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Pillow Talks

Pillow Talks

著者： Vanessa & Xander Marin
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Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!2024 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • E284: You Wildest Kink & Fantasy Questions

    E284: You Wildest Kink & Fantasy Questions
    2026/10/29
    Ever wondered why you have a certain kink? Or if it’s OK to fantasize about someone else during sex? Or maybe you’ve been curious about cuckolding, breeding kinks, or pegging… but didn’t know who to ask. Today, we’re answering your questions about kinks and fantasies. From the psychology of desire to navigating mismatches with your partner, we’re tackling the wild, the vulnerable, and the deeply human side of sexual exploration. As always, with zero shame and plenty of insight. This episode is packed with permission, perspective, and practical advice. 💛 Here’s what we’re covering: Why we have kinks in the first place The most common sexual fantasies and what they really mean The difference between a fantasy and a desire (and how to safely explore both) Can you fantasize about someone else during sex with your partner? What to do when your fantasy doesn’t match your partner’s How to explore pegging, role reversal, and butt stuff (without shame) The sex club fantasy (that’s not about group sex) Navigating gender play, lingerie, and makeup with confidence 🔗 Links & Resources Episode 53: How To Spice It Up In The Bedroom: Exploring Kink For Beginners 👉🏻 https://vmtherapy.com/episode53 Episode 213: What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3 (Doggy Style, Aging, Leg Hair & More!) 👉🏻https://vmtherapy.com/episode213 Ready to turn a little curiousity into something you actually try? 47 tasteful, illustrated positions with step-by-step instructions on how to get in, how to move, and how to transition out Smart adjustments for real bodies, including different heights, flexibility levels, curves, bellies, and pregnancy Curated adventures for every mood, so you just pick your vibe and go, whether it's slow and romantic or fast and wild Check out Ultimate Sex Positions here: vmtherapy.com/ultimatesex ✅ Stay Connected 📸 Follow us on Instagram ➡️ https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander 💌 Get our weekly email — with behind-the-scenes stories, expert tips, and so many sex puns. Sign up here 👉🏻 vmtherapy.com/subscribe 🎧 Never miss an episode! Subscribe to Pillow Talks wherever you listen to pods! ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR ========================== 👏Thanks Cozy Earth. Use code PILLOW for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear. If you get a Post-Purchase Survey, be sure to mention you heard about Cozy Earth right here!➡︎https://cozyearth.com 👏Thanks Wild Alaskan. Get $35 off your first order of premium, wild-caught seafood. Get seafood you can trust. ➡︎http://wildalaskan.com/PILLOW 👏Thanks Quince. Upgrade your everyday. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. ➡︎https://quince.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • E283: Reverse Cowgirl: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure

    E283: Reverse Cowgirl: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure
    2026/10/22
    Ready to turn things around in the bedroom? We're talking reverse cowgirl, and trust us, there's a LOT more to this position than simply facing the other direction. Where do your legs go? How do you keep your partner from popping out? And what exactly is he supposed to be doing while you're up there? We're answering all your burning questions about Reverse Cowgirl, including a few you probably didn't even know you had. From finding your favorite angle to getting more clitoral stimulation, we're sharing the little adjustments that can make this position a whole lot more fun for both of you. In this episode, you'll hear: How to get into reverse cowgirl without accidentally kicking your partner in the face The simple pelvic tilt that can completely change how this position feels How to keep your partner from popping out, plus how to avoid accidentally bending his penis Why reverse cowgirl can be great for clitoral stimulation, especially if you're a little shy about touching yourself How to stay connected when you can't see each other's faces What the partner on the bottom can do with their hands to make things even better The pillow trick that makes reverse cowgirl more comfortable if you struggle with straddling. Whether reverse cowgirl is already in your regular rotation or you've been curious about giving it a go, you're about to discover some new ways to make this position feel REALLY good. Grab your partner, press play, and get ready to turn things around. Ready to add a few more favorites to your bedroom rotation? Reverse cowgirl is just the beginning, friends. If you're ready to explore new angles, discover what feels amazing for your bodies, and have a whole lot more fun together, Ultimate Sex Positions is for you. You'll get: 47 tastefully illustrated sex positions. Step-by-step instructions that show you how to get into each position, move together, and find what feels best. Tips and techniques for more pleasure, so you can experiment with different sensations and discover new favorites together. Whether you're feeling adventurous or just want to put a new spin on an old favorite, there's something in here for every couple. Check out Ultimate Sex Positions here: http://vmtherapy.com/ultimatesex Stay Connected Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander Get our weekly email, real talk, expert tips, and zero shame: https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe Subscribe to Pillow Talks wherever you get your podcasts! ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR ========================== 👏Thanks Cure. Cure’s the electrolyte mix I’ve started reaching for daily. With clean ingredients and nothing artificial, it’s become easy to stay hydrated. Find it on Amazon or use the code PILLOWTALKS for 20% off. ➡︎https://curehydration.com/PILLOWTALKS 👏Thanks Cozy Earth. Use code PILLOW for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear. If you get a Post-Purchase Survey, be sure to mention you heard about Cozy Earth right here!➡︎https://cozyearth.com 👏Thanks Quince. Upgrade your everyday. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. ➡︎https://quince.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • E282: Is This Normal? He Made AI Sex Videos of Us, and I Have Questions

    E282: Is This Normal? He Made AI Sex Videos of Us, and I Have Questions
    2026/10/15
    Your husband creates AI videos of the two of you having sex. You're only having sex four times a year. Or you tried a new position once, hated it, and have absolutely no interest in giving it another shot. Is this normal?! We're back with another round of Is This Normal?, where we answer your real-life sex and relationship questions and get into all the things you've been wondering about. And this week's questions are giving us PLENTY to talk about. We're unpacking some pretty interesting bedroom situations and sharing our thoughts on what's worth exploring, what deserves a conversation, and why your version of normal doesn't have to look like anyone else's. In this episode, you'll hear: Is it normal for your husband to create AI images and videos of the two of you having sex? What it means if you're only having sex four times a year, and whether there's a magic number couples should aim for What to do when your partner says she enjoys sex, but you're not convinced Whether it's okay to take a position or sex act off the table after one bad experience How to talk about trying something again when one partner is curious and the other isn't interested Some of these questions might sound familiar. Others might have you thinking, "Wait, people do that?!" Either way, you're going to want to hear our answers. Press play, then ask your partner which question surprised them the most. Ready to discover your next favorite position? One meh experience doesn’t mean you have to write off trying new things. And you definitely don’t have to retry something you didn’t enjoy. If you’re curious about what else might feel good, Ultimate Sex Positions gives you 47 positions to explore together, with clear instructions that take the guesswork out of trying something new. Inside, you’ll get: 47 illustrated sex positions, so you can see exactly what goes where Step-by-step instructions for getting into and out of each position Tips for moving together and finding your rhythm, so you can discover what works for your bodies You might find a new favorite, rediscover an old one, or have a really good time experimenting together. Check out Ultimate Sex Positions here: http://vmtherapy.com/ultimatesex ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR ========================== 👏Thanks Quince. Upgrade your everyday. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. ➡︎https://quince.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    54 分
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