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NeuroDiverse Christian Couples

NeuroDiverse Christian Couples

著者： Dr. Stephanie Holmes
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Like all couples, NeuroDiverse (AS/NT) Christian couples face challenges with communication and connection. Those challenges are nuanced in a way that most couples, therapists, and clergy don't typically recognize. Often NeuroDiverse Couples have children on the spectrum (or or other differences), this podcast will dedicate topics to the NeuroDiverse Couple as well as issues that may arise in spectrum or special needs family systems. We invite you to learn about NeuroDiverse Christian couples to understand those aspects more fully.2021+ Dr. Stephanie and Dan Holmes 心理学 心理学・心の健康 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Weaponized Scripture: Sexual Intimacy or Spiritual Coercion: Rethinking 1 Cor. 7 with Dr. Jake Porter

    Weaponized Scripture: Sexual Intimacy or Spiritual Coercion: Rethinking 1 Cor. 7 with Dr. Jake Porter
    2026/06/15
    In this episode, Dan and Stephanie sit down with Dr. Jake Porter for a thoughtful and honest conversation about one of the most debated — and often weaponized — passages in Christian marriage discussions: 1 Corinthians 7.
    What did Paul actually mean when he wrote about marital intimacy? How has this passage been misused to justify pressure, coercion, and “duty sex” within Christian relationships? And what happens when mutuality, context, and the heart of the Gospel are stripped away from the conversation?
    Together, they unpack the historical and relational context of Paul’s words, explore the difference between covenant and control, and discuss how Scripture can be applied in ways that either foster safety and connection or deepen shame and harm.
    This episode is not about dismissing Scripture. It is about reading it carefully, relationally, and in the spirit it was intended.
    Topics include:
    • Weaponized Scripture in marriage
    • “Duty sex” and coercive interpretations
    • Mutuality and consent in 1 Corinthians 7
    • What Dr. Stephanie has heard in her NeuroDiverse Couples' Work
    • Is there such a thing as the sin of withholding?
    • What Paul was addressing in the Corinthian church
    • How pastors and couples can approach these conversations with wisdom and care
    A nuanced conversation about theology, relationships, and the difference between biblical intimacy and spiritual pressure.
    About Dr. Jake Porter:
    https://www.daringventures.com/
    Scripturally, Pastorally & Clinically Trained:
    EducationB.A., Elmira College, triple majors in Psychology, Music, Philosophy & Religion
    M.Div., Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary
    Th.M. in Spirituality & Ethics, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
    M.Ed. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Lamar University
    Ed.D., The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. Dissertation: Affective Social Neurobiology & Student Formation: A Transdisciplinary Multimethod Study
    Professional Memberships & AffiliationsLead Professor for the Doctor of Professional Counseling Program & Assistant Professor of Counseling, Kairos University
    Faculty, International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals
    Member, Division 47 of the APA: Society for Sport, Exercise and Performance Psychology
    Member, Division 43 of the APA: Society for Couple and Family Psychology
    Member, Division 8 of the APA: Society for Personality and Social Psychology
    Member, Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health
    Professional ServiceFounder & President, The International Association of Couple–Centered Recovery®
    Board of Directors, The Association of Partners of Sex Addiction Trauma Specialists (APSATS)
    Board of Directors, Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International (C-SASI)
    Professor of Counseling, Kairos University's Houston Graduate School of Theology
    Licensure & CertificationsLicensed Professional Counselor, State of Texas (#78173)
    Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, State of Montana (#76171)
    Board Certified Counselor, National Board for Certified Counselors
    Certified Sex Addiction Therapist – Supervisor, International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
    Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist, International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
    Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, The Association for Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists
    Certified Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy Provider, The Integrative Psychiatry Institute
    Licensed Psilocybin Facilitator (FL-12de7070), State of Oregon
    Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, International Association of Trauma Professionals
    Advanced TrainingsCoachRICE Executive Leadership Coach Training, Rice University
    PACT Level III (Psychological Approach to Couple Therapy)
    Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) Level I
    Gottman Couple Therapy Level I
    EMDR Level I (EMDRIA–Approved Training)
    Emotionally Focused Therapy (Externship, Core Skills 1-4)
    Post–Induction Therapy (The Meadows Model), Pia Mellody
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  • Clarifying What God Says About Divorce in Scripture with Gretchen Baskerville

    Clarifying What God Says About Divorce in Scripture with Gretchen Baskerville
    2026/06/08
    Today on ND Couples Coaches' Corner, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara Grant continue the series on the month-long series examining how Scripture is sometimes misused by spiritual authorities—such as clergy, small-group leaders, biblical counselors, and Christian counselors—in ways that shame or further harm those who are already experiencing abuse in their marriages.In this special series, Twisted Scripture: When the Bible Is Weaponized, we take a careful and thoughtful look at passages that are frequently used in ways that silence the vulnerable or pressure victims to remain in harmful situations. Today's Guest: Author of Life-Saving Divorce, Gretchen BaskervilleSome of today's verses included Malachi 2:16 and passages in Mark 10 and Matthew 19 about divorce. Short bioGretchen Baskerville is a Christian divorce recovery leader and author. She began leading support groups for single mothers in conservative churches in the Los Angeles area in 1998 and now focuses primarily on reaching people online. For more than 25 years, Gretchen has helped women and men of faith find strength, courage, and healing through the challenges of life-saving divorce. She listens with empathy to those recovering from domestic violence, betrayal, infidelity, addiction, and emotional abuse. A survivor of a toxic marriage herself, Gretchen understands the journey of rebuilding after loss. Following her own life-saving divorce and years as a single mother, she is now happily remarried. She is a graduate of Wheaton College with a degree in Bible and Christian Education. Definition:What’s a Life-Saving Divorce?A Life-Saving Divorce is the opposite of an “I’m bored” divorce, or an “I miss the party life” divorce. It is a divorce for serious reasons: to find relief from a pattern of sexual immorality, physical violence, chronic emotional abuse, felony behavior, family-crushing addictions, or abandonment through neglect and indifference. Links to my resourcesThe Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive RelationshipsBook (paperback/eBook/audiobook page): https://amzn.to/3J3vXa7Audiobook (direct link): https://amzn.to/4f52Mh4Website & Blog: https://lifesavingdivorce.com/Pastor Education page: https://lifesavingdivorce.com/pastor-education-domestic-violence-biblical-response/Gumroad (EPUB + PDF download): https://gumroad.com/lspFor those who share an Amazon account with their abuser.Social mediaBluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/lifesavingdivorce.bsky.socialFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lifesavingdivorceInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenbaskerville/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lifesavingdivorceTwitter/X: https://twitter.com/GGBaskervilleLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-baskerville-2873591b5/ If you want to join a class for women with Dr. Stephanie Holmes: https://www.holmesasr.com/womengroups check here for current classes.If you want to work with Barbara Grant: https://bg-hc.com/
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    53 分
  • Weaponizing Scripture: A Focus on Forgiveness, True Repentance & Reconciliation with Dr. Steven R. Tracy

    Weaponizing Scripture: A Focus on Forgiveness, True Repentance & Reconciliation with Dr. Steven R. Tracy
    2026/06/01
    Today, we begin a month-long series examining how Scripture is sometimes misused by spiritual authorities—such as clergy, small-group leaders, biblical counselors, and Christian counselors—in ways that shame or further harm those who are already experiencing abuse in their marriages.
    In this special series, Twisted Scripture: When the Bible Is Weaponized, we take a careful and thoughtful look at passages that are frequently used in ways that silence the vulnerable or pressure victims to remain in harmful situations.
    Our first conversation features Dr. Steven R. Tracy, author of To Harm or To Heal: The Bible and Its Use in Counseling and co-author with Celestia G. Tracy of Mending the Soul. Together, we discuss two critical topics: spiritual abuse by church leadership in their counseling and pastoral care, and the biblical responsibility of leaders to protect those who are vulnerable. We also address commonly misused teachings about forgiveness and reconciliation and how these passages are often applied in ways that ignore the realities of abuse.

    Throughout this month-long series, we will continue exploring other frequently cited “clobber verses,” inviting theologians, pastors, and scholars to help us examine Scripture more faithfully and responsibly.

    Join us as we work to distinguish between Scripture that heals and Scripture that has been twisted in ways that harm. Steven R. Tracy - CBE International
    Steven R. Tracy is a professor of theology and ethics at Phoenix Seminary and co-founder of Mending the Soul Ministries. He is the author of "Mending the Soul: Understanding and Healing Abuse" and co-author of "Marriage at the Crossroads" (forthcoming, InterVarsity). Tracy's work focuses on providing education and resources for the church and community on abuse, sexuality, and healthy intimacy. He has extensive experience in pastoral, classroom, and clinical settings, bringing over 40 years of experience to his work with Mending the Soul.
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    59 分
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