On the debut episode of Safe to Love, we bring you a story that captures the heart of our mission to help the world believe in love again. Scott and LaRae Wright join us to share a relationship built on healing, honesty, and the courage to begin again later in life.

(Did you know you can also WATCH this episode on YouTube?!)

Scott and LaRae first knew each other in high school, but life took them in separate directions. He got married, raised a family, navigated divorce, and spent a decade losing himself in the party lifestyle. She moved to New York, achieved great success in business, and experienced relationships that were powerful and exciting, but lacking in tenderness and depth. Thirty years later, their paths unexpectedly crossed, and what followed became a powerful example of how love can return when two people have done the inner work to receive it.

In this episode, they open up about their 50 years of life before they found each other again, and the beautiful 15 years they have shared since. Scott speaks candidly about his intense spiritual journey, including confronting his struggles with pornography and the deeper emotional patterns beneath it. LaRae shares what it took to choose love with clarity and boundaries, and how the two of them built a partnership rooted in accountability, devotion, and real emotional presence.

We explore how identity shifts throughout adulthood, especially for men in corporate culture, and how both Scott and LaRae eventually let go of their attachment to traditional roles to build something more aligned with who they truly are. They even host their own podcast together, “The Observatory,” a space for authentic discussions, dedicated to helping people discover – or rediscover – meaning in their life.

This conversation is about healing. It is about what actually works. And it is about choosing love – not just once, but continually, with intention and practice.

Welcome to Safe to Love. Let this first story remind you that it is never too late to start again.

Listen to Scott and LaRae's Podcast "The Observatory" and follow them on Instagram!

"The Observatory" on Spotify

"The Observatory" on Apple Podcasts

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Scott Wright on Instagram @scott_david_wright

LaRae Wright on Instagram @Larae_Wright

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