What happens when you wonder if you are the kind of person who can actually create the life you want?

In this episode of The Shared Diary, Lori Phillips, Debbie Prediger, and Nicole Cowley explore the stories that keep us from trying, the small actions that build evidence, and practical ways to shift language and behavior so you can start creating change today. We share personal examples, mindset shifts, and simple practices you can try this week.

Includes a mention of Ignite, a 4-week program for entrepreneurs and coaches starting August 19.

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What happens when you accomplish something meaningful but immediately move on to the next goal without taking time to celebrate?

In this heartfelt episode of The Shared Diary Podcast, Lori Phillips, Debbie Prediger, and Nicole Cowley explore why so many of us struggle to recognize how far we have come. They talk about moving the finish line, minimizing compliments, comparing ourselves to others, and believing that success only counts when it looks a certain way.

Together, they discuss whether it is possible to be ambitious and deeply content, why contentment is not laziness, and how competitive sports, childhood experiences, perfectionism, and old beliefs can shape the way we measure our worth.

They also explore imposter syndrome, the importance of taking action before everything feels perfect, and how small, aligned steps can create evidence that you are capable of more than you think. Through honest stories and meaningful reflection, this conversation invites you to redefine success, receive your accomplishments, and remember that you are enough right now.

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What is really keeping you stuck?

In this heartfelt episode of The Shared Diary Podcast, Lori Phillips and Nicole Cowley explore the emotional weight of feeling unable to move forward, even when you have done the work, read the books, listened to the podcasts, and tried to think differently.

They talk openly about the stories beneath stuckness, the role fear plays in overthinking, the pressure of starting over, social-media comparison, and the ways we can abandon ourselves by staying too long in situations that no longer align with the life we want.

Lori and Nicole also share practical ways to move through stuckness, including pausing instead of pushing harder, changing your environment, asking for support, identifying whether you need clarity or courage, and taking one small action before you know the entire path.

If you have been feeling frozen, behind, overwhelmed, or unsure what comes next, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone, you have choices, and stuckness may be an invitation to listen more deeply to yourself.

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What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want is the conversation happening in your head?

In this episode of The Shared Diary Podcast, Lori Phillips and Nicole Cowley explore why we talk ourselves out of the choices we secretly want. They share personal stories about the pressure of "being logical," dealing with the fear of failure, and the relief that comes from finally taking that first step. Whether you are stuck in overthinking or waiting for the "perfect" time, this conversation offers practical shifts to help you build confidence and momentum.

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What happens when you spend your whole life trying to fit in, only to realize you’ve lost the real you in the process?

In this honest episode of The Shared Diary Podcast, Lori Phillips and Nicole Cowley explore the courage it takes to be fully seen. Together they share personal stories about being "chameleons" in social settings, the fear of rejection, the habit of rehashing conversations in our minds, and the journey of reclaiming the truest version of ourselves.

They discuss why it's so comfortable to be who others want us to be, how to recognize the signals in our body when we are "contracting," and the freedom that comes from finally opening the diary and being authentic without apology.

If you have ever felt like you were wearing a mask just to belong, this conversation will remind you that your truest energy is your greatest gift.

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Why do so many women feel guilty for wanting more?

In this honest episode of The Shared Diary Podcast, Lori Phillips, Debbie Prediger, and Nicole Cowley explore the guilt that often comes with growth, success, and believing you are meant for something bigger. Together they share personal stories about ambition, self worth, comparison, and the fear of leaving people behind as your life begins to change.

They discuss why so many women apologize for wanting more, the invisible limits we place on ourselves, the difference between guilt and gratitude, and how giving yourself permission to grow can inspire the people around you to do the same.

If you've ever questioned whether it's okay to dream bigger, pursue more, or create a different life than the one you expected, this conversation will remind you that wanting more does not make you selfish. It makes you human.

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What happens when everyone sees you as "the strong one," but no one asks how you're really doing?

In this heartfelt episode of The Shared Diary Podcast, Lori Phillips, Debbie Prediger, and Nicole Cowley explore the emotional weight of always carrying everything for everyone else. Together they share personal stories about vulnerability, crying, asking for help, setting boundaries, and learning that true strength isn't pretending everything is okay.

They discuss why so many women struggle to say "I need help," the pressure to appear strong, the reality of people pleasing, and the freedom that comes from allowing yourself to be fully seen.

If you've ever felt responsible for everyone else while quietly carrying your own burdens, this conversation will remind you that you don't have to do it alone.

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If you have ever made the “safe” choice and later wondered what would have happened if you had trusted yourself... this episode is for you.

In Episode 3, Lori Phillips, Debbie Prediger, and Nicole Cowley share the small decisions that erode self-trust and the practical, everyday shifts that rebuild it. We tell real stories, offer tools you can use today, and finish with a one-sentence permission exercise to help you choose differently tomorrow.

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Inside the conversation:

• [02:10] A choice I wish I had trusted myself on
• [15:30] Turning regret into a roadmap
• [30:45] Small habits that rebuild confidence
• [45:20] Q&A: How to stop second-guessing
• [58:05] Closing prompt: Your permission sentence

The Shared Diary Questions

What's bringing you joy right now?

What's challenging you right now?

What's inspiring you right now?

What's one thing you're grateful for this week?

What would be different in your life if you trusted yourself just 10% more?

Bonus: What's one small thing you did this week that felt like trusting yourself?

Final Question: "If you wrote one sentence at the bottom of today's diary entry, what would it say?"

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