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Sh*t I Learned From My Divorce

Sh*t I Learned From My Divorce

著者： Trish Guise
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概要

You’re getting divorced now what do you do?

So many decisions to make, so much to fear and no one to help you tell you what to expect…until now.

Every 2nd Tuesday, join Trish Guise, occasionally her husband Barry Guise, and various guests for a chat around the kitchen table about issues that range from deciding to separate all the way to coparenting your adult children.

For 12 years, Trish was knee deep in a very difficult divorce and coparenting situation. She has experienced it all; domestic violence, coercive control, stalking, digital spying, threats, dating after separation, managing a blended family, step-parenting and she has worked with over 29 legal professionals during that time: 6 lawyers, 2 Parent Coordinators, 3 Mediator / Arbitrators, 1 Financial Advisor, 1 Forensic Accountant, 10 Therapists, 2 Reunification Therapists and 4 Judges, and her family is still undoing the damage.

Fast forward a few years and now Trish has made a living out of showing others how to avoid the mistakes she made and how to best advocate for themselves and their children. Separation, divorce, co-parenting, single parenting, step-parenting, are all minefields that nobody prepares you for and its not something that she recommends you try on your own.

This podcast has a simple purpose; to give you a look ahead as to what you can expect, the barriers you may face and offer some ideas on how to minimize the damage a divorce can create.

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  • Episode 13: Leapfrog - Insights from A.J. Grossman

    Episode 13: Leapfrog - Insights from A.J. Grossman
    2023/05/31

    Collaborative divorce; behavioral contract; financial neutral; negotiating with confidence.

    If these terms make your head spin, come along with Trish and special guest A.J. Grossman. as A.J. discusses how his firm untangles divorce law in Florida. Explore A.J.'s philosophy of providing a great client experience service as he answer's Trish's question "Why is a Leap Frog Divorce different than any other divorce"?

    A.J. received his post-doctorate Master of Laws degree in Dispute Resolution from The Straus Institute at Pepperdine University Law School in Malibu, California.

    An accomplished practitioner, A.J. also serves as a guest speaker on a wide variety of topics. Listen along as A.J. describes what a collaborative divorce is and the types of situations that would benefit from this process.

    So come along with Trish and A.J. Grossman an entertaining and informative discussion.

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  • Episode 12: Coercive Control - What is it and what to do about it.

    Episode 12: Coercive Control - What is it and what to do about it.
    2023/05/09

    “Why is this happening to me and how do I make it stop?”


    I’ve lost count of the times someone has said that to me. I used to say it myself…until I learned what coercive control is and what I could do about it.

    The insidious coercive pattern of behaviors can turn even the most knowledgeable and independent person into a terrified, self-blaming, victim.

    Coercive control has been running rampant through society for centuries…no one is immune…most just don’t know it’s happening or don’t know what it is and how to stop it.

    Highlights:

    • What does coercive control look like?
    • Warning signs / Red flags to watch for.
    • Is coercive control illegal?
    • The Courts: how they’ve handled coercive control & how they should handle it.

    Resources:

    Divorce Act Amendments Explained:

    (ACEs) Adverse Childhood Experiences explained:

    The Wild Truth: Children Exposed to Domestic Violence – Lundy Bancroft

    Criminalizing Coercive Control in Canada

    Ontario parents advocating for 'Keira's Law': it could have prevented alleged Sask. abduction | CBC

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    33 分
  • Episode 11: I'm not your Mother - Learn to Love with Thomas Jordan, Ph.d.

    Episode 11: I'm not your Mother - Learn to Love with Thomas Jordan, Ph.d.
    2023/04/04

    Reflecting on his 30+ years in private practice and his own personal experience, New York psychologist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Thomas Jordan crafted his book to share what he has learned about love relationships, how to discern what is going wrong and most importantly, what you can do about it.

    Despite the name, Dr. Jordan’s book isn’t about love…it focuses on love relationships. We repeat what we know, even if we don’t know we know it. The unhealthy information we learned unconsciously about relationships gets replicated repeatedly in our adult lives. Dr. Jordan talks about our “family of origin” being the primary source of what we learn about love relationships just like it is for everything else we learn throughout our childhood.

    Using Dr. Jordan’s “Love Life Psychology” will show you how to analyze your beliefs, behavior and feelings to not only better understand the how, what and whys of your relationships but also to determine the best course of action to make positive changes.

    Highlights:

    1. The whys behind our disappointing love relationships – repair, replicate, recreate
    2. How our “psychological love life” is a blueprint for our relationships – unhealthy and healthy.
    3. “Unlearning” some of the unhealthy messages we received growing up about love and relationships.

    Dr. Thomas Jordan is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst in private practice in New York City.

    He is on the faculty of New York University’s Postdoctoral Program in Psychoanalysis, the author of Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life and founder of the LoveLifeLearningCenter.com.

    Dr. Jordan specializes in the psychological treatment of the unhealthy love life and has been studying and treating them for over 30 years. 

    To contact Dr. Jordan or to purchase his book:

    https://facebook.com/Dr.ThomasJordan

    https://www.instagram.com/lovelifelearningcenter/

    https://twitter.com/LLLearningCtr  

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/drthomasjordan/

    https://lovelifelearningcenter.com

    Sh*t I Learned is now on Patreon:  https://patreon.com/ShitILearned for special perks like VIP access to monthly live Q&A sessions.

    Lots in store for you for the upcoming season…special guests, special offers, my new project…and much more!

    Thank you so much for listening!

    Please leave a rating and review if you enjoy Sh*t I Learned From My Divorced.!

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