Today, we're explore the question that inspired our podcast: So when do I take my clothes off? However, the real question is much deeper: When do we let ourselves be seen again?

We’re joined by Marcy Dinkins and Lynn Williams, two women navigating dating after 50 following the loss of their husbands. Through very different journeys, they share what it’s really like to re-enter the dating world—awkward first dates, unexpected sparks, shifting identity, and the challenge of opening your heart again. We talk about confidence, independence, dating apps, and the reality of building a new life while honoring the one you had. If this resonates with you, we hope it serves as a reminder that you don’t have to rush, settle, or follow anyone else’s timeline when it comes to dating later in life.

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Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

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