In Episode 22 of On the School Bus with Dr. Spates, I sit down with Arby Jean Wolkov, an American Sign Language teacher and one of California’s 2025 Teachers of the Year. Arby shares her journey from being an English language learner to becoming a statewide leader in Deaf education.

We explore what high-quality ASL instruction looks like, why language access is critical for Deaf and hard of hearing students, and how schools can create environments where all students feel connected and included. Arby also breaks down common misconceptions about the Deaf community and shares how her classroom builds real-world communication through immersive learning experiences—including interpreting live performances.

This episode is a powerful reminder that when we center communication, access, and belonging, we open doors for students and communities in transformative ways.

Episode Takeaways

• Language access is foundational; many Deaf students are born to hearing parents and may not have early access to language
• ASL is a complete language with its own grammar and structure—not simply English translated into signs
• High-quality ASL programs include culture, history, and real-world application—not just vocabulary
• Immersive experiences like “Silent Weekend” allow students to truly live the language beyond the classroom
• Students build empathy and deeper connections when they can directly communicate across differences
• Schools must invest in interpreters, trained teachers, and inclusive practices to support Deaf and hard of hearing students
• ASL should be treated as a world language and career pathway—not just an elective

🚌 About the Podcast

So here we are. On the School Bus with Dr. Spates — a vehicle (a metaphorical school bus) for learning, growing, laughing, stretching our thinking, and being inspired together. This podcast is exclusively for two groups of people: the passionate school leaders who show up every day determined to improve student outcomes and transform TK–12 education, and the once-passionate leaders who just need a spark to find their way back.

As the culture says: #WeAreNotForEverybody — and that’s perfectly fine with me.

📬 Connect with Arby Jean Wolkov

Go Fund Me (Silent Weekend): https://www.gofundme.com/f/silentweekend2026

Donor's Choose (Silent Weekend): https://www.donorschoose.org/classroom/aslwithmstacub

Email: arbyjean.wolkov@lausd.net

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arby-jean-tacubw/

📬 Connect with Dr. Krishna Darlene Spates

Website: ontheschoolbuswithdrspates.com

Website: KrishnaSpates.com

Email: hello@OnTheSchoolBusWithDrSpates.com

Instagram • YouTube • TikTok • Facebook: @OnTheSchoolBusWithDrSpates

LinkedIn: Krishna Spates, Ed.D.

📸 Production Studio

Recorded at 661 Creators Space

Website: 661CreatorsSpace.com

Instagram: @661CreatorsSpace

Email: 661creatorsspace@gmail.com

🎼 Music

Theme Song: “Call of Duty” — Mutanix

Instagram: @mutanixs

Email: mutanixmedia@gmail.com

Used with permission.

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In this powerful and deeply human conversation, I sit down with Jacqueline A. Diaz-Fontana, founder of the Erick A. Garcia You Are Enough Foundation, to explore how personal tragedy can transform into purpose that impacts entire communities and save lives.

After losing her son Eric to suicide, Jacqueline made the courageous decision to share her story—not only to heal, but to help other families recognize the importance of mental health, connection, and conversation.

Together, we discuss what young people are silently carrying, what parents and educators often miss, and how we can create environments where students feel safe enough to say, “I’m not okay.” This episode is both a wake-up call and a guide—filled with practical advice, hope, and a reminder that every child needs to know: they are enough.

Episode Takeaways

• Jacqueline shares how the loss of her son led her to create the You Are Enough Foundation to save lives
• Parents must look beyond behavior and start deeper conversations with their children
• Listening without judgment is one of the most powerful tools adults have
• Mental health support should be viewed as prevention, not just crisis response
• Students today are carrying anxiety, pressure, and uncertainty about their future
• Educators must lead with empathy and avoid labeling students
• Community partnerships with nonprofits can provide critical support for schools
• Starting a nonprofit requires heart, consistency, and the courage to “do it afraid”
• One conversation can change—and even save—a life
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If you are a school leader, educator, or community partner looking to bring this work to your students—this is an organization to connect with.

🚨 Resources Mentioned

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (Call or text 988)
• Local Department of Mental Health services

🚌 About the Podcast

So here we are. On the School Bus with Dr. Spates — a vehicle (a metaphorical school bus) for learning, growing, laughing, stretching our thinking, and being inspired together. This podcast is exclusively for two groups of people: the passionate school leaders who show up every day determined to improve student outcomes and transform TK–12 education, and the once-passionate leaders who just need a spark to find their way back.

As the culture says: #WeAreNotForEverybody — and that’s perfectly fine with me.

📬 Connect with Dr. Krishna Darlene Spates

Website: ontheschoolbuswithdrspates.com

Website: KrishnaSpates.com

Email: hello@OnTheSchoolBusWithDrSpates.com

Instagram • YouTube • TikTok • Facebook: @OnTheSchoolBusWithDrSpates

LinkedIn: Krishna Spates, Ed.D.

📬 Connect with Jacqueline Diaz-Fontana & The Foundation

Website: https://youareenoughfoundation.org

Email: info@youareenoughfoundation.org

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/youareenoughfoundation

📸 Production Studio

Recorded at 661 Creators Space

Website: 661CreatorsSpace.com

Instagram: @661CreatorsSpace

Email: 661creatorsspace@gmail.com

🎼 Music

Theme Song: “Call of Duty” — Mutanix

Instagram: @mutanixs

Email: mutanixmedia@gmail.com

Used with permission.

💛 Support the Work

If this episode inspired you, please like, comment, subscribe, and share with another school leader. Watch the playlist on YouTube while you're multi-tasking: Listen here. Our students, families, and communities are counting on us.

In this powerful episode of On the School Bus with Dr. Spates, Dr. Spates sits down with Todd Davis Sr.—father of a Super Bowl champion and a dynamic motivational speaker—to explore what it truly means to raise resilient, purpose-driven children.

Todd shares deeply personal insights about raising two children with different paths—his son, Todd Davis, and his daughter, whom he calls his “princessy”—while ensuring both felt equally valued, seen, and supported.

The conversation dives into transparent parenting, avoiding comparison, and the importance of affirming children for who they are—not just what they achieve. Todd also challenges parents and educators to rethink how they support young people, especially those not “shining the brightest.”

With powerful metaphors—from chandeliers to slinkies to setbacks—Todd delivers a message rooted in purpose: we are not raising children, we are raising future adults.

This episode is a must-listen for educators, caregivers, and anyone committed to helping every child find their light.

✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Every child must be raised as an individual, not in comparison to others
• Affirm children for who they are, not just what they achieve
• Avoid projecting your own dreams onto your child’s journey
• Setbacks are opportunities to assess, adjust, and advance
• Parents must balance protection with preparation for independence
• Student-athletes should prioritize academics and life skills beyond sports
• Educators must focus on all students—not just the ones who shine the brightest
• True success is about becoming a whole, grounded human being

🚌 About the Podcast

So here we are. On the School Bus with Dr. Spates — a vehicle (a metaphorical school bus) for learning, growing, laughing, stretching our thinking, and being inspired together. This podcast is exclusively for two groups of people: the passionate school leaders who show up every day determined to improve student outcomes and transform TK–12 education, and the once-passionate leaders who just need a spark to find their way back.

As the culture says: #WeAreNotForEverybody — and that’s perfectly fine with me.

📬 Connect with Dr. Krishna Darlene Spates

Website: ontheschoolbuswithdrspates.com

Website: KrishnaSpates.com

Email: hello@OnTheSchoolBusWithDrSpates.com

Instagram • YouTube • TikTok • Facebook: @OnTheSchoolBusWithDrSpates

LinkedIn: Krishna Spates, Ed.D.

📬 Connect with Todd Davis Senior

Email: thisiscoachtodd@gmail.com

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/thisiscoachtodd

📸 Production Studio

Recorded at 661 Creators Space

Website: 661CreatorsSpace.com

Instagram: @661CreatorsSpace

Email: 661creatorsspace@gmail.com

🎼 Music

Theme Song: “Call of Duty” — Mutanix

Instagram: @mutanixs

Email: mutanixmedia@gmail.com

Used with permission.

💛 Support the Work

If this episode inspired you, please like, comment, subscribe, and share with another school leader. Watch the playlist on YouTube while you're multi-tasking: Listen here. Our students, families, and communities are counting on us.