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This week’s episode is different.

For the first time, we hear from a daughter who is still living at home with the mother who is hurting her.

She’s 16. She’s doing everything she can to hold it together. And she’s counting the days until she can leave.

In this episode, we talk about:

What it means to still be in it, not healing from the past but surviving the present

Anger, and why it’s not the problem

How to stay grounded in yourself when the environment around you isn’t safe

What it looks like to get through the next stretch without losing who you are
We also hear from her grandmother, her safe person, and explore the role that one steady, loving relationship can play in a daughter’s life.

I’ll be taking a short break from releasing new episodes to give myself some space around our upcoming retreat and to regroup behind the scenes.

Mayhem isn’t going anywhere. I’ll be back soon.

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Food didn’t become comfort by accident.

For many daughters, food became the safest way to soothe themselves when feelings were too big, too inconvenient, or too unwelcome for the people around them.

Food didn’t roll its eyes. Food didn’t tell you that you were overreacting. Food didn’t walk away.

It helped you settle your nervous system the best way you knew how.This week, we’re talking honestly about the complicated relationship many daughters of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers have with food.

This conversation explores:

Why emotional eating makes sense in the context of childhood trauma

The difference between comfort, control, and coping with food

How food often becomes protection when emotional needs aren’t met

Why shame never helps change these patterns

Practical ways to start responding to emotional eating with more awareness and compassion

Healing isn’t about shaming yourself out of emotional eating.

It’s about learning how to listen to the feelings underneath it so food doesn’t have to carry quite so much of the weight anymore.

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Today, we are building the official Mother Mayhem Heartbreak Survival Kit.

You know the drill.

Pajamas Tissues. At least one song on repeat. And a movie you’ve seen so many times you can recite it by heart.

Because daughters… we have a daughter who needs her sisters right now.

After four years together and a beautiful beach proposal, she thought she had finally found home. Safety. Love. A future.

And then her mother happened.

So come sit with us.

A daughter’s broken heart deserves backup and today, we’re showing up.