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What happens when "for better or for worse" means dealing with public scenes, bad posture, and cultural clashes?

This week on We're Doing It!, Sofia and Albert return for part two of their summer series on all the things married couples do that make each other cringe.

From Albert calling out Sofia's open-mouthed chewing to Sofia calling out Albert for slumping until he looks like a literal letter 'C', no bad habit is safe! Plus, we're answering listener fan mail about window-lock fart traps in the car, and unpacking why public arguing makes us want to run for the hills.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Listener Fart Stories: Locking the windows for "victory," computer lab biohazards, and why reading your fan mail makes us feel a little more normal.
• Personal Pet Peeves: Open-mouth chewing, Albert’s letter-C spine posture, and the silent "husband look" every spouse knows during public arguments.
• Dropping Pride & Tupperware: Why taking extra food home isn't embarrassing when you’ve been broke, and Albert turning 40.
• Reddit Story Segment: We read a deeply frustrating write-in from a 26-year-old bride whose fiancé refuses to wear his permanent cultural wedding bangle because he claims it looks "unprofessional"—leading to a huge clash over respect, culture, and marriage expectations.

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