In this episode of Not That Kind of Christian, David Drury, along with guests Santis Beatty and Amy Boyle, engages in a light-hearted yet profound discussion about commonly used Christian phrases that have become clichés. They explore the implications of these phrases, their performative nature, and the need for more authentic communication in faith contexts. Through a draft-style format, they each select phrases they believe should be retired, providing insights into why these phrases can be problematic and suggesting more meaningful alternatives. Enjoy this engaging episode, and share your own phrases in the comments that you would choose to retire!

Hosted By: David Drury

Produced By: Seth Strand and Lantern

Edited By: Seth Strand

Network Provided By: Lantern

Lantern is a ministry sponsored by Wesley Seminary. We empower faith-driven leaders, churches, and organizations to connect, grow, and serve through a trusted network rooted in Holiness values—shining as a light in the world.

Key Notes:

Cliché phrases can dilute the authenticity of faith conversations.

Performative language often overshadows genuine support.

It's important to take responsibility in our expressions of care.

Many common phrases can be harmful or misleading.

Encouragement should be rooted in relationship, not just words.

Being present in someone's pain is more valuable

Authentic communication fosters deeper connections in faith communities.