In this episode, I reflect on the importance of personal accountability and how easy it can be to point fingers at others rather than owning up to our actions. I start with the classic Einstein quote about insanity—doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results—and share stories from my own life where accountability (or lack thereof) played a big role, from customers blaming my company for their missed subscriptions to personal habits I’ve needed to change.

I talk about childhood lessons my dad taught me about fairness, and how comparison can steal our joy. I discuss how excuses like “nobody ever told me” or “that’s just how I am” keep us stuck, and I get real about my messy house, bad eating habits, and struggles with weight. I share about moments when I ignored obvious red flags in relationships and recount how ignoring good counsel can lead to costly failures—like filing bankruptcy in my 20s and bombing a tough college class because I didn’t pay attention.

I dive into Scripture, highlighting Galatians 6, Philippians 2, and Ezekiel 18, to remind myself (and listeners) that we reap what we sow, that change is possible, and that we are responsible for our own actions—not our parents, not anyone else.

There’s a story about my ex-wife and how firm consequences helped her kids grow into successful adults—I even witnessed her smash a video game as promised! I’m reminded that real change takes effort, sometimes painful choices, and a willingness to listen, learn, and act.

Finally, I encourage anyone feeling stuck in their current story—whether with their job, family, or faith—to “read the syllabus” (the Bible) and try something different. I share that this episode really speaks to my own need for self-discipline and accountability.

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