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  • Super Traits & Toxic Love: Why High-Achieving Women Stay Stuck | Sexual Health

    Super Traits & Toxic Love: Why High-Achieving Women Stay Stuck | Sexual Health
    2026/04/22
    Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, bringing bold conversations around sexual health, intimacy, and sexual empowerment. In this episode, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins, naturopathic doctor, author of Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles Podcast. Together they explore why high-achieving women often struggle in toxic relationships and how qualities like empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—what Dr. Wiggins calls “Super Traits”—can drive success while also keeping women stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns. They discuss the connection between trauma, intimacy, libido, and emotional burnout, and why many successful women experience mismatched desire, sexless marriages, or disconnection in relationships despite thriving professionally. This conversation also explores praise kink, emotional labor in relationships, and how “love languages” can sometimes be weaponized when one partner over-functions while the other under-functions. In This Episode • What Super Traits are and how they affect relationships• The connection between trauma and toxic relationship patterns• Why high-achieving women struggle with libido and intimacy• How chronic stress and over-functioning shut down pleasure centers• The role of praise, validation, and emotional labor in relationships• Why pleasure and fulfillment are essential for overall health Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention: The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure The Sexual Longevity Protocol Course - Please Me! 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesThe 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices - Please Me! Dr. Jordan Wiggins Website: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com Podcast: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/podcast Website:https://pleaseme.online Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me Podcast:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    39 分
  • Inside Skirt Club: Exploring Bisexuality, Connection & Women-Only Pleasure | LGBTQ+ Education

    Inside Skirt Club: Exploring Bisexuality, Connection & Women-Only Pleasure | LGBTQ+ Education
    2026/04/15
    Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning bilingual sexuality podcast hosted by Eve. Ranked among the top sexual health podcasts worldwide, Please Me explores intimacy, sexual wellness, orgasm equality, body positivity, and empowerment, helping listeners build confidence, connection, and pleasure in their lives. In this episode, Eve welcomes Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club, the world’s first global membership community created exclusively for bisexual and bicurious women. What began as a small gathering in London has grown into a thriving international network with 27,000+ members across 36 cities, offering curated events, workshops, and retreats designed to create safe spaces for women to explore identity, connection, and pleasure. Together, Eve and Genevieve discuss: • Exploring bisexuality, sexual identity, and self-discovery• Why women-only spaces support safety, confidence, and exploration• The role of consent, communication, and boundaries in intimacy• How embodiment practices and sexual energy reconnect women to their bodies• The importance of community, autonomy, and self-pleasure in sexual wellness Genevieve also shares insights into Skirt Club’s international retreats in destinations like Austin, Paris, Bali, and New York, where women experience embodiment workshops, intimacy practices, and personal development focused on feminine empowerment and connection. Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention: The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual PleasureA 3-module, self-paced course designed to help men and women prevent and improve sexual health concerns such as low libido, vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, and decreased sensitivity—all from the comfort and privacy of your own home. The Sexual Longevity Protocol Course - Please Me! 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesA free daily guided journal to help you reconnect with your body, increase sensitivity, and build pleasure awareness one day at a time.The 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices - Please Me! Connect with Genevieve LejeuneWebsite:https://skirtclub.co.uk Instagram:@SkirtClub Connect with Eve Website:https://pleaseme.online Substack:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me Podcast:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    59 分
  • Infertility, IVF & Intimacy: How to Stay Connected Through It All | Women’s Health

    Infertility, IVF & Intimacy: How to Stay Connected Through It All | Women’s Health
    2026/04/08
    In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Becky Gleed, a reproductive and perinatal health expert and host of the Perinatal and Reproductive Perspectives Podcast, to explore how infertility, IVF, and assisted reproduction impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health. Eve also shares her personal IVF experience, opening up about how fertility treatments can shift sex from something spontaneous and connective into something scheduled and clinical—often creating emotional pressure and disconnection for couples. Together, they discuss the psychological toll of infertility and offer supportive, practical ways to maintain communication, intimacy, and emotional closeness throughout the journey. This conversation also expands into postpartum realities, including breastfeeding challenges, identity shifts, and maternal mental health. They highlight the importance of prioritizing the wellbeing of the birthing individual and recognizing early signs of more serious conditions, including postpartum psychosis. This episode is a compassionate and empowering resource for anyone navigating fertility challenges, reproductive health concerns, or changes in intimacy during the journey to parenthood. What You’ll Learn• How infertility and IVF affect intimacy and relationships• Why fertility treatments can create emotional stress and disconnection• Ways to maintain connection and communication during fertility challenges• The importance of advocating for yourself in reproductive care• The role of mental health support during infertility and IVF• How postpartum recovery and breastfeeding can impact intimacy• Understanding postpartum psychosis and the importance of early support Connect With the GuestBecky GleedWebsite: https://www.perinatalreproductivewellness.com/ Resources from EveThe Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With EveWebsite: https://pleaseme.onlineSubstack: https://pleaseme.substack.comPatreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcastBe a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    59 分
  • Nurture It or Abandon It: Why Prevention Is the Key to Lasting Pleasure | Sexual Health

    Nurture It or Abandon It: Why Prevention Is the Key to Lasting Pleasure | Sexual Health
    2026/04/01
    In this episode of Please Me, Eve introduces The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure—a proven, clinically informed system designed to help men and women prevent and improve common sexual health challenges before they become long-term issues. From erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness to low libido, decreased sensitivity, and performance concerns, Eve breaks down why these experiences are not just a normal part of aging—and what’s actually happening in the body when sexual function begins to decline. At the core of sexual longevity is a powerful truth: sexual function is deeply connected to blood flow, consistent stimulation, and nervous system regulation. When these systems are supported, pleasure, confidence, and connection don’t have to fade—they can be maintained and even improved over time. Eve introduces a prevention-first approach to sexual wellness, showing why what you do now directly impacts your future sex life—and why waiting until something is “wrong” is the biggest mistake people make. About the Course: The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure is a 3-module, self-paced course designed so you can take control of your sexual health from the comfort and privacy of your own home—no need to work with Eve directly to experience the benefits. Inside, you’ll find: Module 1: Women’s Sexual Health HacksTargeted strategies to support arousal, lubrication, sensitivity, and long-term vaginal health Module 2: Men’s Sexual Health HacksPractical tools to improve erectile function, stamina, performance, and confidence Module 3: Safety Sexual Health HacksA critical, often overlooked component focused on nervous system regulation, safety, and sustainable pleasure—because true sexual longevity requires both physical function and a regulated, responsive body This private client blueprint is designed to help you restore, maintain, and protect your sexual function for years to come—without guesswork. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The real root cause behind declining sexual function (vascular health) How to improve arousal, sensitivity, and sexual performance naturally The role of the nervous system in pleasure, safety, and intimacy How to prevent vaginal atrophy and erectile dysfunction Why a proactive sexual wellness routine is essential for long-term pleasure Ready to Go Deeper? Unlock the full method here: The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure The Sexual Longevity Protocol Course - Please Me! Not ready for the full protocol? Start here—free—and begin rebuilding connection, sensation, and pleasure from the comfort of your own home: 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices⁠The 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices - Please Me!⁠ Website:https://pleaseme.online Socials & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    32 分
  • Seduction Styles and the Art of Authentic Attraction | Sex Education

    Seduction Styles and the Art of Authentic Attraction | Sex Education
    2026/03/25
    In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, host Eve Hall sits down with renowned certified sexologist Marla Renee Stewart for a powerful conversation about seduction styles, intimacy, sexual communication, and authentic connection in relationships. Marla, founder of Velvet Lips and co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference, shares insights from more than two decades of studying human sexuality and helping individuals and couples improve their sex lives. Together, they explore the three seduction styles and explain how understanding these styles can transform attraction, dating, communication, and intimacy. Rather than manipulation, seduction is about recognizing your sexual strengths and using them to build genuine emotional and physical connection. This episode explores how visual, auditory, and tactile seduction styles influence the way we flirt, attract partners, and create deeper relationships. Listeners will gain practical relationship advice, sexual wellness insights, and dating guidance for creating stronger emotional and erotic connections. Whether you are single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, understanding seduction styles can help you communicate better, increase attraction, and build more fulfilling intimacy. What You’ll Learn in This Episode • The three seduction styles: visual, auditory, and tactile • How to identify your seduction style and your partner’s • Why seduction is about authentic connection—not manipulation • How communication improves intimacy and attraction • Common sexual challenges couples experience in relationships • Strategies to reconnect with a partner sexually and emotionally • Dating advice for singles looking for deeper relationships • Why shared values are essential for long-term compatibility Website:velvetlipssexed.com Website:https://pleaseme.online Socials & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 時間 4 分
  • Vaginal Rejuvenation & Sexual Confidence After 40 | Women’s Health

    Vaginal Rejuvenation & Sexual Confidence After 40 | Women’s Health
    2026/03/18
    in this episode of Please Me!, we dive into women’s sexual wellness, intimacy, and confidence with Jennifer Fonseca, a nurse practitioner at Liquivida Wellness. We discuss how to navigate changes in sexual health due to aging, perimenopause, medications, stress, and lifestyle factors. Jennifer explains advanced treatment options such as Morpheus RF microneedling, vaginal fillers, and how holistic care combined with open communication can enhance intimacy and confidence. Jennifer also shares her approach to creating a safe, judgment-free space for patients, empowering women to advocate for themselves, and maintaining sexual wellness well into later life. Topics Covered Vaginal health concerns: dryness, painful intercourse, and tissue changes The effects of stress, hormones, and mental health on sexual function Aesthetic and functional treatments for vaginal rejuvenation Featured Treatments Morpheus RF Microneedling – Tissue tightening and collagen stimulation (with a recommended 72-hour intimacy wait) O-Shot – G-spot injections designed to enhance sensation Dermal Fillers – Support for labial structure and confidence Partner communication and introducing new experiences in the bedroom Holistic approaches to sexual wellness and long-term vitality Roleplay exercise modeling healthy communication Practical advice for women to advocate for their sexual health How to Connect with Jennifer Fonseca Website: https://www.liquivida.com/wellington Instagram: @LiquividaWellington How to Connect with Eve & Please Me! Website: https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact: https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon – Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content: https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 時間
  • Emotional Safety and Erotic Repair in Long Term Relationships Sex Education

    Emotional Safety and Erotic Repair in Long Term Relationships Sex Education
    2026/03/11
    In this powerful and deeply honest episode, Eve sits down with Xanet Pailet — former healthcare attorney turned sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author, and retreat leader. After leaving a 20+ year marriage that had become largely sexless, Xanet began a transformative journey of healing sexual shame, trauma, and emotional disconnection. At age 50, she realized that desire doesn’t disappear because of aging or hormones — it fades when emotional safety erodes, communication shuts down, and the body stops feeling invited into the relationship. Together, Eve and Xanet explore how to rebuild intimacy after a sexless marriage, repair emotional ruptures, heal trauma, and redefine sex beyond penetration to create lasting connection and pleasure. Topics Covered Emotional safety as the foundation of sexual intimacy Why repair is critical in long-term relationships The impact of childhood shame and medical trauma on desire Healing sexual shutdown through tantra and embodied practices Expanding the definition of sex beyond penetration Navigating erectile dysfunction with compassion and creativity Mutual masturbation and alternative intimacy practices How to start difficult conversations about sex Touching for your own pleasure to build erotic connection Intimacy Equation QuizA playful conversation starter to explore your intimacy style: https://howtoimprovemylovelife.com Website & Retreats: https://passionateintimacyretreats.com Books: Living an Orgasmic Life The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Bookshop.org. Website:https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon – Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content:https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 時間 6 分
  • Men’s Sexual Health, Performance Anxiety & Intimacy

    Men’s Sexual Health, Performance Anxiety & Intimacy
    2026/03/04
    In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Please Me!, host Eve welcomes Brent Dowlen, relationship and personal development coach, podcast host, and creator behind multiple shows including Driven To Thrive Broadcast and Dad Hat Shenanigans. Together, they unpack the rarely discussed realities of men’s sexual health, including performance anxiety, shame, stress, and identity — and how these factors deeply impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health. Brent shares candid personal experiences with erectile dysfunction caused by stress and exhaustion, shedding light on how strongly many men tie sexual performance to masculinity and self-worth. The conversation explores how fear, shame, and societal expectations can quickly turn sex from a source of connection into a source of anxiety — and what men (and their partners) can do to interrupt that cycle. This episode also dives into foundational habits for long-term sexual health, including sleep, nutrition, hydration, exercise, stress management, and honest self-assessment. Eve and Brent address the men’s mental health and loneliness epidemic, the outdated “playbook” men are still handed, and why vulnerability is often encouraged in theory but punished in practice. The episode concludes with a realistic and educational role-play conversation, modeling how couples can communicate desires, boundaries, fantasies, and consent — proving that healthy sexual communication can be awkward, playful, respectful, and deeply connecting. Men’s sexual performance anxiety and identity Erectile dysfunction, stress, and exhaustion Shame and fear surrounding sexual health issues When men should seek support for sexual health concerns Sleep, hydration, nutrition, and cardiovascular health for sexual wellness Testosterone, exercise, and healthy fats Men’s mental health crisis and loneliness epidemic Why traditional therapy often misses men Masculinity, vulnerability, and societal expectations Initiating intimacy and feeling desired as a man Power dynamics, submission, and stress relief in the bedroom How to talk to your partner about fantasies and boundaries Consent, communication, and curiosity in long-term relationships Whole-Foods, Plant-Based Nutrition | Juice Plus+https://www.juiceplus.com How to Connect with Brent Dowl Website https://purposedrivenmen.com Connect with Eve & Please Me! Website:https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon — Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content:https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me!:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 時間 16 分