Matt and Dan begin, as serious Asians often do, over a bowl of pho - debating broth, coriander, and the hierarchy of condiments - before realising they’re circling a deeper question: what actually feeds a Catholic? From Vietnamese comfort food, they pivot to the stranger, more demanding meal - the Eucharist.

They reflect on the parish as the place where Catholics fulfil their most primordial vocation: worship. But worship, they insist, is not first something we do. It is divine initiative.

As Dan shares, the Church is not merely a congregation (a self-assembled crowd), but a convocation — a people summoned, like clans gathered before the ancestral altar. We don’t just “go to Mass”; we are called into it.

Along the way, Matt confesses to having not white privilege, but blue-and-yellow privilege — shaped by particular liturgical cultures and assumptions about what “counts” as reverent. His story becomes a reminder that our inherited tastes are not the measure of the mystery.

In the end, the Eucharist is not spiritual comfort food. It is heaven’s initiative - a sacred meal and sacrifice we did not cook up for ourselves, but hosted and given in love by the One who calls us. The small gestures of the liturgy turn out to be bigger than we imagine. The parish is not a religious food court, but the place where the summoned gather, and where God moves first.

Resources

St John Paul II: Ecclesia de Eucharistia