“When you stop mothering and start embodying, you become unforgettable.”

We went there with Leola. Straight into the shadows. Into pussy as the temple, the mystery school. Into the raw alchemy of rage, grief, lust, and power. Into the line between being a man’s coach or his priestess, and why only one will unlock real intimacy.

This isn’t theory. This is the truth about tantra, about the shame wired into our bodies, about the centuries-long war on the dark feminine. Leola doesn’t soften it, because she knows: the dark feminine is the portal. To sovereignty. To radiance. To sex that doesn’t just scratch an itch, but changes who you are.

If you’ve ever felt split between the “good girl” mask and the wild one clawing underneath, this episode is your permission slip to burn the script and take back your fire.

Here’s What We Dive Into:

• Nervous system regulation as the gateway to power & pleasure
• What it really means to “descend into your pussy”
• Light feminine, dark feminine, and their shadows explained
• The 3 gifts of the dark feminine: sensuality, emotional alchemy & oracular power
• How culture demonized women’s magic (and how we reclaim it)
• Real talk on tantra beyond the sexual stereotypes
• Why most sex in media & porn distorts reality for women
• Loving men well: priestess vs coach energy in relationship
• Parenting, sex ed & raising kids in a sex-positive home

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“I love wanting you so badly I could tear your skin off — and slowing down enough to feel it in my whole body.”

We didn’t set out to make this an “experiment.” We just had sex one night, remembered how fucking good it is, and said: what if we did this every day for a week?

So this is the real story of what happened when two new-ish parents, with a one-year-old co-sleeping, two businesses under one roof, and not a lot of free time… decided to make sex a daily devotional practice.

Some nights were primal and filthy, some nights tantric and slow, one night was just a blowjob (with all the frills), and one night flopped completely. But every single day cracked something open. More play. More hunger. More aliveness in the house.

We’re not handing out prescriptions here. We’re just telling you the truth of what happened when we made sex non-negotiable for seven days straight.

Here’s What We Dive Into:

• Day 1 in Jacob’s teenage bedroom (Father’s Day sex, primal as hell)
• The reality of parenting + co-sleeping and why intimacy gets shoved aside
• “The tantric night”, soaking, breathing, and being with what is
• Blowjobs as ceremony (why Meg refuses to do them without the frills)
• The dark masculine: ravishing, claiming, and holding hunger with consciousness
• How anal only works when there’s deep surrender and turn-on
• The night that didn’t work, and why forcing sex never feels good
• What seven days taught us about variety, discipline, and devotion

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“Every man deserves a place to unravel, to be witnessed, and to remember who he is.”

In this episode we go straight into the heart of The Gathering of Men, the four-day immersion that has become a fire in the belly of men’s work in Australia. 200 men, fathers and sons, elders and young ones, leaders from across the country… all circling up to wrestle, to sing, to drum, to weep, to celebrate, and to remember what it really means to be a man.

Jacob shares what fatherhood stripped from him, how it forced him into deeper responsibility, and why suffering through life isn’t noble, it’s avoidance. He talks about the three pillars of the Gathering… challenge, celebration, and camaraderie, and why without brotherhood, none of it sticks.

If you’ve ever wondered what happens when men are willing to be raw, messy, creative, and real together, this is it.

🔥Here’s What We Dive Into:

• “Suffering isn’t strength. The pain of becoming is.”
• “Every boy deserves more than one father—he deserves a community of uncles.”
• Why rites of passage matter (and what happens when men never get them)
• How poetry, music, wrestling, and storytelling all belong at TGOM
• The three pillars: challenge, celebration, and brotherhood
• What happens when men stop proving themselves and start remembering themselves
• Why TGOM is a prayer, not a product

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