Eli Rallo has become the internet’s ultimate big sister with millions hanging on her every “get your life together” TikTok and viral lists that somehow say exactly what you’re feeling. Now, with her second book Does Anyone Else Feel This Way? out on October 14th, she’s getting real about the messy transition into adulthood, losing friendships, and realizing no one actually has it all figured out. In this episode, Eli and Victoria unpack why your life doesn’t need to follow a perfect timeline, how to stop caring what people think (because cringe is a victimless crime), and the real way to cope when you lose a best friend. Plus, Eli shares her five go-to tips to instantly get out of a rut and feel better. Tune in for the ultimate quarter-life pep talk you didn’t know you needed!

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If you’re looking for inspiration to keep going, today’s guest Mayci Neeley is proof you can survive the darkest storms and come out thriving. You may know Mayci from the hit reality show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives or the viral TikTok group MomTok, but beyond the drama she’s built a powerhouse career as a content creator, CEO of her brand Baby Mama, and now, author of Told You So. In this vulnerable conversation, Mayci opens up about becoming a single mom in college, losing her son’s father, surviving toxic relationships and sexual assault, and how she’s found healing, faith, and forgiveness along the way. She shares how being an elite athlete shaped her resilience, how she’s cultivated an abundance mindset, and the tools that helped her build confidence. Tune in for a moving reminder that no matter what you’ve been through, you can find your footing, own your story, and create a life you’re proud of.

Trigger warning: this episode includes conversation around grief and sexual assault.

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The most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself. Self-connection specialist and founder of Your Inner Babe, Jacq Gould, joins Vic for a powerful conversation on building inner trust, finding light in dark seasons, and embracing change. Jacq opens up about her eating disorder recovery, perfectionist tendencies, and how hitting rock bottom became the turning point for her purpose. She also shares practical tools for self-connection, including how to check in with yourself, set authentic boundaries, and listen to your gut, along with the biggest lessons she wishes every woman in her twenties knew. Tune in for a heartfelt and inspiring reminder that the way you connect with yourself shapes everything else in life, and learn how to strengthen that relationship. TW: This episode discusses suicide. Please take care of yourself and skip if needed. For support, call or text 988 in the U.S. or contact local services.

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