As part of the Spring Cleaning the Mind theme, Dr. Danielle Colborn and Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart explore a common experience that arises when we try to make meaningful changes: fear. Even when we move toward something positive, fear and self-doubt can appear.

The hosts share their own experience of questioning whether their previous episode was “good enough,” highlighting how easily our minds can create negative narratives that aren’t grounded in reality.

1. Fear often appears at the edge of growth. It doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path.
2. Don’t automatically believe your thoughts. Thoughts are mental events, not necessarily facts.
3. Pause and gather data. Check whether your fears are actually supported by reality.
4. Avoid avoidance. Facing fears in small steps helps reduce them over time.
5. Don’t let perfectionism stop progress. Focus on “good enough” rather than perfect.

Instead of asking, “How do I get rid of this fear?” try asking:

“How can I move forward wisely, even while fear is here?”

March feels like a beginning.

In this season opener of Selves Unedited, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn explore what it means to grow intentionally — not by fixing ourselves, but by making room for what is important and meaningful to us.

We talk about:

1. Why growth isn’t a one-time decision but a return
2. How fear quietly shrinks our lives
3. The cognitive and emotional space taken up by body image, comparison, and self-criticism
4. The illusion that control will make us happy
5. Why meaningful living often requires tolerating discomfort

Instead of asking, “How do I fix myself?”

We’re asking, “What do I want to make room for?”

This episode invites you to consider what’s currently taking up too much space in your mind — and what might become possible if it softened.

In This Episode, We Explore:

1. 🌿 Growth as an intentional, ongoing process
2. 🌿 How perfectionism and comparison crowd out joy
3. 🌿 The protective function of food and body preoccupation
4. 🌿 Fear as both protector and life-shrinker
5. 🌿 The difference between control and care
6. 🌿 Healing as expansion rather than achievement

Reflection Questions

As you move through this season, consider:

1. What is taking up too much space in my mind right now?
2. What feels like it’s shrinking my life?
3. If that softened, what would I have more energy for?
4. What do I want to grow more of this spring?

A Note From Us

A challenging relationship with food, your body, or yourself overall doesn’t just affect how you look and feel. It shapes how you move through the world. It consumes attention. It narrows your focus.

Healing isn’t about achieving the perfect mindset.

It’s about expansion.

More presence.

More energy.

More choice.

We invite you to tune-in and join this journey of growth with us.

Disclaimer

Please remember: this podcast is not therapy or a substitute for therapy. If you or someone you care about is struggling, we encourage you to seek support from a qualified professional.

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In this follow-up episode of Selves Unedited, Dr. Maria-Christina Stewart and Dr. Danielle Colborn return to the topic of authenticity—this time focusing on practical ways to navigate the space between external pressure and internal truth.

They explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) forces that shape our image decisions—everything from fashion trends and social comparison to fears about how we’re perceived. Whether you're a teenager figuring out your style or an adult navigating aging, image, or identity, this conversation offers tools to help you pause, reflect, and reconnect with what you actually want.

What You'll Learn:

🔹 How to tell if a decision is driven by fear or grounded in self-confidence

🔹 The role of language—“I have to” vs. “I want to”—in revealing our motivation

🔹 How social and cultural messages influence our sense of authenticity

🔹 Why image decisions can feel high-stakes

🔹 What true authenticity feels like—and how to move toward it

Notable Insights:

💬 If you notice that it’s fear-based, it might be a clue that it’s not aligned with authenticity.

💬 We’re all influenced—no one is completely untouched. The goal isn’t to escape influence, but to recognize it.

💬 Grace matters. For ourselves, our kids, our families—we’re all doing our best to figure this out.

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