What if your family was designed to be one of the primary places where your children learn what it looks like to follow Jesus?

This week, we continue our conversation on family by looking at the biblical role of parents as the first and primary disciplers of their children. Steve takes us to Deuteronomy 6 and explores how God intended faith to be woven into the everyday rhythms of family life, not simply something reserved for Sundays.

We talk about the idea that faith is often caught more than it is taught, why discipleship of children shouldn't be outsourced to the church, and what it looks like to intentionally make the things of God part of your family’s everyday life. We also talk about the important role the church family plays in shaping our kids through relationships with other families, mentors, and disciplers.

Steve even shares personally about the people within the church who played that role in his own children’s lives.

This episode is full of practical wisdom and plenty to think about as you consider how your family is growing together in faith. Grab your coffee, take some notes, and join the conversation!

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What is God’s design for family? And is there a purpose behind it?

Steve starts by making one thing clear: marriage and family are not human constructs; they are God’s intentional design. Genesis 1 gives us the overarching picture of creation, telling us that God created humanity, male and female, in His image. Then Genesis 2 zooms in, showing that men and women were created with distinct purposes and designed to work together.

Scripture is clear that marriage is one of the most significant relationships we have, and from marriage comes family. Sarah points out that the pain we experience from broken family systems may actually point us back to the fact that marriage and family are God-given. There is something deeply woven into what it means to be human that finds fulfillment within the context of family.

So, what does that mean for the roles of husbands and wives? There’s plenty of discussion around this, but Steve reminds us that God doesn’t give us ultra-specific instructions for how men and women should divide up every day-to-day responsibility. Instead, much of it comes down to a husband and wife seeking the Lord together, walking in unity, and living as one. The conversation continues next week, so make plans to join us again next Tuesday!

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What comes first: truth or feelings? This week’s conversation picks up where last week’s left off as Rich, Sarah, and Steve continue their discussion on transgenderism and gender confusion.

Rich begins by emphasizing the importance of truly listening when someone shares the feelings they are experiencing surrounding their gender. Listening and acknowledging that someone is struggling does not mean affirming every feeling they have, but it is an important part of having meaningful and compassionate conversations. Sarah echoes this point, sharing that if we focus too harshly on telling someone that their feelings are not truth, we are unlikely to make much progress with a person who is currently being driven by those feelings.

At the same time, Rich cautions against embracing the idea that we are simply victims of our feelings, a mindset that can extend far beyond conversations about gender. Steve adds that just because we feel something strongly or believe something is a good idea does not necessarily mean it aligns with reality. When our personal beliefs about who we are do not line up with reality, the consequences are almost always difficult and painful. Throughout the conversation, the crew works through the relationship between feelings and truth, discussing how we can distinguish between the two and how we can lovingly help others do the same.

As a final thought, Rich reminds us that the most extreme examples of people, whether related to transgenderism, politics, religion, or anything else, are often the ones highlighted in the media. Those examples are rarely representative of everyday people and their experiences. Instead of allowing extreme examples to shape the way we see others, it is important to see people for who they are, love them well, and ultimately lead them to Jesus.

Book recommended by Rich:
When Harry Became Sally: Responding to the Transgender Moment by Ryan T. Anderson

*One quick note: While this is not a Christian book, Rich recommends it as a highly educational resource on the topic.

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