I didn’t plan to get emotional talking about sobriety, but one question on a recent guest interview hit me right in the chest: what was the hardest part about deciding to stop drinking? Five years later, my answer is clear. It wasn’t the alcohol itself. It was grieving the life I’d built around it, the image of success I thought I wanted, and the community I assumed I couldn’t replace.

I walk through how alcohol becomes “normal” in restaurant life and hospitality culture, from wine education and cocktail training to happy hours, late-night decompression, and the constant accessibility that comes with the industry. I share what the first year looked like in real terms: learning how to say I don’t drink, planning ahead for non-alcoholic options, and facing the anger and shame that I hadn’t processed yet. Then we fast-forward to what sobriety gave me back: steady energy, better emotional control, fitness goals that keep expanding, a rebuilt community, a simpler relationship with money, and a deeper sense of presence in my work and relationships.

If any part of this resonates, share it with a leader who needs it, subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next, and leave a review so more restaurant owners can find the show. What’s one thing in your life that’s draining your energy right now?

Here are Links to the Communities that Continue to Uplift Me:

Colorado Restaurant Association Women in Hospitality

Leadership Intensive (for EatDenver members)

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The quickest way to weaken a restaurant isn’t a bad week of sales, it’s the quiet decision to tolerate what you know needs to change. We start with a real quarterly planning story where an owner does something rare: he names the negativity; eye rolls, and the “why it won’t work” energy he’s been allowing on his leadership team. That moment opens up a bigger conversation about restaurant culture, accountability, and why “convenient” tolerance always comes with a cost.

From there, we break it down by role. For restaurant owners, we challenge the habits that set the tone during service, especially the temptation to jump back into day-to-day operations as the “fast fix.” For directors of operations, we talk about how people-pleasing and overwhelm can quietly erase standards, and why a system like a recurring walkthrough checklist creates alignment without making it personal. For general managers, we get concrete about restaurant management realities: keeping a high performer who is corrosive, letting sidework slide, avoiding conflict, and even tolerating small time and attendance issues that turn into real labor cost bleed.

If you lead a multi-unit restaurant group or you’re building toward one, you’ll walk away with a sharper lens for leadership development and a simple challenge: pick one behavior you’re tolerating and do something about it this week. If this helps, subscribe, share it with a fellow operator, and leave a review so more restaurant leaders can find it.

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Turnover after the holidays can feel like a punch to the gut, especially when it hits key leaders and you’re already tired from the busiest shifts of the year. We step back and look at the real issue most restaurant operators miss: hiring without a clear, measurable definition of what “the right person” actually is. When your managers rely on instinct instead of standards, you get inconsistent execution, weak ownership, and a constant stream of questions that drag you back into day-to-day firefighting.

Then we get tactical: how to design values, test them against current operations, roll them out with your team, and turn them into core value interview questions, job descriptions, one-on-ones, and performance reviews. We also cover the nuance of coaching through tough personal seasons while still holding standards, plus how often to revisit values as your business evolves. If you want a hiring and coaching system that scales and keeps great leaders longer, subscribe, share this with another operator, and leave a review so more restaurant owners can find it.

P.S. Ready to take your restaurant to the next level?

• Get the Independent Restaurant Framework that's helped countless owners build thriving multi-location brands. Grab your copy at https://www.IRFbook.com

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