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  • How Hard Times Rewire the Brain: The Science of Durable Optimism & Self-Regulation
    2025/11/28

    Ep 129. Human experience can feel overwhelmingly difficult at times, but not every challenge is a negative one. Some of the most painful moments in life become the source of our greatest strength, resilience, insight, and emotional intelligence. When we move through adversity, we gain hard-earned wisdom—the kind that becomes a powerful internal resource for future challenges.

    Difficult experiences shape our perception, our reactions, and our ability to navigate the unknown. They can refine our judgment, sharpen our awareness, and create a more grounded and intentional approach to new situations. But without self-regulation, the mind can misinterpret environments and react impulsively, treating uncertainty as danger—even when no real threat exists.

    The adaptive response starts not just in the body, but in the mind. Within 60 to 300 milliseconds, the brain interprets signals, evaluates context, and can even preserve social recognition—preventing us from harming or misjudging a familiar person in moments of stress.

    When we integrate our experiences—both the uplifting and the harrowing—we build what psychologists call durable optimism. This is not naive positivity; it is embodied resilience that enriches our lives and enhances the lives of those around us. Through reflection, regulation, and integration, we develop the capacity to move through the world with clarity, compassion, and internal steadiness.

    Take care and walk well.

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    26 分
  • Novelty vs Survival: The Hidden Algorithm Running Your Life
    2025/11/20

    Ep 128. Every day we’re flooded with information, decisions, patterns — the familiar and the ever-changing. As human beings our brains are wired to seek efficiency. We rely on our mental filters to process what’s known and ignore what’s novel, because novelty demands more energy.
    But this very wiring can make us vulnerable: when the environment shifts, when predators (literal or social) hide behind camouflage, our pattern-seeking mind can be tricked.
    True resilience comes when we learn not just to rely on the familiar, but to build self-regulation skills that let us step into flow, manage the extremes, and navigate both safety and disruption.
    Your mind isn’t only running algorithms of habit and assumption — you can shape the “biological software” by training your nervous system, managing novelty with ease, and turning your body’s built-in survival systems into assets instead of blind spots.
    If you’re ready to break free from autopilot, reclaim your intuition, and walk the line between order and chaos with purpose — you’re in the right place.
    Take care and walk well.

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    intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303.

    New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact.

    Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance.

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    26 分
  • Your Brain Is Lying to You: The Hidden Survival System Running Your Life
    2025/11/09

    Ep. 127. Every day, we face choices — some small and forgettable, others powerful enough to change our health, our relationships, our careers, and sometimes even our lives. We all want to make the right decisions… the ones that keep us safe, grounded, and aligned with who we want to be.

    And yet, during stress — especially sudden stress — our thinking brain often shuts down. We try to reason, analyze, and “stay calm,” but the brain’s survival system takes over. The lower brain reacts faster than logic can think. This is where we see fight, flight, freeze, fawn, or shutdown responses take the wheel.

    This isn’t failure.
    It’s biology.

    The good news is that your body already contains built-in self-regulation programs — evolutionary survival skills passed down by our ancestors. And even better, we can train these self-regulation skills so they become automatic. With practice and repetition, these responses become quick, natural, and dependable — even in high-pressure moments.

    When we learn to regulate our nervous system, we make clearer decisions, we stay present instead of overwhelmed, and we build habits that create real confidence — not just the appearance of it.

    This is what allows us to live intentionally, move with purpose, and choose who we are becoming.

    Take care — and walk well.

    Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world!

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    intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303.

    New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact.

    Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance.

    https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

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    26 分
  • Beneath the Surface: The Dark Power of Your Subconscious Mind – Skill, Body & Transformation
    2025/10/31

    Ep. 126 The subconscious mind. It’s mysterious, dark, powerful – yet largely hidden beneath the surface. In psychodynamic therapy, the goal was to make the unconscious conscious. Think of the classic iceberg metaphor: the visible tip above water is the conscious mind, while the vast bulk beneath the surface is the subconscious. That hidden iceberg under deep, dark waters hints at enormous power.
    But here’s the truth: the subconscious mind isn’t only ominous—it’s a game-changer. It can elevate your performance in any skill. It can shift how your body responds—not unlike the visceral reaction you feel when you look over the edge of a tall building. That physical, electric “something happening” effect shows just how real the subconscious is.
    And even more: we can speak directly to that hidden part of the mind. Through suggestion framed in the immediate moment rather than the distant future, we can trigger measurable improvement—whether it’s skill mastery or body healing. In other words: when you engage the subconscious right now, you activate what you thought was hidden—and watch transformation happen.

    Why this matters:

    • Because 95% of our mental processes live below the surface—and that’s where true change gets made.
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    • Because when you tap into that powerful under-water iceberg of your mind, you don’t just think differently—you respond differently, physically and mentally.
    • Because framing suggestions in the “now” triggers direct subconscious shifts, bypassing resistance and giving you real results.
      If you’re ready to explore how the subconscious mind can help you perform better, heal faster, or unlock a new level of being—this is your entry point. Take care and walk well.

    Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world!

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    intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303.

    New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact.

    Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance.

    https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

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    26 分
  • Why Your Ego Isn't the Enemy—It's Your Wake-Up Call
    2025/10/20

    Ep 125. The Power of 'I'—How Language Shapes Your Identity & Self-Worth"

    In a world where values like honesty, integrity, loyalty, and authenticity are praised, many of us struggle with living up to them—especially in the age of social media. Our ego identity—the part of us tied to group belonging, image, and perception—is shaped by the environments we grow up in: families, schools, communities, and now global digital tribes. But have you ever asked yourself: Who am I when no one is watching? The words we speak—to others and especially to ourselves—craft our internal self-image. That image, our "persona," is built over years, sometimes unconsciously. And it's fragile. "I" statements are powerful—they show ownership and accountability. Stop Saying 'You'—The Secret Language That’s Sabotaging Your Self-Image "You" statements often project blame. "We" statements can be inclusive but may blur individual responsibility. The language we use isn't just communication—it's the architecture of our self-worth. We often tie accountability to shame or punishment, making it hard to admit when we've failed or hurt others. Why? Because we've protected that inner image of "me" since childhood. But here’s the truth: owning your story is not weakness—it’s freedom. If you want to heal, grow, and lead, start by paying attention to your internal dialogue. Be kind to yourself. Speak with intention. Take ownership. The journey begins not with others, but with how you speak to you. Transform your mindset. Own your voice. Walk well.




    Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world!

    Support the show

    intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303.

    New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact.

    Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance.

    https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

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    28 分
  • You Were Never Just a Role: Breaking Free From False Identities & Living Authentically
    2025/10/10

    Ep 124.

    Are You Living Under a False Identity? So many of us—at every age—struggle with feeling different, like the black sheep, the outsider, or the misunderstood original in a world that demands conformity. We say we want to be “unique,” but what we often mean is: we want to be free. This deep inner tension is not rebellion for its own sake. It's the natural, human desire to grow—to separate from the roles and identities we’ve inherited. Roles like caregiver, provider, parent, or problem-solver. These roles may serve us or even protect us at one point, but they can become cages. And eventually, something inside us starts to shift. Our perspective changes. Our desires wake up. What once felt comfortable starts to feel confining. We begin to question: Who am I outside of what I do? What if there's more? This episode explores the spiritual and psychological journey of shedding false identities, embracing your true self, and stepping into the life you were meant to live—not the life handed to you. These invisible ceilings? They’re not real. They’re often installed by fear—ours or someone else’s. And we can break through them. You are not too late, not too old, not too lost. You are simply being called to remember.🔥 Let’s explore how to break through self-imposed limitations, transcend outdated roles, and live a life with no ceiling. Your authentic life begins the moment you stop asking for permission. You won’t be qualified before you start. You’ll be qualified by doing. Come as you are. Walk well.



    Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world!

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    intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303.

    New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact.

    Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance.

    https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

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    25 分
  • The Hidden Power of Self-Talk: Why Fear Is a Language Problem
    2025/10/03

    Ep 123. Why Fear Controls You – And How to Take Back Power Through Language

    Fear is not just an emotion—it’s a biological signal, a deep-rooted response to the unknown, the overwhelming, or the lightning-fast changes we can’t yet process. This hardwired reaction is what drives human adaptation and survival. But here’s where it gets interesting: when language enters the equation, fear becomes more than a reflex—it becomes a belief.

    Our inner dialogue, or self-talk, often acts like a hidden algorithm—shaping how we interpret reality. It can convince us of danger where there is none, trigger anxiety without reason, and sabotage opportunities before we even try. Why? Because the language we use—especially the exaggerated, negative, or fearful words—tricks our brain into reacting as if failure is guaranteed.

    Most people don’t fail because of reality—they fail because of belief. The belief, rooted in unchecked language, that they’re not enough, not ready, or not capable. This is not a failure of skill, but a failure of speech—internal speech.

    The real transformation begins when you learn to discipline your language. When you shift your self-talk, you shift your nervous system, your mindset, and your outcomes.

    Fear might be automatic, but staying afraid is a choice—one we make through the words we repeat to ourselves every day.

    Want to stop sabotaging your future? Start by changing your inner dialogue. Your Brain Believes What You Say – Language Creates Fear & Failure

    Think clearly. Speak powerfully. Walk well.

    Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world!

    Support the show

    intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303.

    New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact.

    Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance.

    https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

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    27 分
  • Unmasking the Inner Critic: The Hidden Voice Holding You Back (And How to Silence It)
    2025/09/22

    Ep 122. Unlocking the Power of Your Inner Voice: Break Free from Limiting Beliefs and Rewrite Your Mental Programming

    As human beings, we all share a universal experience: we are shaped by our environment and those who raise us—from parents and extended family to modern-day mentors, teachers, and caregivers. These early influences imprint powerful messages on our minds, often through their actions, voices, and words. These messages form the foundation of how we navigate the world, solve problems, and stay safe.

    But there’s a shadow side to this inner programming.

    When caregivers are under stress, the guidance we receive—though often well-intentioned—can come laced with criticism, guilt, shame, or fear. This emotional residue embeds itself deep within our subconscious, especially during formative stages of brain development, shaping what psychologists call the “superego”—an internalized voice that criticizes, doubts, and limits us.

    Over time, this inner critic can become like a collar and leash—subtly controlling our every move, creating self-doubt, anxiety, and even sabotaging our ability to succeed, thrive, and live freely. It's the reason so many of us feel stuck, held back by fear, perfectionism, or a nagging sense of "not being enough."

    But here’s the truth: this voice isn’t you. It’s a recording, a protective mechanism gone rogue. And once we become aware of it—truly aware—we gain the power to break its hold and rewrite the script.

    ✅ Learn how to identify this internal voice
    ✅ Discover how it formed during your early development
    ✅ Gain practical tools to override outdated programming
    ✅ Finally reclaim your voice, your power, and your life

    This is the first step in self-regulation—not by suppressing the inner voice, but by understanding it, and rising above its limitations. Take care and walk well.

    Hey folks, let me know what you think about the Running Man Podcast. Let me know where you're from and how you are doing in your little part of the world!

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    intro outro music for episodes 1 through 111 done by Jonathan Dominguez Rogue musician. He can be found on youtube at Lazyman2303.

    New musical intro and outro music created by Ed Fernandez guitarist extraordinaire. To get in contact with Ed please send me an email at runningmangetskillsproject@gmail.com and I will forward him the contact.

    Donations are not expected but most certainly appreciated. Any funds will go toward further development of the podcast for equipment as we we grow the podcast. Many thanks in advance.

    https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216464/support

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    27 分