Today’s guest, Victor Warring, has a quite provocative title - he is an Erotic ReWilder. Which includes his roles as a Somatic Sexuality Educator, mentor, coach and community facilitator. Victor is dedicated to supporting people in reclaiming their erotic sovereignty and removing any self-imposed, internalized or socially imposed obstacles that interfere with the expression of their bodily erotic brilliance.

In this episode, we dive into the distinction between erotic and sexual—and why that difference matters.
We also explore what it means to rewild after generations of colonization, and how we begin to deconstruct the narratives that have shaped our bodies, our pleasure, and our sense of self.

What does it mean to rewild, decolonize, and reclaim our experience of pleasure and intimacy?
How do we embody erotic sovereignty—not just in moments of intimacy, but in our relationships with ourselves, each other, and the world?

Victor shares how sexological bodywork can support this reclamation, the role of conscious pleasure practices, and how we can expand our capacity to experience pleasure—even amidst chaos, collapse, and collective overwhelm.

What is Covered:

(00:00) Remembering Tory Capron
(02:05) Understanding the concept of erotic vs sex
(04:02) The meaning of rewilding
(09:08) Rewilding and the connection to ancestral selves
(13:07) The Impact of colonization on body and sexuality
(20:13) Grief, vulnerability, shame and their connection to eros
(27:22) How to deal with performance anxiety in sexuality
(34:25) Why we need to slow down to reconnect with the erotic
(40:05) Navigating pleasure and pleasure practices amidst chaos
(46:07) What is erotic sovereignty?
(51:38) The role of sexological bodywork in reclaiming erotic sovereignty
(56:15) How we can reclaim our erotic nature and erotic power
(01:00:06) Why each decolonization experience is different and unique

Resources:

- Sign up for the Power Reclamation Newsletter https://revealingwisdom.activehosted.com/f/9

- Check out Victor’s upcoming workshops and events: https://www.rewilderos.com/

- A powerful film on death from our dear friend Tory Capron - The Mountains Remain, a film by Henna Taylor https://hennataylor.com/work/until-only-the-mountain-remains/

- Follow Victor on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonobo_man/

- Find Victor on Facebook: https://www.instagram.com/bonobo_man/

- Also, we referred to this podcast, which is fun if you've not listened: Savage Lovecast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/savage-lovecast/id201376301

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