My Sexuality Is Not a Trauma Response
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Why is one of the first questions lesbians get asked, “What happened to you?”
In this episode of Conversation For One, we’re unpacking one of the most common misconceptions about lesbian identity: the belief that being attracted to women must be the result of trauma, heartbreak, or “not meeting the right man.”
This isn’t about attacking men. It’s about challenging the assumption that heterosexuality is the default and that lesbianism needs an explanation.
We’ll talk about the difference between trauma and sexual orientation, why attraction doesn’t need to be justified, and how constantly searching for a man’s role in a lesbian’s story unintentionally centers men in a conversation that has always been about women.
Nothing had to happen to make me gay.
Sometimes people are exactly who they say they are.
If this episode challenged your perspective, made you think, or gave you the words you’ve been looking for, share it with someone. I’d love to hear your thoughts drop a comment or send me a message, because the best conversations are the uncomfortable ones.