Fear isn’t the problem, misreading it is.

In this episode of Paddle Forward: Navigating Life’s Currents, Anacani Walters breaks down one of the most misunderstood emotional experiences women face: fear.

Instead of treating fear as weakness or something to “push through,” Anacani reframes it as valuable feedback from the nervous system, a signal designed to keep us safe, not stuck.

Drawing from her lived experience as a mama, nurse-turned-entrepreneur, yoga teacher, and stand-up paddleboard instructor, Anacani explains why traditional “fearless mindset” advice often leads to burnout, avoidance, and self-judgment. She shares how self-love isn’t something you practice after fear disappears, it’s how you move with fear in a regulated, grounded way.

You’ll learn how to recognize fear as data, how to pause instead of override your body’s signals, and how to build real confidence through self-trust rather than perfection.

The episode closes with a simple, powerful grounding practice you can use the very next time fear shows up in your body, business, or life.

This episode is for anyone who’s tired of pushing through, tired of waiting to feel “ready,” and ready to move forward without abandoning themselves.

1. Why fear is not a flaw, but a nervous system response
2. How misreading fear leads to burnout, avoidance, and self-doubt
3. The difference between fearlessness and self-trust
4. Why self-love is about listening, not forcing confidence
5. A simple grounding practice to regulate fear in real time
6. How to keep moving forward with fear instead of waiting for it to disappear

00:00 – Fear Isn’t the Problem

01:08 – Welcome to Paddle Forward

01:43 – Season Two Kickoff

02:18 – Why Fear Is So Misunderstood

03:45 – Fear as Nervous System Feedback

06:01 – Self-Love vs. Fearless Mindset

08:19 – Practical Steps to Handle Fear

09:47 – Recap & Key Takeaways

10:39 – How You Can Support the Podcast

11:12 – Closing Message

The next time fear shows up:

1. Pause for one breath
2. Put your feet on the floor and ground yourself
3. Ask: “What is this fear trying to protect?”

That single question can interrupt the spiral and bring you back into regulation.

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In this episode of Paddle Forward: Navigating Life’s Currents, host Anacani Walters shares a deeply personal moment from motherhood that became a powerful reminder about self-trust, fear, and nervous system regulation.

After feeling pressure to override her instincts when her three-year-old son fell during a hike, Anacani noticed something important: she was apologizing for her nervous system instead of trusting it. By pausing, acknowledging her son’s emotions, and helping him regulate, the moment resolved quickly, and revealed a deeper truth about alignment, intuition, and emotional safety.

This episode isn’t about parenting “right.”

It’s about trusting yourself when judgment is loud, in motherhood, business, relationships, and life.

In this episode, Anacani explores:

1. Why discomfort and fear are data, not dysfunction
2. How regulation works faster than suppression
3. Why aligning with yourself creates safety, for you and for others
4. How acknowledging emotions can shorten stressful moments
5. What happens when you stop overriding your instincts to avoid judgment

She also reflects on insights from Inner Compass work shared by Panda Hershey, which helped her better understand how different people process stress, embarrassment, and connection, especially children who are wired for relational safety.

“Sana sana” is a comforting phrase commonly used in Latin households when a child is hurt. It’s often paired with gentle touch or reassurance and serves as a moment of emotional acknowledgment and care, helping a child feel seen and safe, rather than dismissed.

00:00 – Introduction: Trusting Your Nervous System

00:29 – Welcome to Paddle Forward

01:07 – Parenting, Pressure, and Fear of Judgment

05:05 – Why Acknowledgment Leads to Regulation

07:15 – Three Key Takeaways on Self-Trust

11:23 – Final Reflections on Fear and Alignment

12:29 – Closing Encouragement

1. Your nervous system isn’t wrong — discomfort is communication.
2. Regulation is faster than suppression — what we fear will “make it worse” often shortens the moment.
3. You don’t need to override yourself to be respected — alignment builds safety and trust.

The next time you feel the urge to override your instincts because someone is watching:

Pause.

Ask yourself: “What is my nervous system telling me right now?”

Then respond from that place, not perfectly, just honestly.

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A real-life hiking story in Oahu that reveals how maternal anxiety shapes our nervous system, and how awareness helps us respond instead of react.

What causes anxiety in motherhood?

Motherhood anxiety is often caused by neurological and hormonal changes that rewire the brain for heightened protection and threat detection, a process known as matrescence. Increased awareness of stress responses helps parents regulate their nervous system and model emotional safety for their children.

This directly answers:

1. “Why am I more anxious as a mom?”
2. “Is anxiety normal after becoming a parent?”
3. “What is the mom brain?”

Motherhood doesn’t make you anxious, it rewires your brain for protection.

In the first episode of Paddle Forward Season 2, host Anacani Walters shares a powerful real-life moment from a hike in Oahu with her 3-year-old and her mom that stopped her in her tracks. As her stress levels rose on the trail, Ana noticed her son begin to repeat her own anxious language, revealing how deeply children mirror a parent’s nervous system.

Drawing from her background in emergency medicine, yoga, and matrescence education, Ana explores why maternal anxiety is not a personal failure but a biological response rooted in survival. She unpacks how awareness becomes the first step toward regulating stress, reshaping communication, and modeling resilience for our children.

This episode sets the tone for Season 2 of Paddle Forward...where motherhood, identity, fear mindset, stress management, and holistic wellness meet real life.

If you’ve ever questioned your reactions as a parent or felt overwhelmed by the weight of responsibility, this episode is for you.

00:00 – Rewiring the Mom Brain

00:43 – Welcome to Paddle Forward

01:30 – Life Update: Okinawa to Oahu

02:13 – Sensory Overload & Re-entry Stress

03:00 – Choosing the Hike

04:27 – Anxiety on the Trail

08:22 – When Kids Mirror Our Stress

09:19 – Understanding Maternal Anxiety & Matrescence

10:41 – Awareness as the First Tool for Change

14:21 – Season 2 Themes & Closing Reflection

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