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We disappeared for a bit, and life absolutely filled the gap. So we’re back with a proper catch-up: the Blacktown rodeo in Western Sydney, the vibe in the stands, the ridiculous bits, the good bits, and the kind of people-watching that reminds you why leaving the house is worth it. We also talk mates on big trips, including Mexico (and how wrong our assumptions were once we saw the photos and stories), plus a shout out to Danny Boy Drinks doing the UK and Ireland with daily updates.

Then we get into the bigger stuff happening behind the scenes: buying a campervan to make weekend escapes easier, taking the dogs along, and figuring out what you actually need once you’re on the road. We also unpack the final push on a long, hard renovation and what it’s like getting a house staged, photographed, listed, and priced, including the real estate agent behaviour that gives us the ick.

The main chat comes from a blunt post: “I don’t think I like being part of the gay community.” We take that seriously, because most of us have felt the sting of cliques, judgement on apps like Grindr, and that chilly bar energy where you’re treated like you don’t belong. Our takeaway is simple and practical: stop chasing the noisiest spaces, find interest-based groups, try Meetup, build a smaller circle that fills your cup, and remember you’re allowed to opt out of any scene that makes you feel small. And because we’re us, we finish with a saucy question about a mate who loves sucking cock with no kissing, no cuddling, and why that can be the whole point.

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