Should you correct your spouse or parent with dementia when they get something wrong?

Sometimes accuracy matters. Sometimes it really doesn’t. And knowing the difference isn’t always as simple as following a rule.

In this episode of Dementia Caring with Kerry — A Better Way, Kerry explores what can happen when correcting becomes a regular part of the relationship. Through real-life examples, including the story of Tony and Stella, she looks at how repeated correction can leave a person with dementia feeling dismissed, defeated, or even angry—and why their response may be one of the most important clues we have.

You’ll also hear how to approach situations where accurate information really does matter, such as a doctor’s appointment or medication, without losing sight of the person sitting beside you.

The goal isn’t to memorize a rule for every situation. It’s to better understand your person, recognize what matters in the moment, and respond in a way that protects dignity, connection, and the relationship you share.

RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

🧭 Dementia Caregiver Compass
When dementia leaves you wondering, “What do I do now?” the Dementia Caregiver Compass is a practical guide to help you pause, look again, and choose your next step with greater understanding and confidence.

Download your free Compass here: [Dementia Caregiver Compass]

🌿 Dementia Caring with Kerry — The Family Course
If you want to go beyond individual tips and better understand why these situations happen, Dementia Caring with Kerry was created to help spouses and adult children understand dementia more clearly and respond with greater confidence, compassion, and connection.

Learn more about the Family Course here: [Dementia Caring with Kerry — The Family Course]

Learn more about Kerry, dementia caregiving resources, coaching, and support at: [Kerry Mills]