In this episode, Leon and Rashi discuss polyamory, getting to know yourself and prioritising compatibility in relationship. Leon describes what he finds attractive in partners and highlights open and honest communication as the hallmark of any healthy exploration.

Leon Feingold is an advocate for ethical non-monogamy and helped launch New York’s first openly polyamorous residence in Brooklyn. He is the co-founder of Open Love NY and the House of Good Deeds. He delivered a Ted Talk in 2015 on Polyamory and is currently writing a book.

You can find his talk on www.youtube.com/watch?v=FtdsZ8B7JQY and check out his charity organization to volunteer with houseofgooddeeds.org.

Timestamps:

3:14 Polyamory as an Orientation

8:37 Navigating Crossroads and Mismatch

12:09 Advice for Beginners in Polyamory

16:18 The Overlap between Polyamory and the Play Scene

19:03 Personal Exploration and Sexual Empowerment

22:44 The Difference between Swinging and Polyamory

26:18 Developing Emotional Intelligence and Active Listening

31:50 Building Strong Relationships: The Power of Vulnerability and Trust

39:41 Creating Inclusive Spaces: Diverse Perspectives in Play Scenes

49:26 Attraction and Compatibility: The Importance of Mutual Desire

53:51 Kink and Erotic Healing

59:03 Making a Difference: The Mission of House of Good Deeds

TW: This is not a debate on polyamory vs. monogamy or advocating for a type of relationship structure. If you are inherently curious about polyamory or want to dip your feet then this is for you. If not, feel free to skip this one. I don't particularly align with it at this time and will share more about my personal lessons in the future.

If you would like to connect with me you can find me on instagram @ra_healingarts_ or book a complimentary connection call at ⁠www.rahealingarts.com⁠.