What happens when pretending to be fine becomes part of your job?

In the first full episode of Please Mute Your Trauma, Tiffany Collins explores emotional suppression at work—the pressure employees feel to smile, comply, stay quiet, and remain productive even when they are exhausted, overwhelmed, or carrying far more than anyone around them can see.

Through humor, lived experience, and honest workplace reflection, Tiffany examines the gap between what organizations say they value—authenticity, employee well-being, psychological safety, and people-first leadership—and what many workplace cultures actually reward: silence, emotional control, compliance, and the performance of being okay.

This episode explores:

• Why “I’m fine” can become a workplace survival strategy
• How traditional ideas about professionalism encourage emotional suppression
• The difference between genuinely supporting employees and simply expecting them to remain productive
• How workplace culture teaches people which parts of themselves are acceptable
• Why psychological safety requires more than encouraging employees to speak up
• What dignity at work looks like when people are struggling

This conversation is for employees who have ever hidden what they were experiencing to protect their reputation, leaders who want to create healthier workplaces, and anyone questioning whether professionalism has become another word for emotional disappearance.

Because maybe the problem was never that people brought too much of themselves to work.

Maybe the problem is that work asked them to leave too much of themselves behind.

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Please Mute Your Trauma is hosted by Tiffany Collins and explores what happens when organizations expect human beings to work as though they are not human.

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If you have ever sat through a meeting wondering whether anyone was listening, received a pizza party instead of meaningful support, or been told to “bring your whole self to work” only to discover there were terms and conditions attached, you belong in this conversation.

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