Exciting news! We're starting a new series called "Who Carried The Relationship?" In this batch of episodes, Sam and Gen will vote on, then debate, who they believe did a better job in their marriage at leading in various areas (finances, emotional intelligence, spirituality, and more).In today's episode, Sam and Gen discuss the significance of a spiritual connection in relationships, highlighting how shared spirituality can form a robust foundation and exploring various interpretations of spirituality beyond conventional religious practices.Sam and Gen examine the necessity of aligning faith and relationships. They discuss how differing spiritual beliefs can affect marriage dynamics and share personal anecdotes reflecting the influence of their shared Christian faith on their marriage, both positively and negatively.Our guest host Joel, who has known Gen since high school, opens up a debate on whether spiritual responsibilities should be equally shared.Sam and Gen also talk through some of the distinctions between religion and spirituality, and offer advice on supporting a partner’s spiritual growth. Please support the show by subscribing!☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer? DM us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/Please support the show by subscribing!👨 Follow Joel:https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/👀 Follow Gen:https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/👋🏾 Follow Sam:https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾Follow The Podcast:https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced

In the second part of this discussion, Sam, Jeff and Gen uncover how everyday nuisances like stray socks can escalate into bigger issues if ignored. You'll also hear more of Sam's personal story of working through addiction and its effect on his marriage.

Sam and Gen go deep on how unresolved minor issues might snowball into major obstacles, and why intimacy is helpful for enduring such challenges. Together with Jeff , the trio delve into strategies for conflict resolution, emphasizing open communication and shared responsibilities and displaying how both vulnerability and humor can be healing forces that help to rebuild intimacy after conflicts.

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Jeff is back! In this heated episode, Sam and Gen debate with Jeff about whether seemingly insignificant habits or behaviors from one spouse can gradually undermine a healthy marriage.

Sam, Gen, and Jeff delve into the importance of communication, understanding, and small adjustments that can make a significant difference in relationship dynamics, ultimately aiming to provide listeners with actionable insights to foster stronger connections with their partners.

Additionally, Sam and Gen share personal anecdotes and advice on recognizing and addressing these minor issues before they escalate, empowering couples to create a more harmonious and supportive marital environment.

Throughout the discussion, they also touch on the role of empathy and vulnerability in resolving conflicts and nurturing lasting love, encouraging audiences to actively engage in introspective practices that strengthen their partnerships over time.

Ultimately, this episode seeks to highlight that by being mindful of everyday behaviors, couples can cultivate a deeper emotional intimacy that enhances their journey together.

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Why are WOMEN petty?

In this episode, Gen shares her perspective on why it is more societally acceptable (and understandable) when women demonstrate pettiness after a breakup. The former couple also share their newfound, post-divorce tools for avoiding resentment and the resulting pettiness, as well as a recent conflict that they had and how they dealt with it in healthier ways.

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In this episode, we dive into the ups and downs of pettiness in relationships with our pals Sam and Gen.

The former couple opens up about their own experiences, from Sam's plant-tossing moment to Gen's insights on pushing buttons in a relationship. We explore the roots of such behavior, tracing it back to childhood and cultural influences, and even throw in a fun game—"Petty or Not"

We wrap up with key takeaways on fostering healthier dynamics and the importance of honesty and kindness in relationships.

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Has anyone else ever felt like the life they expected to have Was ripped apart as a result of a divorce Whether it was your own divorce, Or when someone close to you got divorced? If so... we get it. We're Sam and Gen, a formerly married couple… ...who just started talking to each other again, after going through a painful separation and divorce a decade ago. Our journey has been filled with heartache and confusion, But since our separation, we’ve also experienced healing, growth, and hope, as we’ve sought to reclaim our lives. Now, we're on a mission to create a space where -married people can find on-demand, relatable information in times of difficulty. -single people who hope to be happily married one day can learn from our mistakes. -those who have experienced divorce in some way can find support, understanding, and practical guidance. We believe that healing is possible, and we're committed to sharing our stories and insights with vulnerability (and humor! Because sometimes laughter is the best medicine) We’re helping marriages stay together… by sharing what tore us apart. (and since our marriage didn’t work out as expected, maybe our podcast will 😉) #divorce #podcast #healing #marriage #relationships #mentalhealth #samandgengotdivorced

What happens when a close friend of the couple gets to ask all the uncomfortable questions he wants, on camera? Sam and Gen are finding out. In Episode 12 of Sam and Gen Got Divorced, things get a bit contentious, as we find out that Sam and Gen remember their premarital process differently. We also explore complex questions like "How much detail about your past should you share with a potential partner?" Join Jeff in getting the questions you really want answered, answered; you won't want to miss this episode! #divorce #podcast #relationships #marriage #samandgengotdivorced

In this episode of Sam and Gen Got Divorced, we are joined by special guest Jeff, who pulls no punches in getting into the reasons why the divorce happened. Together we dive deep into the complexities of marriage, self-deception, and healing, exploring topics like premarital counseling, personal growth, and the evolving definitions of sickness and infidelity within marriage.

Whether you’re navigating your own relationship or simply curious about the dynamics of Sam and Gen's relationship, this episode is packed with candid insights and heartfelt reflections.

Chapters:

Meet Jeff: Humor, shirts, and the story behind the podcast

Premarital counseling: What’s missing and what we’d do differently

Self-deception and readiness for marriage

The role of emotional intelligence and asking friends for honest feedback

Is marriage an unknown?

Taking responsibility for relationship failures: A candid discussion

Concept creep: Redefining "sickness" and its impact on marriage vows

Advice for those anticipating marriage: Avoiding self-deception

Closing thoughts: Lessons learned and fostering healthy conversations