Dev makes the case for marriage. Roger questions the contract behind it. On this episode of See Through, the happily-married host and the happily-single dad go head-to-head on one of the most polarizing questions a couple can ask — is marriage still worth it, or are we just following a script nobody updated?

They dig into the conversations most couples skip before saying “I do”: how you and your partner really think about money, what your parenting style will look like under pressure, the red flags people talk themselves out of seeing, and the difference between being committed to a relationship and being obligated to one. No lectures, no easy answers — just two honest perspectives and the questions worth asking before you sign anything.

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What would you actually do with $10,000 right now — and what does your answer say about you? In this episode of See Through, hosts Dev and Roger get personal about their relationships with money, from sneaker collections and credit card debt to ETFs, day trading, and energy stocks. They break down real strategies for different seasons of life, challenge the get rich quick mentality, and ask the question most people avoid — is your money working for you or are you just working for it? No financial advice. Just two honest perspectives. New episodes every Sunday.

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When things go wrong and your brain goes into panic mode — what do you actually do? In this episode of See Through, hosts Dev and Roger break down the real skill of reframing your thinking in the moment, without the toxic positivity. From shark moments to the performance trap, they get honest about why most people freeze, why confidence is the missing ingredient, and how to practice reframing before you actually need it. If you have ever felt paralyzed when life did not go to plan, this one is for you.

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On this episode of See Through, hosts Dev and Roger unpack the male loneliness epidemic — and why the real problem isn't feeling alone, it's being unknown, even to the people closest to you. Using the lifeguard analogy and lawn chair conversations, they break down why men suppress instead of share, what it actually takes to show up for the people you love, and why one honest conversation can change everything.

Real talk. No filters.

In this episode: male loneliness • emotional suppression • men's mental health • vulnerability • friendship and connection • why men don't open up

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Are you living your life — or just grinding through it?

On this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger break down hustle culture, the performance mindset, and why social media makes it worse. They unpack the real difference between grinding and growing, why rest isn't the enemy of progress, and why the happiest people you know probably aren't posting about it.

If you've ever felt like you're grinding toward someone else's goal, this episode is your permission slip to stop — and start actually growing instead.

In this episode: hustle culture • burnout • grind vs. growth • performance mindset • rest and productivity • building a life that's yours

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We judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions. That one idea is the foundation of this episode of See Through, and once you hear it, you cannot unsee it. Dev and Roger take on one of the most universally human yet rarely examined behaviors we all quietly engage in every day: judgment. Inspired by the viral social media trend of listening without judging, the two get honest about how snap judgments form before someone even walks into a room, why being triggered by others often says more about our own unresolved experiences than anything the other person did, and what it actually looks like to respond instead of react in the moments that matter most.

The conversation goes deeper into one of the most uncomfortable questions in any honest discussion about judgment: is there a difference between judging a bad decision and judging someone as a bad person, and does frequency or severity change that line? Dev and Roger explore cancel culture, the cost of polarized thinking, and why so many people now keep their most honest thoughts private out of fear of being permanently defined by a single moment. The episode closes with a motivational minute reminding listeners that the goal is not just to get what you are chasing, but to become someone worthy of keeping it, growing it, and sharing it. If you have ever reacted before you had all the information, or held someone else to a standard you would never apply to yourself, this one is for you.

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Most of your friendships right now probably fit into one of four categories — and you already know which ones. On this episode of See Through, hosts Dev and Roger get brutally honest about the friendship patterns nobody admits to: the slow drift, the "obligation friend" you only see out of guilt, the one-sided dynamic that's draining you, and the friendship you wish you had but don't.

They dig into what it really means to outgrow someone, why your group chats quietly expose who your real friends are, and why learning to be comfortable alone might be the exact thing standing between you and finding your people.

Real talk. Real stories. And a motivational minute that'll have you texting this episode to the friend you've been meaning to check in on.

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What if the version of yourself you're chasing is actually out of reach, and the real breakthrough is knowing where your ceiling truly is? In this episode of See Through, hosts Dev and Roger break down human capacity, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence through a practical lens: why knowing your limits isn't weakness, it's the clearest sign of real self-awareness.

Dev shares a grounded framework for understanding your emotional, intellectual, physical, and psychological limits, and why pushing past your true capacity without recovery leads to burnout, not breakthrough. Roger introduces allostatic load (the chronic stress that reshapes how your brain allocates energy) and a simple three-level framework, depleted, strained, or at your peak, to help you assess your real-time capacity.

Together they explore why the most successful people are often clearer on what they can't do than what they can, and how accepting your limits creates space to double down on where you actually excel.

In this episode:

• The human capacity framework: emotional, intellectual, physical, psychological
• Why capacity isn't fixed, and why burnout isn't a discipline problem
• Allostatic load, explained simply
• The 3-level emotional capacity check: depleted, strained, peak
• Why self-aware people define themselves by their limits, not just their strengths
• Practical tools for career transitions, burnout recovery, and emotional resilience

Whether you're navigating a career change, a hard relationship, a personal setback, or just feel stretched too thin, this episode offers a grounded, science-informed take on mental health, resilience, and personal growth, built for real life, not highlight reels.

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