Discover why fall is the perfect time to reset your self-care routine (or finally start one) without adding one more thing to your overwhelming to-do list. Natalie shares 5 game-changing strategies that helped her go from exhausted and depleted to present and thriving—including the exact moment her daughter's words made her realize she had completely lost herself in motherhood.

Do you look in the mirror and see tired eyes staring back? Are you constantly putting everyone else's needs first while running on fumes? Maybe you're already feeling resentful because you're doing everything yourself, but you don't know how to ask for help without feeling guilty. Or perhaps you've convinced yourself that self-care is selfish—another thing you "should" do but can never quite fit in. If you're nodding along, mama, this episode is your permission slip to stop surviving and start filling your own cup first.

After listening, you'll be able to:

• Identify what YOU actually need (emotionally, physically, mentally) instead of defaulting to what Instagram says self-care should look like
• Create a specific "Things You Can Do to Support Me" list that gets your family actually helping without nagging
• Set boundaries without guilt using the FOG vs. DIE decision-making framework (game-changer!)
• Find 2-5 minute "micro moments of care" throughout your day that reset your nervous system
• Use fall's natural energy to audit your life and let go of what's draining you

Natalie shares the pivotal moment that changed everything—when her 7-year-old's innocent observation revealed she'd completely lost herself trying to create the "perfect" experience for her family.

Discover what self-care REALLY means for moms and why neglecting yourself teaches your kids their needs don't matter either. Learn how to identify whether you're emotionally drained, physically exhausted, or mentally overwhelmed—so you can choose care that actually serves you.

Why your family wants to help but doesn't know how—and the exact framework for asking for support in specific, concrete ways. (Spoiler: "Can you help more?" doesn't work. "Can you handle bedtime on Tuesdays?" does.)

Never make decisions out of Fear, Obligation, or Guilt—only from Desire, Intention, or Excitement. Learn how to say no to what doesn't align with your values, even when people might be disappointed.

Forget waiting for hours of free time that never come. Discover how tiny moments throughout your day (yes, even 2 minutes!) can reset your nervous system and help you show up more present with your kids.

Just like trees shed their leaves, you can shed habits and commitments that no longer serve you. Learn how to do a simple life audit and simplify one area this season.

A quick recap of all 5 strategies plus your challenge: Choose ONE commitment to say no to this fall, and use that time to nourish yourself instead.

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What's Inside This Episode: Stop chasing the myth of the perfect parent and discover why your "mistakes" might be the best thing you can give your kids.

In this episode, we're releasing impossible expectations, examining where they came from, and learning how repair actually strengthens your relationship with your children.

In This Episode You'll Discover:

• Why perfect parenting is a myth (and why that's actually wonderful news)
• Where your crushing parenting expectations really came from
• How to identify which expectations serve you and which don't
• Why your mistakes are actually gifts to your children
• The simple repair process that teaches emotional intelligence
• How to finally give yourself the grace you deserve

Pain Points We're Addressing:

• Feeling like you're failing as a parent
• Guilt over losing your patience
• Exhaustion from trying to do everything perfectly
• Comparing yourself to other moms
• Not knowing how to make things right after you mess up
• Carrying expectations that don't serve your family

Solutions:

• Release the myth of perfection and embrace "good enough" parenting
• Identify and question inherited or societal expectations
• Practice simple, effective repair with your children
• Model healthy imperfection and emotional regulation
• Focus on connection over perfection

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Forget the flashcards and forced ABC lessons!

In this episode, Natalie sits down with early literacy expert Maria Golden from Growing in Literacy to reveal the truth about how children actually learn to read, and why most parents are starting in the wrong place.

Maria shares a shocking truth from her years in the classroom: Kids are arriving at school without the foundational skills they need to learn to read. Why? Because there's a critical hierarchy to literacy development that most parents don't know about.

After listening, you'll be able to:

• Understand the critical foundation skills kids need BEFORE they can read (and why schools skip this!)
• Use everyday moments—dinner conversations, car rides, nature walks—to build powerful literacy skills
• Make learning feel like play instead of work (your kids won't even know they're learning!)
• Balance technology mindfully while creating an educationally-rich home environment
• Build your child's love of learning that will last their entire lifetime
• Stop feeling guilty about not doing "enough" and recognize the learning already happening around you

Learning doesn't have to be another job on your endless to-do list. It's simply about being present, following your child's interests, and recognizing that education is happening all around you—in the bird outside your window, the rhyme in a silly song, the conversation at dinner, the story before bed.

Resources Mentioned:

Growing in Literacy: http://www.growinginliteracy.com

Connect with Maria Golden: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/growinginliteracy/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/growinginliteracy

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Think your toddler needs flashcards and worksheets to learn reading? Think again! 📚

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Maria Golden, educator, reading specialist, and mom of three—who reveals the shocking truth: by the time kids reach first grade, many already believe they're "bad at reading." 😢

What You'll Discover:

• Why teaching the alphabet first might actually be holding your child back
• The ONE foundational skill that 90% of kids are missing (hint: it's not letter recognition!)
• How a simple grocery store trip can become a powerful literacy lesson
• The "storytelling game" that builds comprehension skills without a single worksheet
• Why vocabulary matters more than you think—starting from the womb!
• Practical, play-based strategies that fit into your already chaotic day

Perfect for: ✅ Parents of toddlers and preschoolers ✅ Moms who feel overwhelmed by "educational activities" ✅ Anyone worried their child will struggle with reading ✅ Parents looking for screen-free learning ideas

Key Takeaways: 🎯 Rhyming comes before letter recognition 🎯 Vocabulary building starts at age 1 (or earlier!) 🎯 Sound awareness doesn't need visual letters 🎯 Learning happens naturally through conversation 🎯 You don't need to be a teacher—just be intentional

Resources Mentioned:

Growing in Literacy: http://www.growinginliteracy.com

Connect with Maria Golden: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/growinginliteracy/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/growinginliteracy

Next Episode: Stay tuned for Part 2 where Maria shares specific activities and games you can start TODAY!

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Are you waiting anxiously for report cards, only to be blindsided by struggles your child has been facing for months? Do you feel guilty that you don't know what's really happening in your child's classroom, but you're too overwhelmed to figure out how to connect with teachers? In this episode, we share exactly when and how to check in with your child's teacher throughout the school year—without being "that" helicopter parent. You'll learn the four critical life skills that matter more than grades and how to advocate effectively for your child's unique learning needs. After listening, you'll be able to:

• Schedule strategic teacher check-ins at the right times (without overwhelming yourself or the teacher)
• Ask the exact questions that uncover what's really happening with your child's learning
• Understand the 4 foundational life skills that predict success better than grades ever will
• Advocate confidently for your child's accommodations and learning needs
• Support your child's learning at home in fun, practical ways (no boring worksheets required!)

The truth? Parents who do fall check-ins have children who are more successful, less stressed, and better supported throughout the entire school year.

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Do you ever feel like “fall fun” just becomes one more thing on your to-do list? Between pumpkin patch photos, school events, and endless to-dos, it’s easy to lose the joy of the season. In this episode of Mom Life Uncomplicated, this reminds us that fall doesn’t have to be perfect to be meaningful. We share simple, realistic ways to slow down, create connection, and find peace in the middle of motherhood’s daily chaos.

In This Episode You’ll Learn:

• How to reduce the pressure to create “perfect” fall memories

• Simple ways to make family time more meaningful (and less stressful)

• Why slowing down helps you connect more deeply with your kids

• How to shift your mindset from doing more to being present

• Real-life examples of easy, joy-filled fall activities

You don’t need to do it all to make this season special, your presence is what makes it memorable.

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In today’s world, managing screens can feel like a full-time job. In this episode of Mom Life Uncomplicated, Natalie McCabe, shares real-life stories and practical tools to help you set healthy screen time boundaries without losing your sanity. She’s walking you through how to guide your kids toward mindful tech use at every age, from toddlers to teens. In This Episode You’ll Learn:

• The age-by-age screen time guidelines that actually work for real families
• How to teach media literacy from toddlerhood through the teen years
• Smart strategies for managing transitions and avoiding meltdowns
• Why emotional regulation is the secret weapon in screen time sanity
• How to create a “calm corner” that helps your child reset after tech time
• The importance of modeling healthy screen habits yourself

Remember, mama — the goal isn’t to eliminate screens; it’s to raise mindful, emotionally strong kids who can use technology intentionally.

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Are you exhausted from entertaining your high-energy child 24/7, neglecting your other kids, and still feeling like you're failing? Hi, I'm Natalie McCabe. I'm here with Joy Robertson, an early childhood educator with decades of experience who's also a single mom who raised three boys through real struggles—poverty, trauma, and burnout. In this episode, we're talking about why the first five years of brain development are critical and how to parent with intention without burning yourself out. In this episode you’ll learn:

• Why the first five years of child development are the foundation for lifelong learning and resilience

• How modeling emotions (the real and the messy) helps children regulate their own big feelings

• Why play isn’t just for kids—and how parents can reconnect with their own inner child

• The truth about parenting balance (hint: it changes daily!)

• Practical tips for breathing, regulating stress, and infusing more joy into family life

If you’ve been feeling the pressure of doing it all, this episode is your reminder that joy, play, and small intentional shifts can transform your parenting journey.

Resources & Links Mentioned:

Website: https://teacherofjoy.com/ Grab Joy Robertson’s book: How to Teach Joy

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👉 Book a free 1:1 coaching call → https://nataliemccabe.com

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