomes.

In this episode, Angie explores how fear of failure quietly shapes family dynamics, how it impacts connection, and why empowering our children requires us to build a new relationship with mistakes—both theirs and our own.

You'll learn why resilience isn't built through avoiding failure, but through learning how to move through it.

Fear of failure and how it shows up in parenting

The difference between protecting and overprotecting

Why your child's mistakes can feel personal

How perfectionism impacts family relationships

What fear teaches our children about themselves

The connection between self-worth and achievement

How Human Design helps us understand different paths to success

Why resilience grows through failure, not avoidance

How to begin breaking the cycle

Your job isn't to make sure your child never fails.

Your job is to help them learn that they can survive failure, learn from it, and still be deeply worthy along the way.

"I just want behavior strategies."

A parent said this to me recently at a workshop—and honestly? I get it.

When your child is melting down, refusing, lying, yelling, shutting down, pushing boundaries, or doing the thing that sends you over the edge… of course you want the trick. The script. The quick fix.

But here's the uncomfortable truth:

Most behavior strategies stop working the moment our nervous system becomes dysregulated.

Because our kids aren't just responding to what we say.
They're responding to our energy, our stress, our pressure, our fear, our urgency.

In this episode, Angie explores why behavior tools alone rarely create lasting change—and why regulation may be the parenting strategy we've been missing.

We talk about:

• Why behavior strategies work sometimes… and completely fail other times
• The hidden impact of parent dysregulation
• Why kids borrow regulation before they build their own
• The difference between controlling behavior and creating safety
• Why awareness and repair matter more than getting it right
• How understanding your own needs changes the way you show up for your child

If you've been collecting parenting strategies and still wondering why nothing sticks…

This episode is for you.

Because maybe the strategy isn't another strategy.

Maybe it starts with you.

This week, I kept hearing the same words from parents:

"I messed up again."

Maybe you yelled. Maybe you snapped. Maybe you said something you wish you could take back.

And if you're anything like me, you know what to do… and yet somehow, in the moment, you do the exact thing you promised yourself you wouldn't.

In this episode, I'm talking about why that happens.

Through a personal story with my granddaughter, I explore the connection between our thoughts, our nervous system, our boundaries, and the old stories we're still carrying—often without realizing it.

This isn't an episode about guilt.

It's about understanding.

Because our reactions don't make us bad parents. They make us human.

And the goal isn't perfection.

The goal is awareness, ownership, regulation, and repair.

We explore:

• Why knowing better doesn't automatically mean doing better
• The difference between responsibility and blame
• How our nervous system stores old fear and reacts to present moments
• Why boundaries often feel harder than reacting
• How our kids mirror what we model
• Why repair matters more than getting parenting "right"

If you've been carrying guilt for losing your cool lately…

This episode is your reminder:

You are not failing.

And every moment of awareness creates a new opportunity to show up differently.

If this resonates, I'd love to support you. Book a Connection Clarity Call HERE, or check out all my offerings HERE