Kids rarely come forward with a clear, direct statement that something is wrong. Instead, disclosures unfold in phases; denial, hints, partial truths, and sometimes even recantation before a child is finally able to reaffirm what happened.

In this episode, Brandon breaks down the five stages of child abuse disclosure, explains why kids communicate in pieces, and shares what adults need to understand about denial, tentative disclosures, active disclosures, recanting, and reaffirming.

You’ll also learn why false allegations are extremely rare and how your reaction can either open the door to safety, or shut it.
This episode gives caregivers, educators, and professionals the tools to recognize the signs early and respond with calm, clarity, and compassion.

In this first episode of Safe Talk, Brandon shares the story behind the podcast—why it matters, who it's for, and what he hopes it accomplishes. After nearly a decade of interviewing children, training professionals, and walking alongside caregivers, Brandon has seen one truth again and again: kids do better when adults are prepared.

This episode lays the foundation for what Safe Talk will be: real conversations, practical tools, and simple guidance to help parents, teachers, and professionals create safer spaces for kids.

If you’ve ever wondered how to talk to children about safety, how to respond to an outcry, or how to navigate difficult situations with confidence, this is where we start.