Confidence gets all the attention.
Momentum does the real work.

In this episode of Shatter This, Heather Simpson dismantles one of the most common myths in personal growth and leadership: that confidence must come before action.

It doesn’t.

Confidence is not the starting line — it’s the receipt.

This conversation is for leaders who are tired of waiting to feel ready, certain, or sure before they move. Because clarity, belief, and self-trust are built through motion, not thought.

If you’ve ever:

• delayed action because you didn’t feel confident yet
• over-prepared instead of starting
• mistaken hesitation for responsibility
• felt stuck even though you’re capable

This episode will reframe how you think about forward progress.

In this episode, Heather explores:

• Why confidence is a byproduct, not a prerequisite
• How momentum shrinks doubt by creating evidence
• The hidden cost of waiting to feel “ready”
• Why hesitation often masquerades as preparation
• How small, imperfect actions build self-trust
• The difference between motion and overthinking
• Why momentum speaks louder than belief ever will

Key takeaway

You don’t need confidence to move.
You need movement to build confidence.

Momentum doesn’t wait for certainty —
it creates it.

Share this episode if:

• You’re done waiting to feel ready
• You want progress without overthinking
• You’re learning to trust action over hesitation
• You’re ready to let movement do the talking

🎧 Listen now — and send this to the person who’s been waiting for confidence instead of creating momentum.

Boredom isn’t the problem.

Avoiding it is.

In this episode of Shatter This, Heather Simpson dismantles one of the most overlooked leadership myths: that success comes from excitement, motivation, or constant inspiration.

It doesn’t.

It comes from choosing work you can stay consistent with — even when the novelty wears off.

This conversation isn’t about grinding, forcing discipline, or “pushing through” misery.
It’s about strategic consistency and why the ability to tolerate boredom is often the difference between people who build momentum and people who keep starting over.

If you’ve ever:

• lost motivation once the excitement faded
• wondered why consistency feels harder than starting
• chased new ideas instead of finishing what works
• felt behind because progress felt… unglamorous

This episode will recalibrate how you think about growth.

In this episode, Heather explores:

• Why boredom is not a failure signal — it’s a stability signal
• The difference between boredom and misalignment
• How novelty addiction quietly sabotages momentum
• Why high performers often quit too early
• The role boredom plays in mastery and trust-building
• Why consistency compounds faster than motivation
• How to choose work you can return to, even on uninspired days

Key takeaway

Success isn’t built on what excites you.
It’s built on what you can repeat.

If you can stay with something when it stops being thrilling,
you can outlast almost everyone.

Share this episode if:

• You’re tired of restarting instead of building
• You want momentum without burnout
• You’re ready to normalize consistency over hype
• You’re committed to long-term results, not short-term adrenaline

🎧 Listen now — and send this to the person who keeps waiting to feel motivated before they move.

Episode 14: The Loneliest Season Is Usually the One That Changes Everything

There’s a part of building no one prepares you for.

Not the grind.
Not the ambition.
Not even the risk.

The loneliness.

In this episode of Shatter This, Heather Simpson speaks to a season many leaders experience quietly... the moment when your vision outgrows your environment, your pace changes, and fewer people fully understand where you’re headed.

This isn’t loneliness caused by isolation.
It’s loneliness caused by transition.

Because when you’re becoming someone new, familiarity can start to feel distant. And when you’re building something that matters, not everyone can walk with you through every phase.

If you’ve ever:

• felt alone even while surrounded by people
• noticed fewer mirrors, fewer invitations, fewer confirmations
• questioned whether something was wrong because things felt quieter
• felt misunderstood instead of supported
• considered shrinking your vision to preserve belonging

This episode will meet you where you are.

In this episode, Heather explores:

• Why loneliness often shows up right before meaningful change
• The difference between being alone and becoming
• How outgrowing rooms, roles, and relationships creates temporary distance
• Why being misunderstood is often part of leadership evolution
• The danger of shrinking your vision to avoid discomfort
• Why the in-between season is rarely crowded — and deeply formative
• How loneliness sharpens self-leadership and internal trust

Key takeaway

Loneliness doesn’t always mean you’re off track.

Sometimes, it means you’re building something that requires space —
and learning to trust yourself before the next room appears.

Share this episode if:

• You’re in a quiet season of growth
• You’re becoming someone your old environment can’t quite meet yet
• You need reassurance that transition doesn’t mean failure
• You’re learning to self-lead without constant validation

🎧 Listen now — and send this to someone who’s walking through a lonely season and needs to know it’s not for nothing.

Episode 13: Stress & Anxiety Can Work For You (If You Let Them)

We’ve been taught to fear stress.
To eliminate anxiety.
To treat both as problems to fix.

But what if stress and anxiety aren’t signs that something is wrong —
What if they’re signals that something is trying to work?

In this episode of Shatter This, Heather flips the narrative on stress and anxiety and challenges the belief that calm is the only marker of success. Instead of fighting your nervous system, this conversation explores how to work with it, regulate it, and use it as information rather than an enemy.

This isn’t about toxic positivity or “just breathe” advice.
It’s about leadership, awareness, and learning how to stay in motion without burning yourself out.

In This Episode, We Shatter:

• Why stress isn’t a personal failure — it’s a physiological response
• How anxiety often shows up when you’re growing, not when you’re broken
• The difference between being dysregulated and being activated
• Why high-capacity leaders learn regulation, not avoidance
• How to listen to your body instead of overriding it
• Practical ways to support your nervous system without slowing your ambition

Heather shares a grounded, real-world perspective for high-performing women who don’t want to shrink their goals just to feel calm — and don’t want to sacrifice their health to succeed.

This episode is for you if:
• You feel “on edge” but also deeply driven
• You’re building something meaningful and feel the weight of it
• You’re tired of being told to slow down when you know you’re meant to move forward
• You want sustainability without losing momentum

Stress doesn’t mean stop.
Anxiety doesn’t mean quit.

Sometimes, they mean pay attention.

And when you learn how to work with your nervous system instead of against it —
You don’t lose your edge.
You sharpen it.

🎧 Listen in and shatter the belief that you have to be calm to be powerful.

Mean girl behavior didn’t disappear when we grew up.
It just got quieter, more polished — and far more destructive.

In this episode of Shatter This, Heather Simpson stops soft-pedaling a truth many leaders experience but rarely name: social manipulation, exclusion, and passive aggression are not leadership styles — they’re outdated coping mechanisms.

This is not a conversation about being nice.
It’s a call-out of bad behavior hiding behind better branding.

Because when power is exercised through silence, favoritism, gossip, or control, trust collapses — and high performers disengage.

If you’ve ever:

• felt an undercurrent in a room that didn’t match the words being used
• watched competence get overshadowed by social politics
• outgrown “community” spaces that relied on unspoken rules
• wondered why certain environments felt heavy instead of expansive

This episode will put language to what you already know.

In this episode, Heather calls out:

• How mean girl dynamics show up in adult leadership spaces
• Why exclusion disguised as “curation” is still exclusion
• The real reason people use social leverage instead of clear authority
• How gossip, silence, and alliances quietly destroy culture
• Why high performers stop contributing in politically charged rooms
• The difference between compliance and true community
• What real leadership looks like when standards replace social games

Key takeaway

If you still need social leverage to feel safe, you are not leading — you’re coping.

Leadership doesn’t rely on manipulation, favoritism, or silence.
It relies on clarity, courage, and standards that apply to everyone.

Share this episode if:

• You’re done playing social games in rooms meant for real work
• You believe leadership requires emotional maturity
• You’ve outgrown environments that reward politics over performance

🎧 Listen now — and send this to the leader who’s ready to raise the standard.

Saying yes can feel expansive.
Open. Generous. Aligned with possibility.

Until it isn’t.

In this episode of Shatter This, Heather Simpson explores the evolution from being energetically open to being intentionally discerning — and why learning to say no isn’t about closing doors, becoming rigid, or losing abundance.

It’s about direction.

This conversation is for leaders who believe in opportunity, growth, and possibility — but are done paying for misalignment with their time, energy, and focus.

If you’ve ever:

• said yes because something was possible, not principled
• delayed a boundary until burnout forced it
• felt scattered instead of expanded by too many opportunities
• worried that saying no would make you smaller or less open

This episode will resonate deeply.

In this episode, Heather explores:

• The difference between openness and availability
• How every yes trains people how to treat your time and energy
• Why saying no is not rejection — it’s refinement
• The hidden cost of staying a “yes” person for too long
• How discernment creates cleaner alignment and stronger leadership
• Using guiding principles as a compass instead of pressure or obligation
• Why sovereign leaders don’t over-explain their no

Key takeaway

My no isn’t closed.
It’s aligned.

Saying no doesn’t mean you’re shutting down possibility.
It means you’re choosing direction — and protecting the future you’re building.

Share this episode if:

• You’re learning to lead with discernment instead of default availability
• You believe boundaries can coexist with openness
• You’re ready for cleaner yeses and more powerful noes

🎧 Listen now — and send this to the yes girl who’s ready to step into sovereignty.

ROI isn’t just a financial calculation.
That’s the beginner’s definition.

Mature leaders understand that everything returns something...
money, time, energy, clarity, identity.

In this episode of Shatter This, Heather Simpson decodes ROI beyond the spreadsheet and reframes it as a leadership filter, not just a metric. Because some of the most expensive decisions you’ll ever make won’t show up in your finances, they’ll show up in your exhaustion, distraction, and loss of focus.

This is an episode for leaders who are done saying yes to things that look good on paper but cost too much behind the scenes.

If you’ve ever:

• felt drained by something that “should” have been aligned
• wondered why profitable decisions still felt heavy
• questioned whether an opportunity was worth the internal cost

This conversation will sharpen how you evaluate everything.

In this episode, Heather explores:

• Why ROI is multi-dimensional, not just financial
• Financial ROI as feedback, not judgment
• Time ROI and why it’s the asset leaders regret misusing most
• Energetic ROI and the hidden cost of constant friction
• Relationship ROI and how proximity shapes performance
• Identity ROI and why some yeses delay who you’re becoming
• How high-level leaders evaluate total return before committing

Key takeaway

Not everything that feels aligned is worth the return.
And not everything that pays is worth the price.

Leadership isn’t about chasing upside.
It’s about making precise decisions that compound over time.

Share this episode if:

• You’re ready to stop subsidizing misalignment
• You want cleaner yeses and easier noes
• You’re building something that needs to last — not just grow

🎧 Listen now and send this to the leader who needs a sharper decision filter.

Vision is celebrated.
Structure is criticized.

But leaders who have carried vision long enough know the truth most people avoid:

Vision without structure doesn’t inspire people.
It exhausts them.

In this episode of Shatter This, Heather Simpson challenges one of the most common myths in leadership... that structure limits creativity, freedom, or innovation. Instead, she reframes structure as what protects vision, sustains momentum, and prevents burnout for the people who believe in it.

This conversation isn’t about control, rigidity, or bureaucracy.
It’s about stewardship.

Because every vision asks something of other people. And when structure is missing, the cost doesn’t disappear it just gets paid in confusion, rework, and emotional fatigue.

In this episode, Heather explores:

• Why vision is not neutral and why it carries responsibility
• How lack of structure quietly erodes trust and morale
• The hidden emotional labor created by unclear expectations
• Why “we’ll figure it out as we go” stops being inspiring
• The difference between control and containment
• How structure turns hope into direction
• Why mature leaders shift from expansion to stewardship

Key takeaway

If your vision needs chaos to survive, it’s not vision it’s impulse.

Structure isn’t the opposite of freedom.
It’s the price of earning it.

And the leaders who understand this don’t just inspire people they build something strong enough to last.

Share this episode if:

• You’re a visionary who wants to scale without burning people out
• You’re ready to lead with responsibility, not just ideas
• You believe structure can coexist with creativity

🎧 Listen now and send this to the leader who’s ready to carry vision well.