Boyz II Men takes Clarence and Yalonda straight back to the summer of 1991, bringing up college memories, music, and stories from when they were both “outside.” But the conversation takes a turn when they tackle the debate over dress codes at HBCUs. Are bonnets, durags, pajamas and loungewear simply personal choices—or is there value in having standards for how we show up in academic and professional spaces? Is this respectability politics, cultural tradition, or just common sense?

Clarence and Yalonda debate where the line should be drawn—and whether having standards still matters.

Ever stop doing something for a while and then completely forget how humans do it? This week we talk about the weird gap between "I've done this a thousand times" and "wait, how do pedals work," using driving as our case study — extremely on-brand, since this is the second episode in a row we're recording from a moving car.

Then we swerve (pun intended) into a full-blown Average White Band appreciation session. No notes, mostly vibes, occasional turn signals.

What makes our favorite influencer or public speaker an expert? Does it matter?

We're breaking down the 6 Phases of Marriage — and trust us, you'll want to know which one you're in! We also get into a fun debate about birthday celebration styles, because, like most things, we feel differently about them. And of course, we drop our Song of the Week to keep your love life soundtrack going strong. Tune in, enjoy the ride, and as always, let's keep love in rhythm!We make a couple of references to videos, you might want to check out:

• IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamdahliabinda/⁠
• Reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTu-lBzjHBh/?igsh=MWttZ2xpZm5xc3prdg==

When was the moment that you realized you were an adult?

Who is the best person for a guy to hook up with while he's separated from his wife? Is there a best person?

Why does she keep trying on outfits if I already told her she looks good in the first one?

Clarence and Yalonda break down the difference between price and value—from designer heels to dream cars to wedding bells. Find out why they skipped the big wedding bill at first and saved the splurge for their 15th anniversary. Sometimes the best investments aren’t about money at all.

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