What do Christians get wrong about sex, porn, and parenting? In this candid Q&A, Sy Rogers addresses some of the most difficult and often avoided topics in the Christian life. These are real questions from real people—about sex, pornography, masturbation, parenting, shame, and self-control—and Syanswers them with biblical clarity, compassion, and decades of pastoral experience.

We talk about:

• How to talk to your kids about sex without shame
• The truth about pornography and its impact
• What healthy sexuality looks like in marriage
• Helping teens navigate desire and self-control
• Healing from sexual brokenness and past wounds

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Sy Rogers this Q&A0

2:50 Is oral sex wrong in marriage?

10:35 Talking to teens about sex & masturbation

14:30 The real goal: self-control (not shame)

21:20 How to handle young kids’ body curiosity

26:00 Breaking free from pornography addiction

29:30 Shame vs. calling: helping someone move forward

32:20 Is porn ever okay in marriage?

36:30 How porn rewires desire (and why it matters)

42:55 Gender confusion in kids—how should parents respond?

45:30 Sexual abuse statistics & prevention

47:45 Helping teens manage sexual urges

49:50 When your child is being bullied

52:30 Raising boys without strong male role models

55:10 Why affection matters for boys and girls

56:55 Healing from sexual abuse and trauma

01:00:50 Dating, boundaries, and integrity

01:03:45 STD realities and removing shame