What does it take to raise children who are not only happy today, but prepared to become responsible, resilient adults?

In this episode of MOJO: The Meaning of Life and Business, Jennifer R. Glass speaks with educator and author Martha Burich about the decisions parents make today and how those choices can shape a child’s relationships, confidence, behavior, and ability to handle real life.

Martha shares her Three Ls of Parenting:

• Love them enough to say no
• Lead by example
• Let them fail

Jennifer and Martha discuss why children need consistent boundaries, what can happen when parents repeatedly change a “no” to a “yes,” and why protecting children from every disappointment may prevent them from developing the strength they will need later.

They also explore:

• How to teach boundaries at different ages
• Why parents should consider whether they can enforce a rule before making it
• The difference between a mistake and intentional misbehavior
• Why failure and disappointment are important parts of development
• Praise versus encouragement
• Helping children rely less on approval from others
• How parents and grandparents can have different relationships with a child
• Why mealtimes may not be the best place for difficult family conversations
• How everyday parenting choices influence the adults children eventually become

Martha is the author of Yes, You Can Raise Happy, Responsible Children, a practical guide to building stronger relationships with children while helping them develop confidence, empathy, responsibility, and resilience.

Learn more about Martha and her work at MarthaBurich.com.

You can also find Martha Burich Parenting on Facebook and YouTube and connect with her on LinkedIn.

Whether you are raising young children, teenagers, or thinking about the lessons you learned from your own parents, this conversation offers practical ideas for raising children who are better prepared for life.

Connect with Martha:

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