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What really matters in love — the checklist or the connection? 💭

In this Wisdom Wednesday episode of Off-Limits, Ellen dives into the new film Materialists (Dakota Johnson, Pedro Pascal, Chris Evans) and The Fall Guy (Ryan Gosling, Emily Blunt) to explore how modern dating often feels like a spreadsheet of “must-haves.” She shares personal stories from her younger checklist days, her Box Theory on true love, and the lessons learned when chemistry and connection outweigh paper-perfect résumés.

✨ Takeaways:

• Why connection beats checklists every time.
• The role of self-love and worthiness in finding (and keeping) love.
• Questions to ask yourself if you’re single, dating, or in a relationship.

Because at the end of the day, love isn’t about the restaurants, the résumés, or the paychecks. It’s about who you’d still choose in the box.Lots of love,
Ellen

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Why are women so exhausted, and why do men seem so lost? In this episode of Off-Limits, I dive into the broken polarity between masculine and feminine energy, in dating, work, and everyday life. From ghosted job interviews to flaky dates, to wake up calls and the role nutrition plays in our hormones, I share real stories from my week and why it’s harder than ever for men and women to connect.

*We’ll talk about:

The deeper truth of masculine as giver and feminine as receiver

Why women can’t soften if men won’t lead and why men can’t lead if women won’t let go

What I’ve learned from being rejected (in jobs and dating) and how it shapes our energy

Why role models like Mike Radoor (thank you for the quote) Mike R. Holland and Revival Coach Bryan inspire me with their grounded masculine presence.

This isn’t about controlling or conforming. It’s about restoring harmony so we can find real connection again.

Lots of love,
Ellen

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Ever feel like your life is one big waiting room? You’re not alone. In this episode of Off-Limits with Ellen Roers, I share what it feels like to juggle consulting, real estate, and the job search while sitting in the “in-between.”

The waiting room can be uncomfortable. Whether you’re waiting for a job callback, navigating divorce, in between homes, or just unsure of what’s next. But here’s the truth: waiting isn’t punishment. It’s preparation.

Join me as we talk about:
✨ Why being multi-passionate is not a weakness but a strength
✨ Masculine hustle vs. feminine trust in the waiting season
✨ Simple practices to find peace (movement, breath, nature, community, stillness)
✨ How to reframe “waiting” as becoming

And yes, I even share why I recorded this one in my Vikings jersey 😉

If you’re in the waiting room too, this episode will remind you: you’re not behind, you’re becoming.

Lots of love,

Ellen

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