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  • Selective Ignorance R&B Debates | Bonus Episode

    Selective Ignorance R&B Debates | Bonus Episode
    2025/07/11

    In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by music journalist Jayson Rodriguez and cultural curator A-King for a deep, soulful dive into the world of R&B. [00:00] The conversation kicks off with a look at R&B’s cultural impact, tracing how the genre has served as both a mirror and a balm for generations of listeners.

    [03:08] The trio explores the evolution of R&B within the music industry, from its gospel and soul roots to its intersections with pop and hip-hop. They reflect on [06:01] what truly defines R&B, arguing that the emotional depth, lived experience, and vulnerability in the music are what make it timeless.

    [08:48] The discussion shifts to the role of media in shaping R&B’s visibility, and how the genre’s presence has changed on major platforms. From there, they break down [12:07] today’s R&B landscape, spotlighting emerging artists, and asking whether the genre is truly experiencing a renaissance—or if it’s still fighting for space.

    [15:00] Hip-hop’s influence on R&B comes into focus, both as a source of collaboration and creative tension. [17:48] Nostalgia enters the chat as the group reminisces about classic sounds, beloved groups, and the feeling that something essential has been lost in the transition to modern trends.

    [20:40] They dig into the evolution of vocal standards, noting how raw vocal ability has often taken a back seat to aesthetics and production polish. That leads into [23:53] a conversation about the challenges and opportunities shaping R&B’s future—from streaming culture to label support and artist independence.

    The episode doesn’t shy away from nuance. [38:47] They unpack the shift from "thug love" to hyper-masculinity in male R&B, questioning what this means for intimacy and expression. [42:29] The aesthetic evolution of artists—from fashion to persona—gets its own spotlight, while [44:24] nostalgia and critiques of the genre’s supposed "decline" add further layers to the dialogue.

    [50:20] The conversation turns to women in R&B, debating whether they're thriving or still being boxed in by industry expectations. As the energy rises, the group shares their dream lineups for [54:36] future R&B tours and collaborations, imagining what a curated revival could look like.

    To wrap things up, they discuss [01:00:29] the legacy of R&B through the lens of underrated and overrated albums, and [01:09:26] share their predictions and hopes for the future of the genre—highlighting artists to watch, sonic shifts on the horizon, and the timeless power of R&B when done right.

    This episode is a love letter, a critique, and a call to action for anyone who’s ever had their heart healed by a hook or a harmony.

    “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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    1 時間 16 分
  • Ep. 19 | Welcome To Black Effect

    Ep. 19 | Welcome To Black Effect
    2025/07/08

    Selective Ignorance, Welcome To Black Effect! Mandii B invites listeners into her world with a personal look at the journey behind her new book. [00:00] The episode opens with a candid introduction and book promotion, where Mandy shares the inspiration behind the project and the mission she hopes it will accomplish. [02:22] She revisits the purpose of the podcast itself, and the podcast officially joining the Black Effect Podcast Network emphasizing her commitment to challenging conventional thinking and sparking honest dialogue.

    [04:48] Mandy talks about the challenges she faced launching the book, including moments of underestimation and the lessons learned about standing firm in her truth despite outside noise. The conversation then shifts in tone as she recounts [08:10] her experiences traveling through the South of France, blending reflections on self-discovery with stories about cultural encounters and personal growth.

    The episode introduces [19:35] a brand new segment, “Double Down or Take It Back,” where Mandy revisits her own past opinions and decides whether she still stands by them or has changed her perspective. This honest exercise in self-accountability sets the tone for the deeper topics that follow.

    [29:21] The discussion moves into a powerful exploration of sexual assault and consent, where Mandy and her team unpack how societal norms often fail survivors and protect those in power. They examine the importance of clear boundaries, the role of culture in shaping perceptions of consent, and why accountability must be more than a buzzword.

    [39:19] The conversation continues with a look at accountability in relationships, focusing on how both partners must own their part in unhealthy patterns while working toward healing. Mandy shares insights on how personal experiences have shaped her views and how growth often requires facing uncomfortable truths.

    Toward the close, [52:47] the episode broadens into political commentary, with Mandy weighing in on current events and cultural shifts happening in real time. Finally, [01:10:58] she offers predictions about the unfolding Diddy trial, reflecting on the complicated intersections of celebrity culture, power, and public perception.

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    1 時間 21 分
  • Introducing: Selective Ignorance with Mandii B

    Introducing: Selective Ignorance with Mandii B
    2025/07/07

    Selective Ignorance with Mandii B is now on The Black Effect Podcast Network. New episodes dropping every Tuesday.

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    2 分
  • Ep. 18 | Geographical Ignorance feat. Sy Ari da Kid

    Ep. 18 | Geographical Ignorance feat. Sy Ari da Kid
    2025/06/10
    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by personality, podcaster, and Atlanta transplant Sy Ari Da Kid for a spirited, sometimes ignorant—but always intentional—debate on the cultural divide between the North and the South, specifically New York and Atlanta. The conversation unpacks everything from fashion, food, and regional etiquette to politics, gun laws, and religion, all through a lens of lived experience. The hosts challenge one another on cultural bias, safety, and identity, while drawing bold comparisons between figures like Jay-Z, Martin Luther King Jr., and Pop Smoke. With A-King and Jason Rodriguez weighing in, the crew ultimately attempts to settle the score on which region has had the greatest impact on the culture. It’s hilarious, heated, and honest.

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    1 時間 12 分
  • Ep. 17 | Can Women Be Held Accountable For Picking Sh***y Partners feat. Carla Wilmaris

    Ep. 17 | Can Women Be Held Accountable For Picking Sh***y Partners feat. Carla Wilmaris
    2025/06/03
    In this introspective and candid episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B turns the spotlight on the often uncomfortable—but necessary—conversation around accountability in relationships. Specifically, she explores the ways women sometimes overlook glaring red flags in pursuit of love, security, or validation, and how societal expectations can blur the lines between empathy and accountability.

    The episode begins with [00:00] an overview of accountability and relationship choices, inviting listeners to reflect on how early influences and personal history shape who we love—and why. [02:51] Mandii breaks down what red flags actually look like, why they're often ignored, and how our desire for connection can cloud our judgment. [06:02] The conversation shifts to how men and women pursue love differently, highlighting the pressures women face to “make it work,” even when the odds are against them.

    Then, at [09:06] Mandii unpacks manipulation in dating, particularly the subtle financial and emotional tactics that can create long-term harm. Using [12:00] current events involving Skai Jackson and Halle Bailey, Mandii examines how the public reacts to young women in the spotlight choosing partners who may not be ideal—and how those reactions often lack the nuance and compassion real healing requires.

    [15:02] The complexity of young love is laid bare, alongside [17:57] the challenge of balancing empathy for someone’s circumstances with accountability for their choices. Mandii explores [20:48] how age and experience change our perspective, making it easier to spot patterns and avoid repeating mistakes. In a refreshing turn, [23:53] the show takes a moment to celebrate healthy and unexpected love stories, like those of Cardi B and Stefon Diggs, before returning to [27:09] the individual journey of healing, therapy, and growth that precedes real connection.

    By [34:51] the episode dives into emotional triggers, self-awareness, and the role of past traumas in how we show up in relationships. Mandii reflects deeply on [37:53] the societal narratives placed on women, especially around responsibility for making relationships work, and the burden of emotional labor. [40:38] Financial manipulation and power dynamics are explored next, emphasizing how money can be used as both bait and weapon in modern dating. That leads into [43:54] an honest discussion about the consequences of ignoring warning signs, even when they’re flashing bright red.

    [50:53] Mandii shares personal experiences and stories of growth, laying out the uncomfortable but necessary truth: healing often requires accountability—not just for others, but for ourselves. Finally, [01:04:52] the episode closes on a hopeful note, reflecting on the human desire to be loved and how true fulfillment starts with self-completion, not partnership.

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    1 時間 8 分
  • Ep. 16 | Diddy aka Did He or Did She feat. Jason "Jah" Lee

    Ep. 16 | Diddy aka Did He or Did She feat. Jason "Jah" Lee
    2025/05/27
    In this powerful and necessary conversation on Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by special guest Jason "Jah" Lee (Bossip, CNN) alongside A-King and Jayson Rodriguez take a close look at the ongoing Diddy trial and the broader conversations it has sparked around consent, abuse, and accountability—especially when wealth and celebrity are involved.

    The episode opens with a personal [00:00] introduction and book announcement, a quick recap of the Joey Bada$$ vs. The West Coast rap battle before diving into [02:48] the public perception surrounding the allegations against Diddy. Mandii explores how narratives are shaped by media coverage, and the often unfair scrutiny survivors face compared to their abusers. From there, the conversation moves into [05:53] the role of consent in relationships, with a clear and honest discussion on how power dynamics complicate the idea of choice. [08:55] Cassie’s testimony becomes a central focus, prompting a larger reflection on the emotional toll of sharing traumatic experiences in the public eye.

    The episode continues with a critical look at [12:08] how wealth and status can insulate abusers from accountability, and [15:04] the difficult conversations around victimhood, responsibility, and survival. Mandii also delves into [17:58] the gray areas of kink, coercion, and consent misunderstandings, pushing back on society’s tendency to oversimplify complex situations.

    The discussion takes a cultural turn with [20:45] a look at the broader repercussions of abuse in our communities, including [24:01] how gender plays a major role in how victims are viewed and treated. Mandii reflects on [27:13] how society must do more to protect survivors, not silence them. As the conversation deepens, the episode explores [29:58] the need for self-reflection, compassion, and cultural change. It then transitions to [39:19] how apologies and accountability are often performative, especially in the spotlight, and [42:07] how misogyny continues to shape the perception of women in these narratives.

    Mandii and the team unpack [45:08] the toxic impact of celebrity culture, [52:51] how jealousy plays into relationships, and [59:15] the public’s ongoing obsession with fame, asking how it distorts our values and responses to harm. The episode closes with [01:03:25] a forward-looking discussion on what real justice and accountability could look like, both in the court of law and in our everyday lives.

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    1 時間 17 分
  • Ep. 15 | Black Conspiracies & Public Secrets (Allegedly)

    Ep. 15 | Black Conspiracies & Public Secrets (Allegedly)
    2025/05/20
    In this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with her producers A-King and Jayson Rodriguez for a thought-provoking and often humorous conversation that ventures into the world of conspiracy theories, cultural mistrust, and the broader impact of cancel culture. Kicking things off with reflections from the audience and personal anecdotes (00:00, 08:06), the discussion quickly takes a deeper turn as they explore how conspiracy theories have historically — and often deliberately — targeted Black communities (09:04). From the trauma of the Tuskegee experiment to the controversial response to Hurricane Katrina and the narratives around 9/11 (17:10), Mandii and the crew unpack why many remain skeptical of mainstream narratives. They take a closer look at the role of the alleged secret societies in shaping political power and influence (28:26), and examine how alleged rituals, sacrifices, and elite memberships have fueled pop culture paranoia (29:04). Drawing connections between sci-fi themes and real-world suspicion, the group explores whether what we’ve accepted as fact — from space travel to artificial intelligence — may have layers yet to be uncovered (32:21, 35:18, 38:13). The episode also delves into modern theories around COVID-19, population control, and how the internet has amplified conspiratorial thinking (42:13, 45:36). With pop culture increasingly blurring the lines between speculation and reality, Mandii questions how much of what we consume is designed to inform—and how much is meant to manipulate (48:21). As the conversation closes, they examine the intersection of wealth, power, and scandal (52:07), asking whether today's public figures are truly victims of cancel culture or architects of their own downfall. With curiosity, humor, and a healthy dose of skepticism, this episode invites listeners to explore not just what they believe—but why they believe it.

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    58 分
  • Ep. 14 | Are We Racing Against Our Own Biological Clock feat. Lex P, KikiSaidSo & KillahBee

    Ep. 14 | Are We Racing Against Our Own Biological Clock feat. Lex P, KikiSaidSo & KillahBee
    2025/05/13
    On this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a candid, insightful conversation that tackles the persistent myths and societal pressures women face as they approach and cross the age of 30 (00:00). Joined by joined by special guests Lex P (Pour Minds), KikiSaidSo, and KillahBee, who speak from both personal experience and cultural observation, the episode explores how outdated timelines around career success, marriage, and motherhood continue to shape expectations—often creating unnecessary stress and self-doubt (07:36). The discussion challenges the idea that turning 30 signals a decline in beauty, value, or opportunity, and instead reframes it as a time of growth, clarity, and empowerment (14:31, 18:53). From navigating family expectations and breaking free of traditional gender roles (14:31), to redefining romantic partnerships in an era where women are increasingly financially independent (29:03, 39:55), the conversation highlights how modern women are rewriting the rules. Mandii and her guests unpack how financial freedom shifts relationship dynamics (44:34), why prenups are becoming essential tools of empowerment (44:34), and why real connection should matter more than status or security (34:42). They also open up about fears around aging and fertility (18:53, 47:17), offering affirming perspectives on how to embrace each phase of life with grace and power. Wrapping up with heartfelt advice to their younger selves, the conversation emphasizes the importance of confidence, self-worth, and financial literacy (56:36)—reminding listeners that the journey is theirs to define, no matter what the world says.

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    1 時間 8 分