As riders, we work hard to be prepared.

But if mistakes at horse shows are managed for us… how do we grow?

In this episode, I explore something sitting underneath a lot of conversations in our sport — budget, green horses, expectations, and what’s “realistic.”

Yes, riding is expensive.

Yes, sometimes a horse simply isn’t ready yet.

And yes, sometimes moving on is the right decision.

But I keep coming back to something deeper.

It’s not just about budget.

It’s about time.

And whether we even have enough of it to truly develop.

I share the story of my hot, very green Thoroughbred — the only reason I could afford him — and how learning to manage him shaped the rider I became.

There were no formulas.

No calming pastes.

No perfect prep routines.

If he was hot, he was hot.

And I had to learn how to ride that.

Today, the structure is different.

Safety matters. Liability matters. Experience matters.

But if the system absorbs the mistakes before the rider feels them, development changes.

This episode isn’t about blaming trainers.

It isn’t about rejecting finished horses.

And it isn’t about doing things the hard way for the sake of it.

It’s about time.

Ownership.

And what kind of rider we want to become.

As always, thanks for being here.

Takeaways:

1. Preparation as riders is essential for success, yet the learning process often requires time to understand our horses' needs.
2. The balance between safety and the opportunity to learn from mistakes is crucial for rider development.
3. It is important to reflect on whether we are truly improving or simply riding within a system that anticipates our errors.
4. The journey of becoming a proficient rider is often non-linear, resembling a jungle gym rather than a ladder of progress.
5. Experiments in practice are vital, as they foster growth and good judgment in our riding abilities.
6. The experiences we accumulate, especially when faced with challenges, often yield the most significant learnings in our equestrian pursuits.