There comes a moment when choosing yourself is no longer optional, it is necessary.

In this solo episode, Roni shares a deeply honest reflection on the power of not settling in relationships, career, and life. From stepping outside her comfort zone and experiencing a brief heartbreak, to recognizing how staying in a misaligned job disrupted her peace, focus, and nervous system, Roni walks listeners through what it truly means to choose alignment over distraction.

This episode explores:

• How settling shows up in subtle ways

• Why temporary attention can pull you off purpose

• The impact misalignment has on your mental health and nervous system

• How faith, intuition, and discipline guide better decisions

• Why being hopeful and focused can coexist

If you’re in a season of building, healing, or learning how to trust yourself again, this conversation is a reminder that what you choose today shapes the life you live later.

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During menopause, your body isn’t just changing—it’s communicating. Hot flashes, anxiety, insomnia, and mood swings are all connected to how your nervous system responds to stress.

In this powerful conversation, Dr. Katashia joins Your Midlife Bestie, Roni, to explore how sound therapy, mindfulness, and nervous system regulation can bring real menopause relief and restore hormonal balance.

You’ll learn: 💆🏾‍♀️ What happens to your nervous system during menopause 🎶 How sound baths help calm stress and reduce symptoms 🌿 Simple ways to reset your body’s stress response at home 💫 Why holistic care is essential for women’s health and emotional well-being

Whether you’re struggling with brain fog, sleepless nights, or just trying to find calm in the chaos, this episode will help you understand your body on a deeper level and remind you—it’s possible to feel grounded, balanced, and whole again.

Ready to explore sound healing for yourself? Grab Dr. Katashia’s free eBook, “The Sound Therapy Experience,” and discover her favorite sound therapy speakersto get started. Visit blackgirlvitamins.com

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You show up. You lead. You care for others. But who holds space for you when you’re worn out?

In this solo episode, Roni opens up about her personal experience with burnout and high-functioning anxiety in midlife. She shares what it looks like when you’re the “strong friend” on the outside but emotionally drained on the inside. You’ll learn the hidden signs of emotional burnout, why high-achieving and first-generation women often push through without asking for help, and how to reset before your body forces you to stop.

Roni also gives practical tips for protecting your energy, managing how you show up for others, and identifying who’s truly showing up for you. If you’ve been running on empty, this episode is your reminder that rest is not a reward — it’s your responsibility.

Listen now and grab the free Reset Guide in the show notes to start your own pause-and-refill practice.

Reset Guide & Mental Health Resources

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Many women are told that bladder leakage, dryness, pain with intimacy, or prolapse are “just part of getting older.” But today’s guest, Dr. Chidi Tugbiyele, is here to set the record straight.

In this episode, Dr. Tugbiyele explains Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM) — a common but rarely discussed condition that affects millions of women. We explore the myths, the impact on daily life and relationships, and the safe, effective solutions that can restore confidence, comfort, and control.

Dr. Chidi Tugbiyele is a Nigerian-American physician, urogynecologist, and pelvic floor specialist based in Metro Atlanta. His mission is to help women know they don’t have to suffer in silence — real solutions exist.

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Why does dating feel so hard — even for confident, successful women? In this episode, Dating Coach Lilli Bewley joins Roni to break down emotional blocks, feminine energy, and the hidden patterns that keep us stuck. If you're ready to stop settling and attract real love, this one's for you.

Take the Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz mentioned in the episode: Quiz Connect with Lilli on Instagram: Lilli on IG Subscribe to Navigating Life After 40 for more real conversations like this.

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Dr. Stephanie, pharmacist and founder of Menopause in Color, joins me to talk about the symptoms women are often told to ignore, the truth about hormone therapy, and why Black and Brown women deserve better care. We’re breaking the silence on perimenopause and menopause — no fluff, just real talk and real solutions.

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Summary:

In this episode of the Navigating Life After 40 podcast, host Roni Jai sits down with fashion designer and style coach Chanel Scales to talk about rediscovering confidence and self-expression through fashion in your 40s and beyond. Chanel shares her journey in the fashion industry, how personal style can empower women in midlife, and why community support and identity matter—especially for moms navigating change.

From building a fashion brand to redefining beauty standards, this conversation is for any woman over 40 looking to feel confident, stylish, and fully herself. Whether you're navigating motherhood, midlife reinvention, or simply trying to show up as your most authentic self, this episode is packed with insights you won’t want to miss.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Fashion and Confidence 02:16 The Birth of Shingo Label 05:13 The Journey to Shein 10:27 Navigating Gatekeeping in Fashion 15:52 Style as Empowerment 16:51 Empowering Women Through Fashion 21:22 Rediscovering Personal Style After Motherhood 24:08 Embracing Change and Self-Love 29:45 The Role of Struggle in Personal Growth 33:19 Life After 40: A New Beginning

Guest Information:

Chanel Scales: Fashion Designer and Founder of Shingo Label Website: chanelscales.com Instagram: @chanelscales Shop Shingo Label on Shein: Search "Shingo" on shein.com

Don't miss this episode filled with insights and inspiration. Listen now and learn how to embrace your confidence and style after 40. Subscribe to "Navigating Life After 40" for more empowering stories and tips.

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Summary:

In this empowering episode, Natty Frasca shares how she went from feeling unfulfilled in a seemingly perfect life to reconnecting with joy, purpose, and pleasure in midlife. As a pleasure coach, she explains how nervous system regulation, self-discovery, and rebellion can help women over 40 break free from burnout and societal expectations. Natty offers real talk, personal insights, and practical encouragement to help listeners prioritize their well-being and create a life that feels as good as it looks. Chapters:

00:00 – Introduction and Background 00:21 – The Turning Point: Realizing Something is Missing 05:01 – The Journey of Self-Discovery 12:08 – Understanding Guilt and Patriarchy 17:48 – The Power of Community and Support 18:51 – The Role of Pleasure in Rebuilding Confidence 25:55 – Finding Joy in Everyday Moments 28:21 – The Importance of Rebellion in Midlife 32:03 – Embracing Freedom and Choice 33:17 – Overcoming Fear and Taking Action 37:18 – Daily Reflection for Empowerment

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✨ Learn More About Natty Frasca Visit: thefemininerebellion.com

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