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  • Why is getting my kids out the door so chaotic?
    2025/11/03

    Do your mornings feel like chaos on repeat? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor guides parents through creating calmer, more connected morning routines - even when executive function challenges, sibling conflict, and real-life pressures make smooth starts feel impossible. Learn practical tools for cooperation, compassion, and ease before your day even gets going.

    Related Project Parenthood Episodes:

    https://project-parenthood.simplecast.com/episodes/how-to-live-with-fighting-siblings

    https://project-parenthood.simplecast.com/episodes/10-ways-to-help-your-child-cooperate-without-using-punishments

    Dr. Coor’s Related Media:

    https://brooklynparenttherapy.com/blog/low-pressure-parenting/

    https://brooklynparenttherapy.com/blog/become-a-wants-something-whisperer/

    Find a transcript here.

    Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243.

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    17 分
  • Releasing the urge to fix your kids’ problems
    2025/10/27

    809. Why does the urge to intervene feel so overwhelming? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor unpacks the anxiety and external pressures that fuel your need to "fix" your child's life - and how noticing your own internal experience can help you respond with respectful, connected, and liberating presence instead.

    Find a transcript here.

    Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243.

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    13 分
  • How do you get your kids to talk to you?
    2025/10/20

    808. Why does asking about your child's day often result in a frustrating "Fine" or "Nothing"? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor unpacks why kids of all ages sometimes don’t share much, what can lie beneath parent-child conversational disconnection, and how to build micro-rituals that foster more collaborative and connected communication.

    Find a transcript here.

    Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243.

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    20 分
  • Why is my child so lazy?
    2025/10/13

    807. Have you ever worried that your child’s “laziness” means they’ll never reach their potential? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor explores how internalized messages shape the way you understand motivation, and how you can replace frustration with curiosity and compassion, helping you and your child thrive with more connection and self-trust.

    Sources:

    Laziness Does Not Exist By Devon Price

    Related Project Parenthood Episodes:

    How to resist grind culture in your family

    The First Step to Solve Child Behavior Problems

    Find a transcript here.

    Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243.

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    16 分
  • Why is playing with your child so hard?
    2025/10/06

    806. Why does playing with your child sometimes feel more draining than delightful? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor unpacks why shared play can stir up old wounds from your own upbringing—and how noticing those tender spots can help you respond with more connection, presence, and ease, even when it feels hard.

    Sources:

    Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security Parenting Can Help You Nurture Your Child's Attachment, Emotional Resilience, and Freedom to Explore By Kent Hoffman, Bert Powell, Glen Cooper

    Related Project Parenthood Episodes:

    How to Understand and Fulfill Your Child’s Attachment Needs

    Rethink Time Out: Support Your Child with Time Ins

    Using self compassion to regulate your own emotions as a parent

    Find a transcript here.

    Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243.

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    13 分
  • Is pushing for ‘greatness’ an act of love, or a legacy of oppression?
    2025/09/29

    805. Have you ever worried that wanting your child to be “great” might actually come from oppressive messages you’ve absorbed? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor explores how internalized ideas of excellence can show up in parenting, especially for BIPOC folks and parents raising marginalized kids—and offers compassionate reframes to help you nurture your child’s worth and liberation.

    Find a transcript here.

    Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243.

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    12 分
  • How to handle sibling conflict when your PDA child lashes out?
    2025/09/22

    804. Does your PDA (Pervasive Drive for Autonomy) kiddo lash out at their siblings leaving you feeling helpless and stressed? In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor explains what’s really happening beneath the surface of PDA meltdowns and why they often target siblings. She shares internal practices to steady yourself, external strategies to protect kids, and compassionate ways to reframe these intense moments.

    Sources:

    https://www.facebook.com/ThePDAPracticeCorner

    https://pdatherapycollaborative.com/

    Find a transcript here.

    Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243.

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    12 分
  • How to raise street smart tweens
    2025/09/15

    802. In this episode Dr. Nanika Coor explores how parents can balance safety and independence as tweens begin traveling to and from school on their own. Learn why this milestone can feel so stressful, what factors influence a child’s readiness, and how to prepare together without resorting to fear or control.

    Find a transcript here.

    Have a parenting question? Email Dr. Coor at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243.

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    10 分