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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and colleague Dr. Stephen Cervantes—Doctor Marriage—to explore the vital roles of empathy, attunement, and responsiveness in relationships. We share personal stories and practical tips for husbands who want to connect more deeply with their wives.

Dr. Cervantes explains how empathy means “practicing sadness with someone,” and we discuss how attunement and responsiveness help build emotional closeness. Whether you’re new to these skills or looking to grow, this conversation offers encouragement and real-life tools for nurturing a more compassionate, Christ-centered marriage.

To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

• Importance of empathy, attunement, and responsiveness in marriage counseling.
• Definition of empathy as "practicing sadness with someone" and its role in emotional connection.
• The significance of being present with a partner during their emotional struggles.
• Clarification of empathy in a Christian context, equating it with compassion.
• The necessity of having the right emotional tools for genuine connection in relationships.
• The concept of attunement as matching a partner's mood and emotional state.
• The role of nonverbal communication in attunement and emotional connection.
• The importance of responsiveness after attuning to a partner's emotional state.
• The impact of emotional presence on healing and deeper connection in relationships.
• The ongoing nature of learning and practicing these skills for emotional growth in marriage.

• Daily Thoughts from Doctor Marriage
• Building True Intimacy* by Drake and Raabsmith
• Help Her Heal* by Carol J. Sheets

• Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model
• Emotional Insights for Men
• The Three Phases of Couples Recovery

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In this episode, our guest is Amber Albee Swenson—mom, Bible teacher, and author—to talk about her book, The Key to Confidence. Amber shares her personal journey from shame and brokenness to finding true confidence in Christ.

We discuss the importance of understanding our identity as God’s children, the power of honest confession, and the vital role of prayer and community in healing. Amber’s transparency and wisdom offer hope for anyone struggling with feeling “not enough.” Join us for a raw, real, and uplifting conversation about grace, faith, and walking confidently in God’s love.

To learn more about Amber and her book, visit AmberAlbeeSwenson.org.

• Amber Albee Swenson's personal journey and struggles with shame and sexual brokenness.
• The role of faith and identity in overcoming feelings of inadequacy.
• The distinction between self-confidence and confidence in God.
• The importance of understanding one's identity as a child of God.
• The significance of prayer in building confidence and healing.
• The concept of confession and its role in breaking the power of shame.
• The idea that past mistakes do not define one's identity in Christ.
• The transformative power of communal prayer and support within the Christian community.
• The focus of Amber's book as a spiritual resource rather than a self-help guide.
• Encouragement to trust in God's faithfulness and power, regardless of personal limitations.

• The Key to Confidence* by Amber Albee Swenson
• Getting Past the Past* by Amber Albee Swenson
• The Bondage Breaker* by Neil T. Anderson

• PSR Podcast Bundle: Overcoming Shame
• Your True Identity: The Journey from Head Knowledge to Heart Belief in Christ
• How to Embrace Jesus-Centered Sexuality in a Broken World

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In this episode, I sit down with Sean Maney, director of First Light in St. Louis, to discuss sexual recovery ministry. Sean shares how First Light supports men and women struggling with compulsive sexual behavior through community, therapy, and discipleship.

We then explore the importance of holistic healing and transformation, the cultural normalization of pornography, and how the church’s response has changed over the years. Sean offers hope and encouragement for anyone feeling stuck or ashamed, reminding us that real transformation is possible through grace, community, and a multi-dimensional approach to recovery.

To learn more about Sean and his ministry, visit FirstLightStLouis.org.

• Overview of First Light, a sexual discipleship ministry in St. Louis.
• Comprehensive recovery programs for individuals struggling with compulsive sexual behavior.
• Importance of community support and accountability in recovery.
• Role of therapy and counseling in addressing deeper emotional wounds.
• Discussion on the normalization of pornography in society and its impact on individuals and the church.
• Cultural shifts in attitudes towards pornography over the past 15 years.
• The progression of sexual behaviors from pornography to more severe actions.
• The need for a multi-dimensional recovery approach combining groups, counseling, and intensive care.
• Challenges faced by the church in addressing sexual brokenness and providing adequate support.
• Encouragement for individuals struggling with sexual issues to seek help and embrace community.

• Help for Men
• Help for Wives
• Help for Church Leaders

• Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?
• Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction
• The Power of Vulnerability: How Group Support Transformed Mike's Recovery Journey

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In this episode, I sit down with Drew Boa to discuss his new book, Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle. Drew shares his personal journey and explains why traditional purity culture and military-style approaches often fall short.

We then explore his compassionate, holistic method that focuses on healing childhood wounds, understanding emotional triggers, and embracing inner child work. Drew encourages viewing relapses as feedback, not failure, and highlights the importance of grace and self-compassion in recovery. If you’re a man seeking hope and lasting change, this conversation offers fresh insight and encouragement.

To get the book, visit OutgrowPorn.com. To learn more about Drew and his ministry, visit HusbandMaterial.com.

• Discussion of pornography addiction, particularly among men.
• Critique of traditional purity culture and its limitations.
• Introduction of the "outgrow porn" approach to recovery.
• Emphasis on healing childhood wounds and inner child work.
• Exploration of core emotional triggers such as fear, shame, and loss.
• Importance of viewing relapses as feedback rather than failure.
• Promotion of a growth mindset in the recovery process.
• Connection between triggers and childhood experiences.
• The role of grace and self-compassion in recovery.
• Resources and support available through Husband Material Ministries.

• Outgrow Porn* by Drew Boa
• Husband Material Resources
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men

• Outgrowing the Porn Pacifier
• Navigating the 3 Stages of Recovery from Porn Addiction
• The Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from Porn

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In this episode, I sit down with returning guest Ashley Jameson, a sex educator and author of the new book "Girl Talk." We dive into why it’s so important for moms to have honest, ongoing conversations with their daughters about sex, even when it feels awkward or scary.

Ashley shares personal stories, up-to-date research, and practical tips for starting these talks early, addressing common fears, and becoming a safe, trusted source for your kids—especially as they face pressures from peers, social media, and early exposure to pornography. If you’re a mom of a daughter, you won’t want to miss this conversation.

For more info on Ashley and the book, go to PureDesire.org.

• Importance of open communication between mothers and daughters about sexuality.
• Challenges and fears mothers face when discussing sex with their daughters.
• The risks of not addressing sexual topics early in a child's life.
• Insights from personal experiences and research on youth exposure to pornography.
• The role of parents as primary sources of information regarding sexual topics.
• The significance of starting conversations about sex at a young age.
• The impact of societal pressures and media on children's understanding of sexuality.
• Strategies for creating a safe environment for discussions about sex.
• The need for resources like the book "Girl Talk" to guide these conversations.
• The universal nature of curiosity and struggles related to sexuality among youth.

• Girl Talk* by Ashley Jameson
• Critical Conversations FREE online course
• 7 Tips for Parents (free download in English and Spanish)

• Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and Sexuality
• Parenting in a Hypersexualized and Identity Confused Culture
• Helping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships

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In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes to explore why so many of us feel stuck in our personal growth, especially men facing addiction and relational struggles. We share honest stories about excuses, limiting beliefs, and the deep fears that hold us back—like failure, rejection, and not feeling good enough.

Together, we unpack how faith, hope, and community can help us move forward, break old cycles, and embrace the growth God has for us. We were created for “abundant life” and this means we all need a growth mission throughout life.

To get daily insights from Stephen Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Theme of personal growth and overcoming feelings of being "stuck"
• Emotional, spiritual, and relational growth, particularly for men in recovery
• Common barriers to growth, including self-doubt, comparison, overwhelm, and confusion
• The role of personality and perspective in personal development
• Connection between past experiences and current struggles
• The significance of community and accountability in the growth process
• Exploration of limiting beliefs and excuses that hinder progress
• Discussion of core fears that contribute to feeling stuck, such as fear of failure, rejection, and abandonment
• Encouragement to embrace growth through curiosity, faith, and taking action despite discomfort

More Resources:

• 49 Days of Growth* by Stephen Cervantes
• Emotionally Healthy Spirituality* by Peter Scazzero
• Personal Ministry Consultation

Related Podcasts:

• PSR Bundle for Men: Emotional Growth
• How to Turn Emotional Triggers Into Opportunities for Growth
• For Men Who Want to Finish Strong

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In this episode, I reconnect with KathyGrace Duncan, who briefly shares her remarkable journey of living as a man for 11 years before finding transformation and true identity in Christ. The bulk of our conversation focuses on what it means to move from “head knowledge” of identity in Christ to “heart belief,” exploring how God renews our minds and hearts through Scripture, prayer, and community.

KathyGrace offers practical wisdom on embracing our true identity in Christ, overcoming old patterns, and living as those who are permanently loved by God. It’s an honest, hope-filled conversation about ongoing transformation and the freedom found in God’s love.

For more info on KathyGrace and navigating identity issues, visit PortlandFellowship.com and ChangedMovement.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Testimony of living as a man for 11 years despite being biologically female.
• Transformation and redemption through faith in Jesus Christ.
• Involvement in ministry work, particularly in women's and transgender ministry.
• Exploration of identity in Christ and its cultural and spiritual significance.
• Biblical perspectives on identity, referencing scriptures from 1 Peter, Ephesians, Galatians, and Romans.
• Concepts of the "old man" and the "new man" in relation to personal transformation.
• The process of renewing the mind and its importance in spiritual growth.
• Distinction between intellectual knowledge and heartfelt belief in God’s truth.
• The role of prayer and community in facilitating ongoing transformation.
• Encouragement to embrace one's identity in Christ and live out that truth.

More Resources:

• Identity: What Foundation Are You Building On?* by John Fort
• Identity in Christ* by Neil T. Anderson
• Love Thy Body* by Nancy Pearcey

Related Podcasts:

• Embracing God's Image in Gender
• Changed: The Amazing Transformation of a Former Lesbian Pastor
• Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity

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In this episode, I welcome back Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith to dive into their “Three Phases of Couple Recovery” model for healing from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. Together, we explore the Recovery, Restoration, and Renewal phases—discussing how couples can move from crisis and individual healing to rebuilding trust, intimacy, and shared purpose.

Joanna and Matthew share practical tips, emphasize the importance of trauma-informed support, and encourage patience with the non-linear journey of recovery. Whether you’re just starting in recovery or seeking restoration and renewal for your relationship, their insights offer hope and guidance for every step of the process.

To learn more about Matthew and Joanna and their marriage resources, visit RaabsmithTeam.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• The three phases of couple recovery: Recovery, Restoration, and Renewal.
• The Recovery phase focuses on individual healing and establishing safety after betrayal or addiction.
• The importance of trauma-informed support during the Recovery phase.
• The emotional intensity and relational work involved in the Restoration phase.
• The concept of "couple grieving" as a unified process for both partners.
• The role of forgiveness in the Restoration phase and its timing.
• The ongoing nature of the Restoration phase and the potential for revisiting earlier work.
• The Renewal phase as an opportunity to build a new relationship and shared purpose.
• The significance of designing rituals of connection and exploring shared dreams in the Renewal phase.
• The non-linear nature of recovery, emphasizing patience and awareness throughout the process.

Read Blog Post: The Three Phases of Couples Recovery - and What Kind of Help You Need in Each

More Resources:

• Renewing Us Couples Retreat (Nov 14-16)
• Couples and Individual Coaching
• Couples Group Program

Related Podcasts:

• Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After Betrayal
• The Role of Boundaries in Marriage Restoration
• Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal

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